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Archived questions from: 19 December, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Keeps pictures of his ex on his computer.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

19 December 2010 (F) - why does my boyfriend keep pictures of his ex on his computer and a picture of both of them together as his desktop screensaver? Why does he say that he has a lot of love for her but he loves me.He has been with me for almost a year now. Any advice...

If I tell her, i'd break her heart.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

19 December 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been going out close to a year now. When i first met her she seemed to be wonderful and so motivated! Always on top of things and busy etc. Well she made me so happy and basically made my head spin just being around her. I ...

He says the same thing, what does this mean

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4884 days ago

19 December 2010 (F) - so there is this guy who looks at me a lot but talks to other girls and he talks about that he dumped his gf and he doesn't want gf if he doesn't need girl friend so why he stare at me all the time even my friends caught him staring but when i ...

He apologized but still wants to be apart.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

19 December 2010 (F) - Hi every one.First thing, I am sorry for my english. I am learning, but I will try to explain what's going on. I am married for 3 years, my husband left me because he said that he doesn't have future with me. He wants to move out of the country ...

Help, I can't be without him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4884 days ago

19 December 2010 (F) - I broke an ultimatum with my boyfriend and he broke up with me. I want to just die! I promised I wouldn't do shots anymore, and that night I did one. But at the time I really didn't think it was a huge deal. I was leaving, and someone bought the ...

Should I stay with him and put up with drama?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

19 December 2010 (F) - I just got in a relationship with a guy I used to be head over heels for 6 years ago. We lost touch and have both gone through some pretty hard times but a few months ago we made our way back to each other. Things started off pretty rocky... He's a ...

Feel weird of jealous about flirting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

19 December 2010 (?) - A girl i have gone to school with since i was 12 has recently become single. shes always had a thing for my bf of a year and they had a 'thing' a couple years before me and him got together. my bf was out the other night and he told me that they got...

I love him, but I don't feel sparks

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

19 December 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. Our relationship is amazing in so many ways. We have a very stong emotional connection and laugh alot together. We still have a good sex life and I love cuddling him. However, something that has often ...

Haven't seen him in years, am I doing the right thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4884 days ago

19 December 2010 (F) - Okay so I am completly in love with this guy Bobby. I met him when I was 16 he was and is everything I want in a man. He broke my heart when I was 16 he left me for someone who was suppose to be my friend. He isnt a good person he robs everyone he ...

Should I wait for him to text, I don't want to seem to eager?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4884 days ago

19 December 2010 (F) - Do you think this sounds ok so far ?. I spoke to this guy i like on the phone tonight, and he said that he had been worried because i hadn't spoken to him much, although, i did get back to him eventually. He rang me three times tonight , he had to ...

Can we be friends when he's moving on and my heart aches?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

19 December 2010 (F) - It could be a saying that TIME HEALS the PAIN. But when Im sensing these lines, its become unfulfilling. My 2 broken relationships have left me devastated and being unable to think of anyone is all because of the trust and fear if the person who l...

Why is he acting this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

19 December 2010 (F) - My bf and i have been dating for a year and a half now.I also have a 3 year old daughter,which is not his,he treats her like his own and treats me well and always buys me anything i want.When we started dating we saw each other about 4 times ...

We've been out to dinner and she likes that I call her, but she doesn't want to see me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

19 December 2010 (M) - Hello friends am 20 and have never had a gf ( btw i'm not the ugliest of guys!). There's this girl i really like, quite friendly and pretty. Ok, we have gone out for dinner once, and she is always happy when i call her, but the problem is she doesnt ...

Ideas please on How to take our holiday romance to next level?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4882 days ago

19 December 2010 (M) - I went on a group tour to italy as a single traveler. Anyways, on the tour I met a cute woman who is also a single traveler. During the free time when most of the people go with their partner or travel companion I have went around with this woman. ...

Can remaining single have a negative impact on a person?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

19 December 2010 (?) - If a person remains single, does anyone think it can a negative impact on said person mentally? Are there positive consequences to be had? Perhaps a deeper sense of self, or greater self sufficiency? What do you think? I am not talking about jumping ...

