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female
age
41-50,
*abbystar
writes:There is a guy at work who I think has a crush on me for awhile. He used to walk by cubicle and look into my mirror so I would notice him. He would smile and look away. Then, I took notice and eventually liked him. I said "hi" to him and then the glaring and staring occured. He would look at me when I am not looking. Recently, he comes to work early when I come to work and walks by my cubicle at least once a day. He opened the door for me and say hello to me and nodded his head. I replied with a hello and thanked him for holding the door.I really like him, but I am not sure who should make the 1st move. We work together and I don't want rumors circulating. I think it is certain he likes me, but is shy.What do I do? I am thinking of moving on and wait until he decides to confront me. I'm lost...
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reader, dirtball +, writes (29 December 2010):
 Congratulations! I hope you two are happy together. Best of luck.
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reader, Gabbystar +, writes (29 December 2010):
Gabbystar is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the reply. We finally had a conversation and are dating. YAY! :) He told me that he feared I would reject him if he approached me, but he could not help looking at me because I am so gorgeous.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (24 December 2010):
Start by striking up a conversation or suggesting you go to lunch together. He sounds shy and unsure of himself, so it's doubtful he'll make a move. You'll know if there is something to this if you can talk to each other rather than just exchanging glances and smiles.
Lunch is very low pressure. You can even use the excuse of needing to discuss something work related.
GO FOR IT!!!
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