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Dating: Help and advice

Feeling unworthy...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4899 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) - I met this guy in 2009 and he was very charming. We had unprotected sex and I got pregnant. Then I realised that he was a cheater and told him to leave me alone. During my pregnancy he visited me every month and said he wanted to marry me but he ...

With red hair and blue eyes, why haven't I found a man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4899 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) - I am 19 years old, and I have never had a boyfriend. I read things online about people my age not having boyfriends, but then their guy always comes when 'they least expect it'. I guess my problem is, I've given up, and stopped looking for one, and...

How can I get him to strike a balance with his gaming?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for two years now; got engaged a year ago. We're getting married in March (St. Patty's Day theme) and he's obsessed with video games. Now, of course I understand that guys and girls alike have an immense interest...

When we have sex he just lies there and I'm always the one to make the first move!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4899 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) - Okay me and my boyfriend have been together going on 8 months we get along great and we live together and in 8 months we have only had 3 arguments which is a record in my book but our sex life is not that great. at first it was but then he kept ...

To tell, or not to tell...that is the question!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) - I need some advice and would like to know what people think i should do. A couple of weeks ago i went to an engagement party and the chemistry between the barman and i was incredible. I caught him looking at me in the mirror loads and i was very a...

Lately it feels like my boyfriend doesn't want to spend time with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) - Lately it feels like my boyfriend doesn't want to spend time with me. i haven't seen him in a while and we had made plans and he says hes going out instead of being with me. when we haven't seen each other in awhile. am i tripping or is there ...

How soon does it take to get used to wearing a condom?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

4 December 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend had full sex for the 1st time last night. I wore a condom.We both wondered beforehand if we'd feel the condom.My g/f said she couldn't and actually sighed a bit with pleasure so I was really pleased. The only thing af...

What will my family think???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) - I'm 18 an african american. the man I'm currently seeing is a 36 year old korean man who is divorced with two kids and has them on weekends. I never expected to be dating a man this much older than me but on the other hand my mom dated my dad when ...

Why would he tell me this now after a year?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) - Well I have a concern about my boyfriend. Just yesterday he decided to tell me that last year he went to Q-trip to get gas for his truck. There was this female that he uses to date she approaches him and asks him for $5.00. “Why” would he just now ...

He says he loves me but cannot take care of me... what gives?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4899 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I of 5 years tells me he loves me very much and he cares for me but cannot take care of me. Does that mean he loves me but is not in love with me? I am confuse. ...

She said she can't live with me any more... help!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4899 days ago

4 December 2010 (M) - My GF and I recently moved in together in Oct. IM 28 and she is 24. Basically the relationship has moved fast we have only been together for 7 months. We love each and each others company. I thought it would be best to wait at least until spring ...

I made a terrible mistake...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) - I made a terrible mistake... I got together with my classmate, who was my best friend, and I really really liked him. But my relationship with my ex didn't end "completely" because he said he would come back to me later, and I thought about him ...

Wanting more...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

4 December 2010 (M) - I am in a relationship with a guy for the past 6 months, he is a great guy but i find myself wanting more than what he wants. I have had a rough childhood and my dad was an alcoholic and never had a relationship with him, therefore i have a problem ...

We can't seem to stop fighting...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4899 days ago

4 December 2010 (M) - Hello there, My girlfriend (27) and I(30) cant stop fighting , we are together now over 3 years and have a 2 and half year old son. I think at the end of the day we are only together because of him. We live together and currently I run a scuba ...

When would be a good time if ever to try getting her into my life again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4899 days ago

4 December 2010 (M) - So here is the short of it - woman who was married to a man with severe mental issues and addictions - we became friends - we had a brief affair after a year of being close and then it turned into a physical thing but I felt emotional connection and ...

Will stopping masturbation make me feel more horny?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

4 December 2010 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for about 3 weeks now, and I notice that sexually she has so much of a sex drive. I, on the other hand, am one to want to do these sexual things but i noticed whenever we manage to at least make out, i may get somewhat ...

