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*aeys
writes:Hi. I've been in a relationship for 19 months and at first, the 6 months and counting was fantastic. Not a problem whatsoever. But now, all we seem to do is fight and argue.She tells me that I annoy her whenever I try and speak to her and when I ask her "How come you won't talk to me" she chucks me a dirty look and walks off from me.She gets these hits of "feeling bad". It's when she says she feels fat for eating food. And it causes her paranoia and anxiety but makes her angry whenever I try to calm her down. So again, she'll chuck the dirty, or say something snide, and walk off.She used to have OCD and I managed to help her out of it by covering her eyes whenever she counted things. But this attitude towards me is ridiculous. How come she acts this way toward me.I'm stressed out and I'm really over it. I can't take anymore of the shit in my life that she chucks ontop of me. I feel like i'm suffocating underneath her cruel, manipulative hands. How do I break up with her :(?
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (24 December 2010):
 The only way to do it with diginity is in person asap. It's sucks that it has to be at this time but when you know its over there is no point dragging it out. Give it to her straight but be in a place where you can leave and aren't stuck together for any length of time because she will probably be too angry to really talk about it.
I was in a similar situation a couple of years back when i had to break up with a past gf right around graduation because I knew it was over and didn't want the all the pictures and things with her.
Good luck to you.
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