Should I ring him when he tells me to, or do I play hard to get and ring him another day?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

19 December 2010 (F) - Do you think it's better to ring a guy when he tells you to, or is it better to play hard to get and ring another day ?. This guy i like wants me to ring him tonight, but we are only going to be casual with each other, not in a proper relationship, ...

Why does he still want to see me after I treated him so poorly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

19 December 2010 (F) - I met this guy online about 6 months ago. He lives out of town but is in town every few months. The first time we met we hit it off and as we had been speaking for about 2 months there was definately some sexual chemistry. We slept together and had ...

Should I be supportive and let him work out what he wants by himself? Or should I just walk away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

19 December 2010 (F) - I'm in a very strange situation - I met a guy a few weeks ago, went on a date with him, had a great time. since meeting him, he's called me every day, and we went out a couple of more times, and ended the dates with a kiss and a hug. He then got ...

Why text? Can't guys communicate bad news better than that?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

19 December 2010 (F) - I know there is this general perception that guys don't like talking on the phone (or generally in fact), but why do so many of them think texting as the sole method of communication is acceptable? I'd like a relationship with a man who wants to ...

Open relationships never work....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

19 December 2010 (F) - So I am in an open relationship with someone, let's call him Bob. I've never liked someone so much in my life but Bob had to move out of the country. We keep in touch and although I haven't seen Bob for 3 months, I can't get him out of my head. He's ...

He dumped me because I'm not his mother's choice!!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

19 December 2010 (F) - Hello there, I posted a previous question earlier, it was about my boyfriend, who i dated for quite a long time, our relationship was beautiful, we were deeply in love with each other and then he just ditched me in the minute out of nowhere saying t...

Diamonds are a girl's best friend???

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

19 December 2010 (F) - I love my boyfriend very much and he loves me, we have an amazing connection and we are best friends. He even says that I am his perfect match and he truly wants to marry me in a few years. He had one very serious relationship before me (they lived ...

17 and not interested in sex any more??? What is wrong with me???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

19 December 2010 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for just under 2 years, I'm 17 turning 18 and shes 16, for a while now we've been sexually active, which is great but lately I've put no effort into it and don't even think about sex which is really strange for me ...

Are there any honest men out there?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

19 December 2010 (F) - I'm 23 and have my own car and job. I'm an honest person who actually wants a relationship. Yet I've been burned twice this year by two players. I'm so sick and tired of being used. One guy cheated on me and dumped me by text message. The other guy ...

I want to spend time with my family too...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

19 December 2010 (F) - my bf is upset that i am always leaving him behind to spend time with my family. and whenever he is upset about this, he ignores me and tells me that i should just leave him alone. i would really like to make him feel better. but how? i dont think ...

The long and the short of it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

19 December 2010 (M) - I consider myself short at 5'8". I have always had a strong attraction to taller women. The taller the better. Is this normal... do most guys around my height feel this way and do very tall women feel that attraction to shorter men?...

Why does my boyfriend have another account on Facebook... as a woman???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

19 December 2010 (F) - Been in a relationship with a guy for two years, we only managed to see each other at weekends. I thought our relationship was good and was ready to take it to the next level, when I discovered by chance he has a profile on facebook under a ...

I just want a guy to respect me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

19 December 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am 18 years old i just got out of a 2 year relationship 4 months ago with a guy, im gunna call bob in this story haha but im redeemed and would like to start dating again. I just dont know where to look for a guy who repects me, trea...

He jokingly told me to get an abortion!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

19 December 2010 (F) - Hello, I need some little help here. First of all, me and my boyfriend are together for about 2 years and we love each other very much. We haven't had sex yet, but we're about to (both virgins). One of my greatest fears is "what if the c...

I just cheated on my boyfriend and didn't feel guilty!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

19 December 2010 (F) - I am in so much trouble. I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and everything is great. We love each other and I really don't want to lose him. But there's this other guy who likes me. I ignored him at first but now I'm actually interested in him ...

He doesn't want to spend christmas with my family...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

19 December 2010 (M) - My boyfriend has recently decided that he doesn't want to see his family anymore. They won't accept him being gay and after years of making an effort and trying to forget it, he's had enough. So with Xmas coming up, he won't be spending it with ...

