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writes:i kinda like this boy, but i never told anyone he is about 1/2 years older he always smile at me on the bus and i laugh at him with my friends and stuff like that but then afterwards my friend liked him but i never told her i like him and she wants me to ask him out for her. also when i tell my friends that my other friend likes him they say err and that and once my friend it loud and afterwards he looked upset(i felt really bad).i don't really wanna tell the girl i like him because she can be a real bitch to me what shud i do. i know he probably wouldn't like me anyway but i'm just kinda bothered about it. i dunno what it means when he smiles and stuff and not really used to relationships and stuff. can anyone help and give me a few tips and stuff. thnx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2010): DONT ASK HIM OUT FOR HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
if you love him ask him out dont worry about it if that friend was a good friend then she would forgive you.
remember to always put your happyness before your friends and do what you want to do so askhim out for your self :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2010): Don't ask him out for her , tell her that you liked him too a while ago so it would be odd . And that she should do it herself, it's really babyish getting someone else to ask you out.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (24 December 2010):
 I agree with Blod. If your friend wants to ask him out she can, its not your place to put yourself on the line like that.
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reader, Blod +, writes (24 December 2010):
 Don't ask him out for your friend. You may be friends, but why should you get involved in her relationships? If she wants to ask him out, she should do it herself. It's unfair to ask you such a thing, especially when you have feelings for him (even though she doesn't know this). So I think you should tell her 'no, I don't feel this is any of my business.' That's reasonable enough. Doing it herself, you'll both find out if he likes her or not without anyone influencing his answer. Don't let her make the situation worse for you!
As for if he likes you, it's difficult to tell. Does he smile at all your friends or just you? Does he behave any differently around you? As he's older than you, it's likely that smiling at you could mean that he's just being polite. Although there's a chance he might like you.
I think your best bet would be to carry on as normal. Don't do anything hasty especially as your friend currently has a thing for him. Just befriend him and let him get to know you. Smile back at him and be polite around him. I'm sure he'll think you're a sweet girl if you do this. Just take your time, there's no rush. If he and your friend end up going out, don't worry. You can't judge if it'd work or how long it'd last. You're still young, so just go with the flow.
I hope this helps. Good luck.
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