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Archived questions from: 24 December, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Two successful dates, but I'm not sure how much she likes me?

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24 December 2010 (M) - I've met a girl online. I am quite taken with her. We talked for a few days, maybe a week online then we decided to meet. It was a really good first date. No awkward silences, great conversation. After we parted, she text me saying that ...

Would this be a weird way to have our reunion?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4879 days ago

24 December 2010 (M) - A rather odd situation but here goes. When studying abroad for a few weeks a while ago I met a girl on one of the courses. Nothing much happened then but since I came back some months ago we have stayed in touch, talked a lot etc. long story sh...

Worried he'll leave me straight after we finally have sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 months now and we've been wanting to have sex, but don't know when the right time will come. But i'm afraid that after we have sex he'll leave me and won't love me anymore. Plus he acts diffrent around m...

My bf gave me a black eye. My Dad wants to meet him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - ok so my boyfriend hit me and gave me a black eye and i dont know whether to leave him or not because i'm kind of scared of him. My dad keep asking me to tell him where he lives because he wants to go round there but i dont really want to tell him ...

Urgent! Please: need more ideas for coupon book for Christmas

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - I'm making a coupon book for my boyfriend for Xmas. I need ideas of what to give him with hem. I already have a "free 45 min backrub", "free clean any room in the house spotless with in 2 hours", a "get out of trouble free coupon" and a "ZERO ...

Week old relationship and already fighting. Is this a bad sign?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4878 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - I'm in a really new relationship, we've only been dating for a week now. I've noticed that we have quite a few differences and don''t always get along. He tends to not always think before he speaks and I get upset sometimes. We also live about an ...

Does he really love me, or was he just drunk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - I honestly dont know what to believe. So the guy i like and he likes me back called me the other night and he was all like ''wassup baby.'' We just talked for a while and i knew something was wrong. So i told him i'd call back later. So he started ...

Can't blank out my ex. Still compliments me but no longer fancies me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - my ex always compliments me. he dumped me a couple of months back but i cant get over him. i tried to hate him but he broke up with me so gently i ended up hating myself for not going out with him sooner. i started becoming depressed and he never ...

Guys should I tell my ex that I really like him still?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4878 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - Ok this question I mainly for guys but girls can answer too:) so I really really like my ex again... But he started dating this girl recently.. He only asked her out because I said no..(he was in love with me) But now he really likes her. Me and ...

Am I crazy for wanting intimacy NOT leading to sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for seven months now and although we live 70 odd miles apart we see each other very frequently. He is 14 years my senior. He is a decent guy, we go out, he helps me with things, he cooks for me (if he's not taking me out). ...

I want to marry her, but she says we're just friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4879 days ago

24 December 2010 (M) - i'm in love with a girl but she said that we're friends but she does not behave like a usual friend. What should I do . I want to to marry her but she always refuse...

She's still in love with her baby's father. Will I get hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

24 December 2010 (M) - I met this girl about 6 weeks ago and right now we are in a friends with benefits type of relationship but it's really complicated. We go to school together and hang out a lot and we feel like we have a lot in common. The problem is that she just ...

I've love a few, but all end in tears. How do I date men who don't drop me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - I'm a divorcee and have suffered lot of physical and verbal abuse during one year of marriage. This happened 4yrs back and I'm single since then. Have entered into few relationship after that, but they were couple of years younger to me and unma...

It's Christmas, but how to break up with my girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4879 days ago

24 December 2010 (M) - Hi. I've been in a relationship for 19 months and at first, the 6 months and counting was fantastic. Not a problem whatsoever. But now, all we seem to do is fight and argue. She tells me that I annoy her whenever I try and speak to her and when ...

How do I get through this? He called to tell me to forget him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - I traveled from my country to another one, for a job, leaving my parents, my friends and everything. I met a guy that i loved so much. I liked the new country. Because of him and we spent a lot of happy times and great moments. But I found out,...

Is getting an AIDS test scary, how is it done?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - So in health class weve been talking about STDS and aids and how it is transmitted through any kind of sex. Two years ago i used to give my now ex blowjobs, but i usually didnt swallow the cum except for once or twice.But my health teacher told us ...

I have a suspicion he's being devious. How can I trust him again

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend off and on over 2 yrs,it usually only lasted 3 months at a time but this time we've been together for 7 months.I have trust issues because he has lots of girl friends and many of them he met on internet date ...

He is everything I've ever wanted in a man, but can I take this chance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - I am a 35 year old single mother of one 8 year old girl. I was with her father for 13 years before he decided to leave. He is still in her life but we do not get along due to his verbal abuse and disrespect. it took me a while to trust men again bu...

