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Dating: Help and advice

Is there a brightside to heartbreak?

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20 August 2010 (M) - Classic Hopeless Romantic Case. Unrequited Love. So about 5 years ago I met this girl, and after having many conversations with her, we clicked. We were almost the same despite being almost opposite. (She's a prep, I'm a metal head. I'm jewish, ...

Suspicous of his ex but no proof!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

20 August 2010 (F) - Been with my bf for 6 months and im at the stage where my mind is constantly working and thinking about his ex. He broke up with her last year after 4 yrs together but they seem to still be close and share the same group of friends. He has never ...

Should I have ever changed in the first place?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4880 days ago

20 August 2010 (F) - I have been dating a guy for over a year. I was initially swept off my feet by him as he is very outgoing and fun. I very quickly fell in love and decided that I wanted to marry him. I started learning to cook well and learning Arabic in order to be ...

He loves someone else now!

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20 August 2010 (F) - I go to this sport called speedway well used too, and there was this guy who really likes me and we were gonna finally get together this Monday like officially cause we both really liked each other but he texted me yesterday saying he likes someone ...

Flirting is fun but I'm sick of it!

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20 August 2010 (F) - [Mod note: OP's own title] I have to say im a very good flirt but now im in a relationship and me and my boyfriend have had problems about this one boy because he liked me and i kinda led him on by flirting but now i don't even no im doing it and ...

Why do guys go after girls that are taken?

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20 August 2010 (?) - Why do certain guys go after girls when they are already taken? I mean, if they have a girlfriend then why would you want another girl? Sex? Excitement? To fufill their ego? It's just something i've always been curious about, especially when the ...

Incredibly passionate first and second date is scaring us both.. please advise!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5004 days ago

20 August 2010 (M) - I've seen this girl now 2 times, and both dates we have made a tremendous connection. Neither of us have ever felt such passion towards another person so quickly and its really scaring both of us. We have both said that it feels like we have been ...

I want a serious relationship not a long term booty call?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

20 August 2010 (F) - I was seeing a guy off and on for the last 4yrs. We were friends only friends the first 6 months then we slept together. I wanted a serious relationship u know I'm ur man ur my woman type of relationship. But when it came to putting a title on it we ...

I have feelings for two, don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

20 August 2010 (F) - so i've been with my bofriend, john, for four months now, and i really really do love him. i have had a few relationships but nothing that has been great, the only thing is, this is his first relationship and its beginning to be a fairly serious one ...

I'm not feeling his love!

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20 August 2010 (F) - I have been dating this guy for a while now, he was my best mate before. Still sort of is. He is great, he's a gentleman, we have so much in common it's strange and my parents think he is wonderful. But I don't think I can stay with him much longer. ...

Flirting with a guy? Any tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

20 August 2010 (F) - Hey guys.... I am terrible at flirting so if you have any really good flirting tips please tell me, my boyfriend is a total flirt and i have no idea to flirt back???? help me please...

Does this sentence turn a man on?

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20 August 2010 (F) - I chat with this guy. Once when he asked me by skype 'How are you', I told, 'Not bad. It is raining and I am all wet'. It had been raining and I had just come home. He smiled with a smile I will not forget. He really liked it and his mood got ...

I had wild sex in public in the past. Should I tell her??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

20 August 2010 (M) - She's not comfortable with public shows of affection. I told her no PDAs is totally fine with me. She was reassured and concluded: "I'm glad we both feel the same way about it!". I chose silence over sharing the fact that I've definitely had s...

Need some advice/tips on dating for someone who's 23 and has one year of uni left?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5001 days ago

20 August 2010 (M) - I dated up until I was 20 and then some personal issues occurred with my last girlfriend which resulted in low self esteem kicking in. I built up my confidence after some help from parents and mentor and I am now more confident in all forms of life ...

Do I deserve her? How do I come to terms with myself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

20 August 2010 (M) - [OP original title] i have been dating this girl for 10 months. i liked her for along time and i went for it,i still think its a miracle that im with her. for he first nine months of our relationship i was really happy when i was with her, she so b...

I need advice for an 11 year age difference!

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20 August 2010 (F) - I am an 18 year old girl and I am extremely attracted to a 29 year old, and he is crazy about me. We haven't gone on a date yet. I know my family will go crazy when they find out his age. My sister is 20 and is dating a 25 year old and my mom didn't ...

He's confused and wants to take a break, but wants to be in a relationship and likes me. What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

20 August 2010 (F) - Ok, so I've been in a relationship with this guy for about 4 months now. Before a few days ago, our time together has been amazing, every date is perfect and we have so much fun. We see eachother twice a week, he's a total gentlemen, he plans our ...

Now that my bf broke up with me, I'm still interested in the guy who asked me out during our relationship. How do I approach it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4880 days ago

20 August 2010 (F) - [ModNote:OPs own title] Well, I met a guy through eHarmony on July 30th and, even though he asked me to enter a relationship that night, things just did not work out. We never fought or anything but he just sent me a text last night saying, "I did ...

Is this height difference ok?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

20 August 2010 (F) - Is 26cm or 10inches difference too bad between couple? What are some adventages and disadventages in this? Would you, guys, be mind to have a girlfrient who is too short( 5'1)? ...

31 and never been kissed!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

20 August 2010 (M) - Dear Cupid, I have a big problem. I'm 31 years old and male and have never had a girlfriend. I never even been on a date with a girl. I really like girls but am very unlucky not to have met someone. I haven't even ever kissed a girl before. ...

Help! First date in two years... but is he already playing games with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

20 August 2010 (F) - I met someone last weekend and he asked me out on a date via text on Monday past, i agreed and when he asked me how old i was and i responded (we are both in our 30's) also asking him when will i get to talk to him because i prefer that (especially ...

