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writes:OK.The whole story about what happened is written below, my question is, I'm new at this, so how do I experience this relationship right?It's been a long time in the making, but today at a friend's birthday party, a guy I like that also amazingly likes me too asked me to be with himIt happened so fast, my stomach flipped the entire time he was talking to me.Our friends gave us privacy after we went outside to talk by closing the curtains, at which point I said "I should just come out and say it, but you know I really like you, right?" to himHe smiled and said he'd had a feeling that I did, at which point he couldn't talk, he was so nervous, he then said that he had this whole speech prepared, I prompted him to just say it to me and so he turned to me and just said "You're an amazing girl, and I want to spend more time with you but as more than just a friend"My stomach and heart collided at that point, it was just so sweet. Of course I said yes straight away, and we hugged. ^^So, again, what can I do to make my first official relationship work? We're spending new years eve together, seeing local fireworks. Any tips? Reply to this Question
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reader, Eromilias +, writes (30 December 2010):
Eromilias is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks so much Odds for your reply.
^.^ I'll keep what you've said in mind, I'll be sure not to over think things and give ourselves time to get comfortable with this new experience.
Thanks again,
-Eromilias
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reader, Odds  +, writes (29 December 2010):
 Great for you!
Keep things simple. Trying to remember a dozen rules and tips is only going to confuse you. So, I'll give you this one.
You're going to hear thigns that make you wonder what he's thinking, you're going to say things that make him get defensive, you're going to fight, you're going to screw up a little. When this happens, stop, take a deep breath, and think for a minute. Disagreements and misunderstandings happen, the key is not to make decisions or say anything while we're mad. Take things slow and think them through. Good luck.
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