I've had it with the baby mama drama!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4898 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for some months now. I am 21 and he is 24. He has 2 kids from a previous relationship with 2 different women. I met my boyfriend way back almost 6 years ago true significant friends and we've been friends ever then but ...

Still in love with my ex, however, she wants to be friends

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

4 December 2010 (M) - Hey guys, To explain the extent of my problem I'd have to go back into my relationship to the Summer. My girlfriend and I had been dating for half a year at that point (I realize thats not very long). She had just moved into her first apartment,...

Where can I meet women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

4 December 2010 (M) - I need some help on where to meet women, here's the situation. I recently got a full time job and I like this job. Because of my recent success I want to find a girlfriend, but I'm having a hard time socializing and meeting women. My network of ...

How do I tell him we need to see each other more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) - So I've been seeing this guy since the middle of summer and offically dating him for three months. We get along great together but rarely see each other because of our busy schedules. It absolutely kills me. I want him to know that and want to tell ...

Is she interested in me, or just friendly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4899 days ago

4 December 2010 (M) - It has been almost 8 months since my last relationship and I am at the point where I am ready to be with someone again. I go to a smaller school and I met someone in my class that is really cute, funny, good looking, and has a great personalit...

When we're away I miss him but when together I worry I wont miss him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) - I am 45 and have been chatting with a guy from another city and he is 10 years younger. We've seen each other twice in the past 6 months and we've been intimate; but i am unsure of my feelings for him. When I am not with him I miss him but I w...

I'm so shy and never know how to get a guy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) - I am so shy and never know how to get a guy!!!! I'm in 8th grade and I've slow-danced three times in my whole life. I never ask the guy because I'm scared of rejection or awkwardness, and im also old-fashioned because i feel like the guy should ask. ...

Is height an issue for guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) - Hello, I have a question for the guys out there. Do you mind if your girlfriend or your crush is taller than you? I only ask because I am starting to believe I like this one guy, but I am 5'6" and he is 5'2" so therefore i am taller. So i am c...

My boyfriend won't date virgins so I lied and told him that I wasn't one, but I am!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4899 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) - hello ha well i have a boyfriend that is five years older than me .... and he and i have been dating for 3 months already? ihave played with myself many times but i might have told him a lie and idk what to do about it ... well i told him iwasnt ...

I have trouble keeping a date!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) - Let's face it. I have trouble keeping a date. Maybe because I'm deaf and he's hearing, communicating is difficult. Or maybe it because I'm ugly, and I tried hard to pretty up. Maybe I gave up too soon after I've been trying too much or too little. ...

Crushing on my teaching assistant, how do I let her know?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

4 December 2010 (M) - I'm crushing on a graduate student...who also happens to be my TA. She's almost 4 years older than me (I'm 20), and is very beautiful in and out. She knows me by name and all and we tend to have a lot of one-on-one discussions, so we already have a ...

I think my boyfriend could do so much better than me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) - sigghh. i have so much i want too tell my boyfriend. like the fact that i think he could do SO MUCH BETTER THAN ME, because of my past i refer to my self as abnormal i do have a lot wrong with me, and i really love him and want the best for him.. ...

I need advice on writing a letter, to my boyfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) - I want some advice really on writing letters. I have a very hard time explaining myself verbally so I have been thinking about writing a letter to my boyfriend to explain about things I have not been able to fully explain but that I want and need to ...

Is this just a phase or should we call it a day?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and its been amazing we're both so happy. But the last month we're constantly fighting and on and off, but we don't last an hour without gettin back together. Is it time to call it a day or how do we ...

Do I try to talk to her again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

4 December 2010 (M) - Gotta a quick question for anyone who wanta to send some advice over I havnt been in a relationship in over 2 years. It did last a year in a half. Im not ugly, in peak physical condition, i try to be the best i can be to all people yet no gi...

Should I tell her I really like the guy she loves?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

4 December 2010 (F) - Since 8th grade of 2009, a friend has liked this boy. She tells me she in love with him and I understand why. Im In 9th grade now and I was in front of my house with my dog and I see him walking with some friends and he says hi to me cause my best ...