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writes:my ex always compliments me. he dumped me a couple of months back but i cant get over him. i tried to hate him but he broke up with me so gently i ended up hating myself for not going out with him sooner. i started becoming depressed and he never texted and i never texted him. i really thought i was over him until he started talking to me again. i asked him why he compliments me but his text back made it clear he doesnt fancy me but why the amazing compliments then? im so confused, what should i do? our families are really close so i cant blank him out of my life
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2010): it looks alot like hes got over you but still wants to be your friend. you need to look at it from a different perspective. are you willing to risk that friendship even if you may not end up with him? he may not fancy you anymore but he clearly still cares about you alot. don't be afraid to move forward. there will be plenty of other guys you'll meet. the constant compliments are easy to get confused about though and if he's not making his feelings clear then thats not your fault. keep it in your mind that he wants to be friends. dont interpret the compliments as something theyre not or from an idealistic perspective. distract yourself. attend the gym, take up new hobbies, meet with friends. it WILL get easier. hope this helps xx
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reader, MCloves  +, writes (26 December 2010):
I know just how u feel...i have the same problem too. My advice is to just keep him in the friend zone. If he keep complimenting you he could just be trying to get in your pants. So i would just keep him as a friend, but i would still try to make him jealous.I would start dating some Hot young men and hope that it will change his feelings about me. But thats just me.
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