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Dating: Help and advice

Should we go back to a committed relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - I'm now in an open long-distance relationship with this guy. We used to be in a close distance committed relationship for 7 months but after he moved to Asia for a new job, he admitted that he felt too hard to stay committed as he felt like a kid in ...

If I tell her I cheated she may not accept my proposal!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

28 December 2010 (M) - Please 1. what processes do i need to go through during love making (sex) to make my girl smiling during and after sex. 2. I've faulted my girl by having sex with another girl because she refuse my advances. So do i tell her that i did cheat on ...

We hardly get to spend any time together...

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28 December 2010 (F) - I'm 18 and my boyfriend and i rarely go anywhere. We used to work together so i was all right with it because i got to talk to him and he would take me home and pick me up everyday. But i got laid off and he didn't. now he works 5 days a week an...

I would do anything to save her or let her love me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4874 days ago

28 December 2010 (M) - So thank you for reading my problem and all advice would be extremely helpful. So in the beginning of october I was dating a sophomore(HS) and im a junior(HS) but things just werent working out and i dropped all interest in this girl and just let ...

My girlfriend slept with other men and now I can't touch her without seeing them...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

28 December 2010 (M) - I met this girl back in March of 09. We had a lot of fun and built a relationship for a month before having sex. Over the next year and a half we fell apart and a lot of it was she has a lot of problems with her self esteem. I really love this girl ...

I love him but at the same time I can't stand him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4796 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - Hi im realy confused at the moment just need some advice off someone that isnt my family. so if you could read this and help i would be greatful. Here goes..... I've been together with my boyfriend for 10 yrs today we have two boys together under t...

Guy with Aspergers sundrome seeking dating advice.

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28 December 2010 (M) - Hello, I am an adult male with Aspergers Syndrome, who is trying to have a fulfilling dating life. The problem is, with Aspergers, I don’t see the connection between myself and the other person so readily. An example would be, someone would te...

His parents believe in no sex before marriage!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4846 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - hi, recently lost my virginity to my boyfriend! We've been going out for about 6 months and we felt we were ready. He and i were virgins at the time. But a few days after i found out from a friend that his mum and dad are very religious people and ...

I don't feel guilty at all cheating on him? What is wrong with me seriously?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4875 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - Hey, So I'm 20 years old, been with my boyfriend for over 2 years and I honestly do love him, he's literally my best friend. We broke you back in February cause I found out he used to think of other girls while we were having sex. I know it seems ...

Is it my own insecurities or is he in the wrong here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - Im in a relationship with a guy I have known for a long time and we now have a baby together. I really love him and want to be his wife one day, but I always think hes cheating if hes not with me I think hes cheating of flirting I hate for him to be ...

We love one another very much, but we can't go on like this...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. Our relationship has had many ups and downs. We're very different people and we've both gone through major crises while being together. It put a lot of stress on our relationship. The last year has ...

What if you do not find your boyfriend attractive anymore?

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28 December 2010 (F) - I'm 18 and I don't know whats wrong with me I just do not find my boyfriend attractive anymore. And I don't want to break his heart because he loves me very much. And he's starting to realize it because I've been moody and distant. ...

Help needed! How can I get her to give me one last chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

28 December 2010 (M) - ok heres my problem, my gf and i broke up because i would unknowingly take out my anger on her and i would disobey her after she strictly told me not to do something. ive begged her multiple times for a final chance to make things better but she ...

Is feeling sad my only option?

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28 December 2010 (F) - Hello aunts, I realize that I´m setting myself up to be judged for my feelings, but I just wanted to clarify one thing. I would NEVER, EVER have an affair, or wreck someone´s home. I´m NOT like that. I´m so lost that I´m not sure what to ask...

Snogging Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - Hey :) I'm 13 and I love my boyfriend alot ((: Trouble is, he wants to snog me! I really want to but I don't want to fail at it. :/ Any tips? Also I wanna go further with him but not as far as sex. how do I tell him? ...

Is he going to get over this and come back to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4862 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - I'm a mess over this. I have been dating this guy for 9 months and although we never made it exclusive it was obvious that we wanted and liked each other. He is a very proud and kind of jealous person. Things were going well and I was looking ...

