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*aymb88
writes:Ive known this girl for almost 4 years we have been best friends since the day we met. Ive always wanted to be with her and she wants me to take her out on her birthday tomorrow. I want to make her mine how do i do it?
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reader, madasshell1 +, writes (29 December 2010):
It sounds as if she definetely values you as a friend and she trust you, but she may only love you as a friend, does she discuss other guys with you as if your her girlfriend? If so its likely she just views you as a good friend. Tell her how you feel, thats the best thing you can do, us women like when men express themselves, because who knows she may be thinking the same way as you.
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reader, mr messed up  +, writes (29 December 2010):
you sound like you two have something special but will you think it will be the same as a couple things change at hat stage alot of people make that mistake i would go with the flow if that is meany to happen it will i think. thats just my opinion good luck.
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reader, Jaymb88 +, writes (29 December 2010):
Jaymb88 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI havent told her how i feel yet but when we were at school if we were in the same class she always stayed around me and in the mornings she would always come stand with me b4 class then we would walk to the parking lot together after school idk if thats a sign she into me or not
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reader, madasshell1 +, writes (29 December 2010):
It's a good sign that she wants you to take her out for her birthday, that shows how much she values her time with you. Does she know how you feel about her? Does she drop subtle hints to you that she may be more into you than just a friend? If so I would tell her how I felt. Take her somewhere really nice, like her favorite restaurant, or if there was anywhere you remember her saying she wanted to do that you guys have not done together yet, that would be good, find out what she looks for and values in a lover and go from there, you are already a friend so half the battle is won. Get her something symbolic of you guys relationship. Tell her how much you care for her, and dont make her feel pressured into being in a relationship with you. Express your interest, and let her know you will be her friend regardless of her decision. Good luck.
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