The new guy or the best friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

20 August 2010 (F) - I was married but already made up my mind I was going to leave him and move in with my best friend; witch is a Guy who lives in Texas, I'm in Kentucky. While I was saving up money to go out there I hooked up with a guy thinking it would just be ...

Getting the girl....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

20 August 2010 (M) - Ok so theres this girl i like. She likes me too and has told me many times. We know we like each other. We have hooked up several times and we will give each other a kiss when we see each other or are saying bye. I really really really like her ...

Ex bf is back in touch! What shd I read into this?

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20 August 2010 (F) - Hello! Am a 22 yr old girl, So recently I reconnect via online with one of my ex bf from highs school we went out for a couple of months my 1st yr of high school, purely innocent dating then somehow we decided to remain friends…and we did all ...

In love with a virgin but he cant be with me because I am not a virgin!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4995 days ago

20 August 2010 (F) - So i am about to be 20 years old in month, during my freshman year i met this guy who was out of the ordinary. Hes 22 years old, and hes a virgin for religious reasons. But yet hes messed around with girls, including myself. We are in a ...

Whenever we hang out he's always in his own little world! Why?!?

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20 August 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, ok so there is this guy, lets call him Mark. Well long story short he has a gf but we messed around during the summer because i was hoping that he would start developing feelings for me. Stupid idea i know and i do regret it. Anyways ...

Like a girl - think she does too, but she has a boyfriend. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

20 August 2010 (M) - There is this girl I like and I'm not sure but I think she likes me to. She says that she loves her boyfriend to death but that he is really distant and she is really needy and so am I. Me and her have a lot in common, She will tell me about h...

We had a disagreement and I haven't heard from her since, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

20 August 2010 (F) - Dear cupids, I just got back from playing Bingo at this bar with my best friend and her boyfriend. There has been some underlying issues with my best friend and me for awhile now. I walked out of the place pissed off and offended at what she said...

How can I overcome my shyness around boys?

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20 August 2010 (F) - Hi guys : ) I'm in middle school and I have one problem. I'm totally boy shy!!! I know that everyones hormones are changing and stuff but I have no guy friends and never talked to a boy. I need help on how to stop being so shy. I have no clue ...

Could he like me, even though he has a girlfriend?

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20 August 2010 (F) - Okay, so I'm sooo confused, I don't know if this guy is interested in me or not. He has a girlfriend, but when I'm around him he says to his friends he has relationship problems. He's mentioned the words future girlfriend while talking to me. He ...

Why is my long-distance boyfriend avoiding me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

20 August 2010 (F) - My LDR has stopped talking to me for a week...when I do get him to talk he tells me, "im fine shit chill". And he stopped 3 and replaced that with calling me bro and brah.....to top THAT off, apparently he talks to everyone BUT me! He even puts ...

How can he be so loving towards his girlfriend, when all we do is argue?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

20 August 2010 (F) - Ok I've been with this man for 21yrs! We have 3 beautiful kids, we were together for 8 before we married then last year I divorced him! He's never cheated on me and worked hard to be a good provider! But the last 4yrs have been heck! He got ...

Is he afraid of a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

20 August 2010 (F) - I been seeing this guy friend of mine for 3months and we have sex a lot but hes been a jerk lately towards me because i said i like him and he said hes not interested in a relationship right now I don't get it. Would you have sex with someone you ...

Is this love haunted?

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20 August 2010 (F) - I have a bf that refuses to let go of a female who once was the reason we had a break up about. He cheated on me and left me for her and then left her and came back to me, he made a mistake and regrets it....now 5 years later she is still in the ...

I want to be his friend how do I get over us?

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20 August 2010 (F) - i met this guy around my working area, we started knowing each other as friends, i am 21 years old and he is 28. he works at bank and i work as a waitress. we had fun time being friends, but one day i stayed over at his house because i couldn't stay ...

Could I get emancipated and live with my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

20 August 2010 (F) - i have been dating my boyfriend for a 4 years now. im 16 years old and he is 17. i was wondering can i be emancipated and live with him when he turns 18 and i turn 17? im getting a job and my lisence and he has a good paying job. but do you think ...

Is he into me or not and can this relationship be salvaged?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

20 August 2010 (F) - I am a single mother to a 4.5 month old baby girl - father disappeared and fled the country. After being months and months away from the dating scene, I finally met a new man recently online - we have seen each other on webcam and stuff - long ...

Should I fix my gap even it he doesn't want me to?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

20 August 2010 (F) - I have a big gap in my front teeth and everyone always tells me it's cute and such, but I've always wanted it fixed. I finally got the courage and made an appointment, but my boyfriend said he likes my gap. He said he thinks I'm the most beautiful ...

Boyfriend admits to crush on his best friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5005 days ago

20 August 2010 (F) - my boyfriend admitted to me he likes his best friend.... he admits to me he always has.. they hang out all the time, and he promises he won't do anything with her... and that he LOVES me and only likes her... i've had alot of relationships where ...

I'm so confused. I would really use some advice

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

20 August 2010 (F) - So I've been talking to this guy for almost a year now. Of course we had sex a few time but it was nothing serious at first. Until we hung out a week ago. He told me that he wanted to be in a relationship with me. But now when I text or call him he ...

How do I make my relationship become more serious?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

20 August 2010 (F) - Hey i have a question, i have been friends with benifts with this guy for about 10 months, and he is 19 and im 16. he is a very very attractive and sweet guy, i have very strong feelings for him and he claims he likes me too. but there are 2 ...

Can a cheater grow up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

20 August 2010 (F) - I just have a quick question regarding cheating. Is the saying "once a cheater, always a cheater" true? I was with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years and was very much in love. He cheated on me (slept with) 4 months into the relationship, wi...