How do you choose between two guys that are a little alike?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - How do you choose between two guys that are a little alike? I'm dating one of then but I'm really falling in love with the other guy as well. The guy I'm dating hardly has any time for me and the other guy would have a lot more time for me. The ...

Is he only wanting me for the sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4875 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - I've been dating this guy in the military. its been two years. he still doesnt want me as his girlfriend, now im starting to think it just about the sex to him... he really only texts me. he even told me he was talking to someone else and i said ...

Is her friend holding her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4860 days ago

28 December 2010 (M) - hello i need some advice on what to do i have wrote before about my girlfriend calling me controlling and manipulative, thats the reason she left. anyway she got into a relationship with another girl and it didnt work out, now she wants to come ...

Should I forgive him for the flirty texts since he forgave me for my indescretions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship for the better part of 3 years with a guy I absolutely adore. The beginning of our relationship was difficult- He is a social guy with lots of obligations (not sure if anyone has dated a drum line drummer but you would ...

I want a boyfriend too!!!

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28 December 2010 (F) - i am a 14 year old girl and my best friend always has a boyfriend and i dont always want one but then i do and i just dont know what to do plz help :)...

My ex won't leave my head!

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28 December 2010 (?) - I've been with my boyfriend for about a year now but i cant seem to get over my ex boyfriend(lets say A is his name). well A and i try to stay away from each other cause as long as we are together we both wanna be in each others arms, but i have ...

Is she wrong to begin a relationship with me again when she still has feelings for another?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

28 December 2010 (M) - five years ago I began dating a wonderful woman, after 1-2 months, she dumped me to be with another man. Five years later, she asks me to take her back, we begin a serious realtionship and even talked about marriage. 6 months later she dumps me for ...

Having girl troubles!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4875 days ago

28 December 2010 (M) - ahhhhh help i think i ran into an relathionship too fast. someone please tell me how to handle this. i dont want to hurt her she asked me out. idk what to do. i been stress out about not being in a relship but now i am i just dont know if i could ...

I'm in a relationship but thinking of experimenting.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

28 December 2010 (M) - I am in a pretty serious relationship with a girl I love very much. I can see myself spending forever with her, and she is open to experimenting and doing all types of things, and has opened me up quite a bit. I feel very comfortable with her. ...

She basically did everything possible that hurt me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4874 days ago

28 December 2010 (M) - I have a question about an ex girlfriend. we met during our freshmen year in high school and went out for 3 years. i thought all throughout everything was good with the exception of a few arguments throughout the way but doesnt every couple argue ...

How do I stop being overpossive of my girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4862 days ago

28 December 2010 (M) - I'm a guy. I think i'm over possessive over my girlfriend. Any guy who just posts on her Facebook wall will make me feel uneasy. Then I will start to be doubtful. I keep telling myself they are just friends (which I THINK it is true) Recent...

Am I blinded to think that this relationship has hope?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

28 December 2010 (M) - I met my girlfriend 1 yr ago and we've been together since then. I am 34 years old and she is 25. After we got together officially, she told me that she had sex with a guy she met at a club when we were dating. It bothered me but I accepted it ...

Pregnant, Jealous - how do I stop? urgent help needed!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - Hi, I will try and keep this short. Basically I am 3 months pregnant to my live-in boyfriend. Before I got pregnant (this time), his ex (who has a new partner and child) would call him every week or so and despite us being together for 2 years, ...

Is it possible to have sex without breaking the hymen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - hello i m 22 years old and i have a boyfrnd, he is also of 22. we had just oral sex. he wants to come more closer i mean anal sex. i want too but i have some problems. we r not sure that we will merry or not, we want to but depends on circumstances...

I want to ask him to prom but what if he makes up some lame excuse?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4875 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - I've been thinking lately about this kid. I love him, and I want to ask him to my prom, but I'm so nervous and the perfect time to ask is coming real soon. I don't know what to say or do if he rejects me. What if he doesn't feel comfortable? What if ...

I'm stuck having too choose a good relationship or sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - I'm 24 been with my bf for 3years we live together.I know its stupid to base your self worth on the way your boyfriend treats you sexually. I'm in a constant battle with myself about it. I feel like an invisible tool. My boyfriend watches porn ...

