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Dating: Help and advice

I like my girlfriend's sister

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

7 December 2010 (M) - I have a church mate, my co-member in the music ministry for about 3 years. We seems to have physical and personality attraction i guess. We have a good team up and one time her sister is teasing me to her. her sister even call's me up as a brother ...

Are my wife's actions cause for concern?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

7 December 2010 (M) - My wife works in a small office - there used to be seven women in one room with the other room occupied by her, the boss and another woman. After recent redundancies there are three women left in one room with just the boss and my wife in the other. ...

Need positive advice on feelings for a married man!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

7 December 2010 (F) - Dear who ever is reading this. I feel a sense of wrong. I've been friends with a guy for about 2 years. Our friendship was always quite flirty but I have quite a few quite a few male friends that are married or have girl friends and I've always ...

Could his virginity and our long distance relationship equal future problems?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

7 December 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, Where to begin... this past summer I was in Germany for three months. A man in the same office as me caught my eye (he is 28, I am 22), and a week before I left, we declared our love for each other, became a couple, discussed all th...

How do I know she is wet? Will I be able to feel it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

7 December 2010 (M) - So i'm pretty much just wondering how wet girls get when they're horny? I've been with my girlfriend for a while now and we have made out and i have felt her up and stuff, but nothing downstairs. I can tell she wants to move forward and do other ...

Could dating this older man spell trouble?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

7 December 2010 (F) - Basically I've gotten really close recently to one of the managers where I work (not my manager so has no real authority over me). The problem is there is quite a big age gap, I'm 19 and he's 35 neither of us has a problem with the age gap but I'm ...

Does he like me or not? I'm confused.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4896 days ago

7 December 2010 (F) - I like this guy. And he's real sweet and generally nice to everyone. During class, he usually minds his own business, we have choir (singing). Last Tuesday was my birthday. I didn't really tell anyone but my friends found out and they sang to me ...

He seems to be running away from his feelings, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4896 days ago

7 December 2010 (F) - I've known my guy friend for nearly four years and counting. For the most part, I'd say we had a healthy relationship. On a regular basis, we'd converse during the week to talk about family life, careers/ambitions, friends, dating, etc. Also, we ...

How do I improve my chances at dating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4896 days ago

7 December 2010 (M) - Dear Cupid, I have been single for most of my entire life, except for 3 brief relationships of which were not that great. One of those was a setup and the other 2 I met off a dating site. I have never actually asked a woman out on my own. I'm 26 a...

How do I tell a boy how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4896 days ago

7 December 2010 (F) - I really like this boy called William i am only 14 so its probably only love or lust or something but i have another problem this boy called Tom likes me and has told me and i really don't know what to do because i only like Tom as a friend and i ...

What kind of players are prowling around on plentyoffish.com?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

7 December 2010 (F) - Met a man on plenty off fish. We hit it off instantly.. The first couple of days after our first meeting was texting all day - phone calls even made time to sneaky a quick kiss.... We have seen each other several times in the short month we've know...

How can I open myself up to love again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

7 December 2010 (M) - I don't understand why I am so worried about being hurt or unable to love a girl. I just don't feel anything for any girl, just physical attraction nothing more, I went through a break up which left me confused of who I am, what I want and ...

I don't want to hurt him by turning him down but I don't want to date him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

7 December 2010 (F) - Hey, I'm 17 and I broke up with my long term boyfriend about a month ago. Theres always been this guy at school, let's call him Matt, that has been interested in me even before my ex came along. At the time, I liked Matt too but then tragically ...

Why do I cry every time I leave my boyfriend's house?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4896 days ago

7 December 2010 (F) - why do i cry everytime i leave my boyfriends house? I see him maybe once a week and it still affect me because idk when i will see him again. I miss him and am not at all needy. I just get a big feeling of sadness a couple minutes before i have to ...

I just feel so directionless!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

7 December 2010 (M) - Recently, well its been a feeling for some time but more prominent at the moment, I just feel so directionless! My life isn't going anywhere. I'm 21, never had a girlfriend, sex, never even had a proper kiss, no female friend. I'm quite shy ...

Texting her ex...Damn technology

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

7 December 2010 (M) - So My question is pretty simple; so me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost 2 months. We both just got out of longer term relationships of 3 years and we are very happy in the relationship we have now. The problem is she always is texting ...

I want to marry him but he has other girl friends! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

7 December 2010 (F) - i love a boy ....want to marry him ..but it seems like he dont cares for me and have other girl frinds, what should i do ??? help me please...

Is the amount of phone sex we have normal? And is marriage a possibility when it is my first relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4896 days ago

7 December 2010 (M) - my girl and i have been in a long distance relationship for about 3yrs now. We're both in the university. We are sexually active and lately we've been talking for over 4 hours and we have lots of phone sex. Is it normal? And Do you think its because ...

How long should we wait to get married? And how do I stop her from moving in on me right away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4896 days ago

7 December 2010 (M) - hi my question is when should we get married how long before. and how do i keep her from just moving in on me right away. we both have our own places. is that a commitment problem....

What to do with an arrogant surly girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

7 December 2010 (M) - my question is to get the discussion started about this my question is has anybody had a girl friend who disreguards cuts you short when you start to talk says honey dont ask that thinks your untrained e.t.c direguards your funny statemen...