I'm in love with her but she is taken by someone better

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

24 December 2010 (M) - Im in love with this girl ive known her for about a year she has had the same boy freind for almost 10 months and im afriad she might fall in love with him i have never heard her say that she loves we are not best freind because im to afraid i...

How do I trust him when we're about to take the next step?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4879 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years now and to the outside world it's seemed like a fairytale romance. He's my first boyfriend because I always told myself to wait for the moment when it seemed perfect, and it did. We had rough ...

She wants me to ask out the guy I like...for her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - i kinda like this boy, but i never told anyone he is about 1/2 years older he always smile at me on the bus and i laugh at him with my friends and stuff like that but then afterwards my friend liked him but i never told her i like him and she wants ...

Why do men TRY to be misleading?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - Why do guys insist on doing purposely sweet things knowing it’s forced and insincere, knowing you already don’t buy it, but just to con you, do it anyways. God , if I’m trying to see the relationship for the whatever the heck it really is, I’m ...

I like him, but I do not know how to express it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - There is a guy at work who I think has a crush on me for awhile. He used to walk by cubicle and look into my mirror so I would notice him. He would smile and look away. Then, I took notice and eventually liked him. I said "hi" to him and then the ...

Why do I think loving someone is weak?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

24 December 2010 (?) - I'm really torn within myself. I'm confused. I have the desire to be with a woman, to give myself to her completely. I have cravings for a good, loving partner. But for some reason I hate myself for it. I feel that if somehow I fulfill my desire for ...

He didn't get me anything for Christmas! Does that mean he's not into me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend didn't get me anything for Christmas. We've only been dating a month. He is visiting family overseas right now so I sent him a present. He knew I was giving him something but still didn't get me anything. Should I take this to mean ...

No girl has shown interest in me since the break up

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

24 December 2010 (M) - So broke up with my girl friend about a month ago and no other girl has shown any interest in me at all and I'm starting to think that no other girls in my area have any interest in me and it's really bummin me out. What do? ...

I lied to my boyfriend about getting raped and being pregnant and he wants me to help raise the baby!!!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - Okay, I'm 14. My boyfriend (who's 13) and I are really close, so we tell each other everything. One day, I saw him talking to his friend, who I SWEAR was hitting on him (she was touching him and everything)!! So I (obviously) got upset... I didn't ...

Torn between 2 best friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4879 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - I have a HUGE problem... I am in a relationship with this really great guy, but I also have a GIANT crush on this other guy, let's call him G. And my bf name M. So, I think G keeps giving me hints that he likes me also, and I really want to be with ...

Am I right in thinking I need to get rid of him??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - Need to rant a bit and get some confirmation that I'm making the right decision because I don't trust myself anymore. I met this guy and fell for him. He seemed so nice and so interested. But then he started canceling plans last minute, and thin...

Is the invitation really to watch a movie, or is it something else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - I went on a blind date recently. It was great. There was a second date, a couple of days later. At the end of the date he finally kissed me for the first time. The guy seems to be very respectful and gentleman like. For our third date , he invited ...

Why is it wrong for the woman to make a decision about marriage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating about 2.5 years. We have a house together that we bought about a year ago. I have been ready for marriage since about our 2 year mark. I started discussing this with him a couple months ago. I know many people s...

Why do boys not like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid.... I have one big question. Why dont boys [ever] like me? I am about 5'4, have dirty blond thats about a little past my shoulders, greenish blueish eyes, have a GPA (grade point averge) of 3.7 out of 4 , im skinny (105 pounds) but...

I'm in love with a girl who doesn't like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

24 December 2010 (M) - I'm 15, I have 2 girls who like me they are both nice and I would get with either of them but I fell in love with a girl who doesn't like me along time ago and we are best friends, I know she doesn't feel the way I feel about her so I'm not sure if ...

I'm not thinking straight, so could I get a second opinion about his being on these sites?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - To start at the very beginning, I had a boyfriend, I slept with him and he pretty much left me straight after he got "what he wanted". I ended up heartbroken. He did it over text as well which didn't help. I'm already 'clinically' depressed accordin...

Should I try to slow things down or just go fot it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4878 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - I'm a 45 year old divorced female. There's a 45 year old male that I'm interested in at work. Actually he lives on the opposite coast but travels to my town quite frequently. We work very closely together. I can tell there is definitely some ...

Lonely and hard of hearing

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - ok I'll be 23 in a few days and I've never had a boyfriend. I go to work and then come home. I'm not sure about going to bars or clubs because I'm half deaf and it's really hard to hear in loud places like that. I've also had the problem of guys not ...

Like this great Mexican guy, but am travelling whole of next year. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4880 days ago

24 December 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, Socorro!! Please help me!! This is a job for King Soloman, but he was busy, and you aunts at DC are the next best thing. I´m really in a bind, and the only solution I can think of is to just cut myself in half... but that would...