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*addleup
writes:I have been seeing my boyfriend off and on over 2 yrs,it usually only lasted 3 months at a time but this time we've been together for 7 months.I have trust issues because he has lots of girl friends and many of them he met on internet date lines.when we first got back together this time I found out he was on datelines by accesing his email acct(which he doesn't know I have)I confronted him about it and he hasn't been on there since. He spends a lot of time on his phone on the internet and it upsets me becuz I don't know if he's bein devious.he tells me tht he loves me and I live with him but I'm so afraid my jealousy is goin to ruin our relationship.any advice would be appreciated.
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reader, saddleup +, writes (28 December 2010):
saddleup is verified as being by the original poster of the question I do love him very much and want to trust him.I honestly don't believe he's doin anything wrong but every time he gets on his phone it upsets me becuz I dnt know 100 percent wht he's doin.I really want this to work I just want to get over my insecurities.
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reader, BigSambo +, writes (25 December 2010):
This does not sound good. I can tell you that you will find out that he is doing something with someone else .. So what will you do when you find out?
I can tell you are not happy and you are with someone you DON'T TRUST!!!! So why are you wasting your time and energy??????
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reader, petina1  +, writes (24 December 2010):
 Keep checking up on him through all these leads and collect your ammunition. Reading what you have written has all the tell tale signs that he is not to be trusted. So keep a close watch on him and find out the truth for yourself.You've not been with him constant for that long. What were his reasons for wanting to live with you if he still has unfinished business. Did you meet him on the internet also.
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reader, VikkiDec1 +, writes (24 December 2010):
 can I ask you a question? Are you happy? Like, honestly happy and feeling any kind of joy out of this relationship? It seems like ur spending all of ur time and energy focusing on this guy and what he does and what he says, but what about you? If you suspect something is going on, confront him, be honest. If you are not able to trust him without getting jealous, then you will drive yourself crazy! I've been in the same siutation and I finally had to break it off because i was going insane and was miserable all the time. Relationships are all about mutual trust and happiness. If this guy doesn't give u that, get out and u will find someone thats willing to make u happy
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