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Help with future love..hopefully.

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Question - (25 August 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 26 August 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, *oxDrkrosexox writes:

ok well today i was talking to this guy Nick and my boyfriend on Facebook. Nick is one of my best guy friends best friend. Well my boyfriend was being really boring. You see i like the bad boy, perverted, but sweet kind of guy. And my boyfriend is just....sweet. I i.m. him ~spank~ and he acted like he had no idea wht was going on. So i said 'be naughty' :D and he said ummm i cant to that. So then i said Fuck this and he said no cuss words plz. I was kinda mad so i told Nick. Nick told me too break up with him ( he said a whole bunch of mean but funny stuff) so i did. Then for some strange reason Nick asked me if i was invited to the cookout..i said wat cookout..and he said the cookout where i stick my meat in ur grill (perverted terms). i laughed and then he said some other stuff like that. So then i tried and i asked him if he was hungry..he said yes...and i said well then u can eat me out. He laughed and told me he hated me..i asked why and he said becuz im making him hard. So then we started role playing saying things like i toke her hand and slid it up and down my dick stuff like that. I LOVE GUYS WHO DO THAT!! And i think i love him. I want to know how can i tell him? I mean hes 15 and im 13 but we click so well. It might not be love but how do i tell him i like him. Idk if i tell him straight off the back and he says no, i still want to be friends with him. What do i do?

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A female reader, xoxDrkrosexox United States +, writes (26 August 2010):

xoxDrkrosexox is verified as being by the original poster of the question

I feel so horrible...u guys were right. Nick is a bad guy...he broke my heart in just one day. Not even a day...a few hours. It was so bad i even contemplated on killing myself. I cried in a corner for 5 hours. IM FINE NOW!! well im better but not fully recovered.....hes just a jerk. NEVER again will i date a guy like that. Thxz u guys. For warning me. Even tho i didnt take the advice. Now i think its time for me to apologize to my ex-bf and ask for forgiveness.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (25 August 2010):

Nick is a bad guy. He's trying to come between you and your boyfriend. He's a bad guy.

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A female reader, xoxDrkrosexox United States +, writes (25 August 2010):

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i know its bad. its just the way i was born. i cant help it. But i do know my limits and where im crossing the line. Nick is a cool guy. He doesnt cheat or hurt girls. He is sweet but hes a teenage boy so when he gets in the mood he cant help it. I know me breakin up with Nathan was wrong but hes not my type. And if it makes anyone happy we're back together but its still complicated. I take time to get to know ppl before anything. Like i said Nick isnt a bad guy. I dont know what else to say.....i want u guys to know, i know wat im doing...ive been hurt before and im never going back there again. My parents dont know but i have talked to a conselor. As i said i know the limits. Im not going to become a harlot or anything like that. I already have plans to im going to do with my life and at my age im already starting early.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (25 August 2010):

I have a friend who liked her bad boys too, and by the time she was 16 she'd cheated, she'd been cheated on, she'd been hurt and she'd hurt so many guys the list was unbelievable. She's 22 now, and recently had to go to court because one of her 'bad boys' beat her up and put her in hospital.

If you continue the way you are going, by cybercheating on your decent boyfriend with a guy who doesn't care about anything other than his own penis, you'll always be locked in a cycle where you just get hurt and abused by the lousy guys. You need to speak to your parents or something, because you are going to become the classic abused girl.

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