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female
age
30-35,
*aliswoman
writes:I met this guy at a birthday party and I liked him immediately!Later I found out that my best friend really likes him as well, eventhough she never really talks to him. Me and him became friends right away and had fun, which made her mad. Later me and him started writing messages and we went for a walk together with my dog and had some tea. i met him two weeks ago and we have been texting back and forth. Anyway, I never told my best friend. She told me yesterday that she chatted with him online and they talked about new years eve..and he invited us (her, another friend, and me) to celebrate with him and his friends. Now she probably thinks that he likes her. I already texted him that I can't go because I don't think it would be right eventhough that I really like him..but I don't want any drama. They are still celebrating together. I think my best friend is so selfish because we said we would celebrate together. Now I feel like I gave up the guy that I like and my best friend. I am very sad!
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (29 December 2010):
 hi
this doesnt sound like much of a best friend if she has chosen to spend new years eve with a guy that she hardly talks to rather than spend it with you as planned! you have done a nice thing for her by backing away from him and telling him you couldnt go party coz you and her both like him. how did he react when you told him that?? your friend however has not done the same favour for you, she's swooped in on the opportunity. you ever heard of the saying that goes 'fortune favours the bold'? that what this is. i hope he's disappointed that you are not present at the party and i hope that he spends the whole evening asking your friend about you!
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (29 December 2010):
 You and your bestie need to talk this through. You guys need to decide how to handle this. You can let him choose. You can choose yourselves. You can both deny your feelings. Whatever you decide, you two need to work this out if you're going to remain friends.
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