I feel really intimidated by a girl I'm attracted to

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4875 days ago

28 December 2010 (M) - I've fallen for this girl I met in the first week of class this fall (I'm 18, she's 19, we're both in college) but she seems so far out of my league. I don't know what I should do now, should I just give up? I feel like there's no way a girl like ...

My boyfriend's smoking addiction is turning me off

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28 December 2010 (F) - Hi all! Thanks for taking the time to read this! When my boyfriend and I started dating, I didn't know that he smoked. He never did it around me and I didn't think to ask since I never saw him smoking. One day though, the topic came up and I ...

Supposed to be getting married but I am unsure

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - I am just not sure and feeling very anxious. i'm engaged to be married to my boyfriend in August. I live with him. We are both in our 40's. However I am happy just living together at the moment but he wants to get married,as he keeps saying I have ...

How do I talk to her and tell her I like her?

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28 December 2010 (M) - Hi friends iam a 16 year boy i just want to know that i have a girl in my class and i like her very much. Whenever she saw me in the class i passes away the smile to her and she also sometimes replies by smiling. Problem is that i dont have the cour...

How can we get back to being BF and GF again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - I like a boy a lot but i pushed him away and started calling him "brother" or "Browdy" and he started calling me sister and i hate it because i love him and i have loved him since 2008 and i dont like it when he calls me sister because to me it ...

I'm 18 and never been in a relationship, so how do I tell if she likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

28 December 2010 (M) - Hi, used to see dis girl in the church, any time we were in the service we normally stare at each, i really like dis girl, but i don't whether she feel d same i'm. The problem is that i have never been into a relatioship before. I'm 18....

How can I get an honest take on his thoughts on marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I recently got back together. We were a couple for three and a half years and broke up for three months this year. We've only been back together for a week, though we remained in the "working-it-out" stage for the majority of our ...

Is he interested in me? Her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4860 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - the other day my brother went on a roadtrip, he'll be gone for a week. his friend (who I am really in to) came to say bye and what not. as his buddy (A) was leaving a friend told him that he could still come over and hang out with me, teach me to ...

Getting a fresh start and need some insight as to why I've never been successful with girls

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4875 days ago

28 December 2010 (M) - I'm 25 and have never had a girlfriend. I've never dated and have never really kissed anyone either. (Ok...maybe one or two kisses in my past after having a few drinks at the bar. That's neither here nor there though.) I have a college degree. ...

Are chivalry and fidelity things of the past?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - After getting my heart broken about a year and a half ago. Am I naïve to still believe in chivalry and fidelity? ...

At 16, should I have already started having relationships?

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28 December 2010 (M) - i am a 16 year old guy and i have never had any type of relationship with a girl. i haven't even kissed one and most of my friends have already, well you know. is this normal or should i hurry it up?...

Boyfriend called me a tart!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - im 14 and me and my bf have been dating for about 5 months and im not gonna lie i have had sex with him and not just once but any waay im a street dancer and me my boyfriend knows i wear shorts and belly tops alot and when im with him he doesnt mind ...

Sometimes I need space! My girlfriend just doesn't understand!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

28 December 2010 (M) - So me and my girlfriend have been together for about 4 years now, first 2 years were fine but the last 2 are getting worse, always trying to look through my phone on who I talk to and what about, everytime I plan something with friends she pulls the ...

We have a crazy history together but I'm trying to just be friends with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - I started dating this guy about 9 months ago. After a couple of months we both kind of grew apart romantically but became really good friends. We would share stuff about our romantic lives and things were going fine. Then I found out that I was ...

A short girl with a tall guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - i'm asian.. therefore, generally short. i'm somewhat concious of my height, even though i'm 5'3". i'm not exactly super short like some other girls, and not all that tall. I used to weigh 110 but after track and such, i'm around 115..making me more ...

Is it ever possible to stop loving someone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - I'm out at school and everyones completely cool with it , by there is a girl I have liked for like two years now it's heartbreaking seeing her with guys that just continuously screw her over and break her heart, I know I would never do that , but I ...

Is this really an orgasm?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - Ok im a 18 year old female I lost my virginity at 17 going 18 bit before then I would finger myself and had my boyfriend do it also and its like my whole body gets a really great feeling like I get all warm inside my stomach clit and pussy muscles ...