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writes:i really want to know what to do... me and my boyfiend met on the internet on begginging of 2008 and met on 14th of august, and were still together, we have soo many memories and so much more i know will become, we do so many different stuff, like different stuff as things like, hoildays, and soon this xmas or next 6 weeks hoilday ill be going abroad with him and his family, we do so much and im afraid i wouldint ever get that with another boy... and the problem is, we argu near enough everyday, maybe even twice a day, sometimes its real bad, sometimes it don't last for long, but when we dont argu, its going so good and we can have a real good laugh, and his family is the best family ever i really mean that, i get along with everyone, his sister and cusin, me and them get along so well and there just a little younger than me, but there amazing, and because he lives in stamford, and i live in ipswich, i wont ever get to see anymore of them :( i really don't want to not be with my boyfriend, but we argu every day almost, but when we dont, its amazing being with eachother, shall i move on? or stay with him? i do love him so much, and iwanna marry and have kids with him, but is it ok for a realationstip to go on forever if we argu almost everyday? thanks for reading xx
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reader, Phsyciatrist-to-be +, writes (26 August 2010):
 mizz.butterflies has a good point there. It's always nice to know when you care about us - and guys DO have a tendency to fight :/
Yet, on those grounds, I'm afraid I have a difference in opinion. I think perhaps ignoring him may tell him you're just fed up of him altogether, and he might start to doubt.
Therefore, I suggest that YOU talk calmly to HIM: don't wait for him to talk to you about it - prolonging the issue won't help. YOU should be the one to sit you both down, and initiate the talk. I think that it'll be much more benificial to your relationship that way.
But in essence, I agree with miss.butterflies: it is the talk, however you come around to it, that really matters :)
Good luck! :)
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reader, mizz.butterflies  +, writes (25 August 2010):
 Honey you're still so young. You're growing,and your dreams and desires will eventually change.
There's only one way to stop the fighting. IGNORE HIM. Until he sits down and you calmly talk to him and say you are about to move on if you continue arguing. Give him a wake up all.
The thing with guys is...til they matture,they like to fight because by that they see that you care.
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