I have a weakness for this other friend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

19 December 2010 (F) - I am in a relationship ive been with him for a few months but i need help? I have a friend who ive liked for a few years but he lives in a different state now and we only talk every so often but everytime we talk i feel something so special for him ...

The darker side of sex...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

19 December 2010 (F) - I'm in this wonderful relationship with a guy I really like. He's awfully sweet and really cares about me. He does does everything in his power to make me happy, so when I told him that I wasn't so sweet an innocent and liked things to be darker, ...

Is she annoyed at me for something I did?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

19 December 2010 (M) - I talked to a girl for 3 months. Fell in love. I asked her out 1.5 months after meeting. She had a bf but they broke up 2 weeks later. We finally went 'out' (i dunno if it was a date) but I didn't make a move. I thought I messed up but we talked ...

Should I date him instead of just being his FB?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

19 December 2010 (F) - Soo I have been having sex with this guy like every weekend .. And he's not my boyfriend like we are kinda like fuck buddies I guess but we only knew each other for like a couple weeks or like idk a month but the second night we met we were like ...

Is my boyfriend abusive???

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

19 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and have been dating for amost a month, we talked for 4 months before dating. My boyfriend and I are both sixteen... I would say my boyfriend and I are a lot more mature than most our age, being that we have both been through a lot. So ...

My boyfriend's sister keeps trying to break us up!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

19 December 2010 (F) - We're in middle school and I'm going to change the names for protection. Well my boyfriend and I have been going out for a little over a month and we really like each other. However, my boyfriend's sister, Mary was my friend but when i started ...

He's a waste of space!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

19 December 2010 (F) - I'm a 26 year old female with a 2 month old babe, my boyfriend is 22 and all he wants to do is rap, and worry about what he needs done or paid off, but anything i have to do is not important to him, his actions give it away, he doesnt do anything ...

Is she just being friendly or is there more to it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

19 December 2010 (M) - Hi all, nearly 22 year old male and never been on a date etc. A few nights ago I went out with my coursemates including this girl I didn't know very well. This girl and I got on pretty well. She asked me to dance with her (I refused at first...

First she's available, then not, rejected me, now she's jealous. Is it just me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

19 December 2010 (M) - ok there's this girl i've been friends with for 2 years. i was at the pub with her and sort of started having feelings for her. So i invited her over for dinner and cooked her a meal to die for. I really wanted to impress her so i pulled out all ...

Has he just grown 'used' to me now, after just eight months?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

19 December 2010 (F) - When I first became sexually active with my current boyfriend, it was really easy to make him cum though sex, oral or by hand. But 8 months later and its a lot harder too. Obviously he still does, but it takes a lot longer. At first I thought it was ...

Nothing makes me horny. Does this make me abnormal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

19 December 2010 (?) - Is it normal not to find the act of sex enjoyable? It's nice for the first five seconds and then Im no longer in the mood. I know it's a "mental" thing but I cant even imagine anything while having sex. I really can't ....nothing makes me horny, and ...

How is the best way to handle meeting the youngest daughter?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

19 December 2010 (?) - I'll make a long story short, I've been with my boyfriend nearly a year. When I first began seeing him, he had been separated from his wife. We lived 45 mins apart, he and I slowly established our relationship. A couple of months in to the ...

Why doesn't he want to do anal anymore? Is it me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

19 December 2010 (?) - Boyfriend and I have been dating two years, a while ago he asked me to try anal with him so i did. He liked the thought of it and it was something he always wanted to try. After we tried it he lost all desire to do it... which stinks cause i ...

I've been with my first boyfriend for around 3 months now and feel like its a doomed relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

19 December 2010 (F) - I've been with my first boyfriend for around 3 months now and feel like its a doomed relationship. I know that marriage can never be an option between us because of his jealousy (that is already showing) and our religious differences. I have be...

I really had no intentions of cheating on her...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

19 December 2010 (M) - So my girlfriend and I just broke up. She had found out i sent some pictures to some girls a few months back. I tried to tell her that it really meant nothing which it did. but was just called a liar. I mean yeah i've thought about other girls in ...