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Dating: Help and advice

Were two different people! how can I steal his heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4999 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - hey everyone, this may sound different, and please dont think im being offensive...i really like this emo boy, but im sort of a prep. i love wearing fashionable clothes and a nice hairstyle, and im always smiling. im always thinking of him ...

I want my family's support when he asks me to marry him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4999 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and i are talking about taking are relationship to the next level we have been dating for 7years but still live with our parents. He is 21 and i will be 21 in october i know he plans on proposing around my 21st birthday which i am ...

Am I just insecure, or is he hiding something?

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25 August 2010 (F) - well I've been involved with this guy for like a year and a half but have known him for almost 3 years.. ive wanted him since before we were together and i love him very much but im not sure if he loves me like he says he does.. it has been such a ...

Once a Mummys' Boy, Always a Mummys' Boy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - Hey, I've been with my boyfriend almost 2 years, we're both serious about each other, and we've talked about having a serious future together. However, in a recent argument he text me saying "well guess what my mother is far more important than ...

I'm fine with him watching porn but he lies about it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - Ok, so its my first time writing on anything like this, but I've talked (complained...whatever) to what seems like a hundred people and I feel like I need some sort of advice as to what on earth to do! Here goes. I have been with my boyfriend f...

Please help.I'm not sure what to do with me and him??

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25 August 2010 (F) - i really want to know what to do... me and my boyfiend met on the internet on begginging of 2008 and met on 14th of august, and were still together, we have soo many memories and so much more i know will become, we do so many different stuff, like ...

Even if he doesn't want to be friends.. I just want to say sorry!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4995 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - Um ok so i really need help, and i'm very greatful for advice. I've had a very hard summer, i've had a couple of family memebers in hospitals,which requires a lot of traveling. To add to that stress my mom moved out to help her sister. To add to ...

Should I leave him to sort things out with his ex? or do I stay with him and try to show him how better I am than her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4999 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - a guy i like recently split up with his gf, me and him got close quickly but nothing has "happened" between us. this week his ex has been txting him loads trying to get back together with him. he's told her that he wants to be single at the moment ...

My rape fantasy disturbed him , are my fantasys normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - I have a bit of a problem with my sexual fantasys so to speak. I've been with my boyfriend for three years, and our sex life has always been good, but my sexual fantasys disturb him. He's briefly talked about his fantasys, and I've tried to fullfill ...

Another guy is telling my girlfriend he loves her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

25 August 2010 (M) - I'm in a very-LDR, and in recent months I've become really concerned with the amount of interest another guy has been showing my girlfriend. He's in the same country as me. He writes on her Facebook page that he loves her, and he sends her expens...

What could this dream mean?

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25 August 2010 (F) - Hi everyone I really like this guy, and hes just ssplit with his gf, he doesnt no how i feel about him, Anyway my question is for the past 4 days ive had dreams about him annd will wake up when it seems so real My dreams are we are.......

He was found with an STD,I was not. I don't know how this happened?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - I don't know it this has been discussed before but if anyone can help. I am on vacation right now with my family and recently, my boyfriend revealed to me that he has been tested and found out with gonorrhea. I was very furious, I had been just ou...

Why is he Apologizing and then being mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4999 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - I stopped talking to him because he made me feel bad. But then he called me to apologize about something that happened in the past but now he's being an *** to me again and saying stuff like I don't care what u think. I told him if he doesn't want ...

Can someone marry you without your consent?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4999 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - Hi, I met a very nice guy on line and now he says he has his pastor sending me a marriage certificate and he is comeing to get me to take me home next month, can he do that without my consent? I am a little worried here!...

What should I wear on my first date in 6 years!!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4999 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - I need some style advice on what to wear on a first date (my first one in 6 years!). We're going out for lunch, just to a cafe...I'm thinking tshirt and jeans? But what do you think? Thanks :)...

I don't want my crushes besfriend to think I'm into her!

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25 August 2010 (M) - so my crush's best friend stared at me and i just looked away ..did i do anything wrong? so my crush's best friend saw me and i saw her ,even though i didn't recognize her at first,i just looked away immediately by avoiding her as i was on...