Confused feelings about a new relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

7 December 2010 (M) - I have just recently (in the last couple of months) started seeing a girl who I really like but am having moments where I feel confused about how I feel. She's not someone that I was initially particularly attracted to physically - we had met a c...

I want to avoid a heartbreak. How do I save myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

7 December 2010 (F) - I have posted about my predicament before. I did ocntrol myself until a few days ago. And now I am back again. Here is this guy I have severe crush on. I don't know much about him other than he is single but I am really carried away by his char...

Help! What should I do to be good with the ladies and be more confident around girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

7 December 2010 (M) - I am almost 18, 6 ft 2, 176 pounds. i have never been in a real relationship with a girl and never kissed before,i dont know what wrong with me. I have many guy friends and few female friends in a 3:1 ratio,im handsome(many girls tell me so)ive been ...

How can I impress her on her birthday?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

7 December 2010 (M) - i Like a Girl , the girl also Like me but only one mistake is our parents don;t like to talk.when i Was 11 years old i have done such a mistake that is why she don;t like me i don;t know what is the mistake , ON 10th of December Birthday of that ...

14 and never had a boyfriend! Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

7 December 2010 (F) - Please help! I'm a 14 year old girl, blond and brown hair, slightly attractive, nice figure, killer personality and yet I've never had a bf. I always fancy someone but I'm far too shy to ask them out and I won't let my mates ask them out for me. ...

Worried about what my family will say about me dating a 40 year old....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

7 December 2010 (F) - hey i am 22 almost 23. I have a friend that is 40 and i know he has strong feelings for me. I'm starting to have feelings for him too. Would it be out of the question to start a relationship with him? He's seperated with an 18 and an 11 year old ...

Should I explore my options?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4895 days ago

7 December 2010 (F) - Hello, I have a problem that I am not sure how to handle. I have asked around and thought about it for awhile but cannot seem to make a decision. I am a 20 year old college student and recently got back with my ex who has been in my life since...

How do I stop myself from losing all hope of ever finding my Prince Charming?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

7 December 2010 (F) - I'm 20 years old and only a year from graduating college. I am the epitome of a hopeless romantic. My bookshelf consists of piles of historical and contemporary romances, love poems and fairy tales. I spend my Friday nights watching romantic ...

Heartbroken here! How do I get over what happend to us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

7 December 2010 (F) - Well this is going to be long. So plz take the time to read cuz I need some serious help. And be open minded its a complicated situation and last time I posted about it I acually had someone laugh in my face. So if u could plz not laugh about it and ...

Did I sound 'cheap' because I didn't play hard to get?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

7 December 2010 (F) - Hi,i met this guy one day,he was a cousin to my guyfriend though i didnt know him and neither did he know me.but we got acquainted that day,after that day i kept thinking of him and really missing him.then i told him that i like him alot and he said ...

It's him or me! How do I get her to make a decision here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

7 December 2010 (M) - I met a woman that I work with after returning from some vacation time. She was beautiful. But, I figured I didn't really have a chance with her, i wouldn't even try. I had heard she was married and didn't want to pursue her because it would have ...

Neighbor Confusion!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4896 days ago

7 December 2010 (F) - i live across from this guy, extremely cute , he just went away to college i am a senior in highschool. we were talking flirting all summer, really into each other got the daily message from him..and now he is off to college, and when we talk it is ...

I want to ask her out, but her brother is always there! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4896 days ago

7 December 2010 (M) - Hello. For the last year or two I attended badminton training during summer break. In my first year there, I met a girl who seemed to connect pretty well with me. Then life happened, and I wasn't able to see her until around September of this...

Do you think she's hiding something here, or do you think she told me the entire truth?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

7 December 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 months, and we have plans for her to come on a trip with my family to the Dominican Republic in a month. We're both 17. We had already agreed that telling each other what was on our minds should be the ...

What can I do about a dishonest boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4897 days ago

7 December 2010 (F) - Sorry if this is super long. I have a boyfriend and we have been together for a little over 2 years. I love him very much and he claims to love me know. I've always thought that we had an honest relationship but the other day he admitted to me a...

The guy I like, is now interested in my friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4896 days ago

7 December 2010 (F) - Last semester, I met this guy and we started hanging out and going to parties together. I really liked him, and he was such a nice guy. I thought it was going somewhere, but things I guess got awkward, and nothing happened. I was really bummed, and ...

Afraid to get my first kiss? Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

7 December 2010 (F) - This guy likes me an i like him. He is a player tho. if i date him well I'm afraid of gettin my first kiss! and one other question, How do i stop being shy around guys?... ...

Is it too soon to let him know, I like him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

7 December 2010 (F) - Hello Aunts and Uncles, I have always read peoples problems on this website and have decided I need your help. My love, John of 1 year, 9 months left me last week to go for an expedition in California, hiking to Arizona and then hiking all the way ...

What are my options?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

7 December 2010 (F) - Okay guys I will try not to appear very pathetic on here even though right now I am very much feeling like it.First off I know my flag is American but I am not from there. So...here's my situation. I live in this town and no matter how much I go out...

I feel a connection but not sure if I like him, should I go on a second date with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4897 days ago

7 December 2010 (F) - Is it ok to go out with a guy on a second date to see if you really feel a connection there? Cause I'm not sure if I like him as more than a friend right now, and I would feel bad if i gave him a false hope by going on a second date. What do you ...