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writes:I'm a 45 year old divorced female. There's a 45 year old male that I'm interested in at work. Actually he lives on the opposite coast but travels to my town quite frequently. We work very closely together. I can tell there is definitely some chemistry between us and I would like to pursue it further. I'm pretty sure he feels the same way. In fact, I would like to have a couple of drinks with him one evening and then blow his mind sexually immediately thereafter. He's back in town in a few days. I'm a pretty sexually adventurous female, who has very few hangups, but I'm pretty picky with whom I sleep with. I haven't had sex in months and he has me in a lather lately. What I'm afraid of is that: 1) this will only be a 1 time thing; 2) I will come off too sexual for him (he's a midwest boy and I'm a California girl); and 3) it will be frowned upon if others at work discover what has transpired. He's pretty forward. Should I try to slow things down or just fuck him silly?
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reader, Who +, writes (26 December 2010):
 "Should I try to slow things down or just go for it?"Some things in life you can figure out before you try them. Others things can not be figured out, you just have to close your eyes and jump. Romance is one of the can't-figure-out-have-to-just-jump things.No one on the internet can answer your questions. The 3 fears you list are real possibilities. If you do not try to make anything happen with this guy you will be safe from those 3 fears. If you try to make something happen, maybe only good will come of it, maybe some good and bad, maybe only bad. You will not know unless your try.On their death beds most people regret the things they did not do, not the things they did that went bad.Good luck and hope this helps.
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