What do I do about this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - Hey readers , So I'm a 14year old girl who thinks I'm inlove with a 14year old boy . During my 8th grade year I've experienced alot with this boy . Lets call him "EJ" EJ and I met 3years ago in 6th grade and things haven't became serious b...

Are me and my boyfreind too young to be in love?

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25 August 2010 (F) - dear cupid, Im 16 and in a relationship with a guy my age only six months older. we have been together for 10 months...it wil be a year in october. before we stared datin we were like best friends. my parents can tell we really like each other ...

How can I stop myself from getting lonely, missing him then contacting him? I keep getting weak.

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25 August 2010 (F) - Hi all, I ;ve just sadly come out of a 3 month relationship that was not making me happy- basically the guy had emotional issues, and stared acting withdrawn, both physically, and emotionally, and was playing games with my feelngs E;G - not taking ...

I'm getting violent w/ my BF... but I want to stop!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4999 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - I really need some advice, I've never been a violent person. But recently i've started getting violent toward my boyfriend. Not really violent, but it's bad anyway. It scares me so I don't know what it's doing to him He tends to make me fe...

In a wonderful, new relationship, but I still can't get over my ex! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4999 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am turning to you because I am really struggling to figure this out. Basically I am currently in a relationship with a wonderful man, S. We have been together for one year and he is caring, funny, handsome, and thinks the world...

Stop the dropped calls!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4999 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - my boyfriend always drop his call on me when ever we are talking on phone, how do i nicely tell him to stop that stupid act of his...

I want to either cut it off or commit

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25 August 2010 (F) - Hi Cupid. My question is a little long but I hope manageable. Recently my boyfriend of several months returned to America after a year abroad, when we met. We have set no limit date on the distance and the relationship is more or less officially ...

He broke up with me and I really want him back

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25 August 2010 (F) - Okay so i have a really complicated situation.. a month ago my boyfriend (18) broke up with me (16) because i got 'too close' to another guy who just happens to be one of my good friends. I tried to explain to him that nothing happened but he said ...

He won't kiss me!!

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25 August 2010 (F) - i have a guy friend that i really like and we are together sexually but he wont kiss me at all. does that mean he only wants sex from me and nothing else. i am confused because he is so passionate during....

Relationship dillemma - I'm ready to move in, my mum's fed up with us both, but he's not ready

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4995 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for four years, we both live at home, I live with my mum, he lives with his mum and dad. I’m 21 and he’s 26. He shares a room with his younger brother, so there is no privacy for us to spend time together. I live with my ...

How do I choose between two men?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4999 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - How do i choose between two men? I have strong feelings for both of them and one of them is my ex that i lived with. they both say they love me and i dont want to hurt nay of them. help!...

Why cant I get past the pain of my first relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4999 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - I am 22 years old and I have been single for 3 and a half years now after a 6 year, very intense, and emotionally unstable relationship. Since then i have been in only one other brief relationship, and then a "friends w/ benefits" situation where i ...

How do I see through all his mixed signals?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - theres this guy i really like but theres too many mixed signals and i cant read him please help i like this guy in one of my classes i dont know what attracted me to him his cute and nice and confident. at the first two days of school i noticed...

My girlfriend thinks she doesn't deserve me, when its supposed to be vice-versa

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4999 days ago

25 August 2010 (M) - (I'm sorry this is a really long story, please just bear with me; I felt like I was writing an essay) First time using an advice column, please help. Still young, starting junior year (yeah a lot of school stress) Well...beginning...

I had a dream of my boyfriend getting married to another woman. Should I read into it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - I don't usually read into dreams, I've had a lot of nice dreams, but also unpleasant ones, like any other person. Thing is, last night I dreamed that my boyfriend was getting married, IN MY HOUSE, with another woman (she was brunette, but then she...

Should I let my taken colleague know of my feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5000 days ago

25 August 2010 (M) - Em, this colleague of mine at work is cute but she has a guy. We lyk each other and i av a feeling 4 her.We stare at each other shyly and spend hours talking on the phone.Should i let it known to her what i feel?...

Help with future love..hopefully.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4999 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - ok well today i was talking to this guy Nick and my boyfriend on Facebook. Nick is one of my best guy friends best friend. Well my boyfriend was being really boring. You see i like the bad boy, perverted, but sweet kind of guy. And my boyfriend is ...

I don't want to say those 3 little words yet!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for exactly nine days, and we've only known each other for a little bit over three weeks (24 days to be exact). I like him a lot,and I actually told him today that I spoke to my ex. When I spoke to my ex I felt ...

In a loving relationship but girlfriend's parents don't want her in an interracial relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5000 days ago

25 August 2010 (M) - Hey everyone They say life is a repeat, and I know that what I need advice on is a very common topic.Im in an interacial relationship with a woman that i am in love with. The good news is, she's in love with me too. The hard part is, her parents ...

What age should I get my 1st boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4999 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - Im 13, At what age should i get my firts boyfriend?...

Can't stop thinking of hair bulge in girlfriends pants, turn off for me, help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

25 August 2010 (M) - [Mod Note - OP's own title] Hi, Kicker: I'm a virgin. Kidding. So anyway, so's my girlfriend. We've been dating since december or last year. We're still sort of getting toward haveing sex but we're not really sure where that is, just know that we...

Should I settle for someone who likes me or wait for someone who I really like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4995 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - So I'm 21, a virgin, and have never had a proper boyfriend I do get asked out quite a bit, and have been on a couple of dates, but I usualy say no because I haven't been interested in or attracted to any of the guys who have asked me out. It's not...

Should I tell him I love him too and risk him getting clingy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - I am in love with my boyfriend. Absolutely. I know it's love because he does things that with my ex's was completely uncomfortable and irritating but with him... everything he says makes me feel good. Here is the issue, he has already said it to me...

Were we just hanging out or was this a date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5000 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - So I reconnect with a friend from high school online…we went out for like month (purely innocent) during my first yr of high school. So I broke up with him, I don’t remember why, but we remained friends. We lost contact and recently exchange ...

Am I over reacting? or should I be worried?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

25 August 2010 (M) - My girlfriend has pictures of herself with another guy on facebook and its really pissin me off! There are about five pics of them and they all seem really flirty to me. He has his arm around her in most of them. They talk on the phone and skype ...

Jealous of my boyfriends sister and ashamed of it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend's sister is years younger than him and they have a very close-knit relationship. I feel pathetic because I'm jealous of their relationship and how much time they get to spend together, whereas I'm lucky to see him once a week. It'...

Do girls like nice guys or bad guys? I'm confused!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4997 days ago

25 August 2010 (M) - im 18 years old and ive never had a girlfriend. i have plenty of friends that are girls but have never had a serious relationship. ive never even been kissed. im not a bad looking guy. i have girls tell me im good looking and some actually check me ...

Is he joking or does he actually love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - I've just moved from a mixed school to an all girls school, I used to have a crush on this guy who sat next to me, he said no after I asked him out, twice. So I gave up and moved on. About a week ago he asked me out, I didn't know if it was a joke...

He is messing with my head! how do I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - A few months ago i told this male acquaintance that i liked him. He was nice and said, he could only see us as good friends. Fine, ok i moved on and focused on work and other friends and meeting other guys. Meantime my crush and i are spending time ...

I want his personality and him,but not his looks. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4997 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - I've been dating this wonderful man long distance for two years.it got to the point i wanted to marry this man!but then..he came to visit me.and when i saw him,my heart fell. I knew he was overweight but i didn't expect this! Sometimes i have dif...

Does she care for me or is she after something?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

25 August 2010 (M) - Well me and my girlfriend has been together for a while, i asked her to marry me 3 months ago she said yes we was very happy together or at least i thought, about 3 weeks ago she finished the relationship with me and we only just got back together ...

Opinions on "friends with benefits" relationships?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4748 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up a couple of months ago, and I've since picked up a friendship with an ex of mine who I've always been on good terms with. The other night, while we were sitting at his house talking, and one thing led to another and we ...

Confused by her up's and downsand don't know what I should be doing

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

25 August 2010 (M) - So me and my gf were going out for 8 months. We had so many great times together and were always having fun and going out. Then we went on vacation and had an even more amazing time and things were seeming pretty great. We came back and things ...

Was the connection b.c we were drunk

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4999 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - Hi. I've used this site once before and got some great advice.Now; I need some more. Two nights ago, I met a guy at a club who I really liked. We got on really well and had loads of fun. The only thing is....he lives in Wales and I live in Scotland! ...