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Dating: Help and advice

Are we mutually using each other?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

21 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 6.5 years, living together for the last 2 years. We've been arguing/discussing about separating for the last 1.5 months. I don't understand why he wants to stay in the relationship - like what's in it for ...

I'm in a relationship that isn't actually a relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

21 August 2010 (F) - Hello! My problem is, I am in a relationship which isn't actually a relationship. It started off when the guy told me that he wants us to be together now, but he won't be able to offer me any future. (Nowadays we are in different continents) He is a ...

My friend is in love with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5003 days ago

21 August 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I recently found out that one of my closest friends is in love with me. I've known for a while that she'd liked me, but I had no idea that her feelings were as strong as she explained to me. She went on and on, telling me that ...

Do guys go to clubs with the intention of pulling girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

21 August 2010 (F) - ok thanks to everyone who responds, i really appreciate it. I know this will probably seem so obvious to people and also possibly stupid but I would love some input. ok well i went out last night and was with my flatmates at a student bar/club...

How to be happy for and support my boyfriend in college?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5003 days ago

21 August 2010 (F) - Sooo my boyfriend of over a year just moved to college a couple weeks ago, and he's really excited about his college life, as he should be. He's been attending fish camp and all kinds of introductory fun activities to his school before it starts. ...

Should I drop it and move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4999 days ago

21 August 2010 (M) - I met this girl at a law function (we are both in law school) and we talked most of the night, then went to an 80's party together. I got her number, and asked her to dinner (she smiled and agreed). We went out and had a great time, we went back ...

How do I know if he really notices me the same way I notice him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5002 days ago

21 August 2010 (F) - So there's this guy that is new to our school. I just met him and I find him really nice and cute. He makes me smile all the time. We're just getting to know each other and we talk a lot about random things. He said I'm a sweet nice girl. I tell him ...

Will my feelings ruin the friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5003 days ago

21 August 2010 (F) - I'm 26, female and am in love with my best friend who is a 27 year old guy. I'm totally unsure what to do about it, I am worried if I tell him how I feel it will make things awkward and/or ruin the friendship. We have known each other for seven ...

Best friend doesn't want us to be together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

21 August 2010 (F) - Well I'm 14 and my bestfriends brother was flirting with me and we went to the beach together with my bestfriend we was sitting down and he kissed me and said he wants to be with me, But I don't think my bestfriend wants us to be together...

Stabbed in the heart by her comment...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

21 August 2010 (M) - So this morning was the biggest heart break I could ever handle. I found out my girlfriend... my best friend... my everything cheated on me a month ago. She told me this intoxicated and also took an e pill saying some guy performed oral on her, but ...

Attracted to his personality but not his appearance

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

21 August 2010 (F) - I'm in hard situation I've been best friends with this guy for a long while now and he's made attempts in the past to ask me out but I denied him. But I've developed feeling for him. So I told him this in march. He makes me feel happy. He's the best ...

At 22, my parents tell me not to worry about having a girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

21 August 2010 (M) - Are my parents right about not worrying about finding a girlfriend at 22? I keep saying why don't i have a girlfriend but my parents say I shouldn'worry about it, that I should make most of being single now because I won't get that chance when I'm...

After 5 years together shouldn't he know if he wants to marry me or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

21 August 2010 (F) - I have been dating my current boyfriend for 5 years. We are still relatively young (23), but I feel like it should be okay for us to talk about getting married some day. I don't mean getting married next year or even the next. I just want to talk ...

Is he cheating on me or just being friendly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5003 days ago

21 August 2010 (F) - Hello fellows, i would appreciate your sincere advices. so i met a guy 6 months back , we dated for a couple of months then he moved to another country and started acting funny , vanishing sometimes reappearing a week later and so on, i decided to ...

B/f wants to snog but I don't think I can bring myself to do it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5003 days ago

21 August 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7 months now and he really wants to snog me, but i have never snogged before, i don't know what to do. people say put your hand down their pants onto their arse, open you mouths link tounges and go from ...

Double life boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

21 August 2010 (F) - I met a guy about 6 months ago. From the start he was everything i had ever wanted - treated me like a princess. Only downside is that I live in Kent and he lived in Derby, so quite a distance. After first having my doubts and the distance and ...

I've been off the market for awhile and I'm kind of out of the dating scene

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4999 days ago

21 August 2010 (M) - I dated up until I was 20 and then some personal issues occurred with my last girlfriend which resulted in low self esteem kicking in. I built up my confidence after some help from parents and mentor and I am now more confident in all forms of life ...

Should I trust my best friends, when coming to my relationships with my sweet lady?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

21 August 2010 (M) - i need a advise on this satuation, what do i do when my friend likes my girlfriend, i mean the liking that gives him wetdreams at night. i have bein friend with this guy for 3years and he never stoped liking the girls i was with, currently know im ...

Why did he hug me so long?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

21 August 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend went on our first date yesterday. at the end, he hugged me for ages, i mean like really ages. afterwards, i suddenly became shy, he was going to kiss me, but i turned my head away. i havent heard from him since. what i really ...

When is a guy interested in you, and when is he just being friendly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

21 August 2010 (F) - How do you know when a guy likes you and is interested in you, and when he is just being friendly and nothing more? And when can you assume that the guy is interested and tell him straight away that you aren't interested in him that way without...

Is she wrong and why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

21 August 2010 (F) - Two guys who r kool like the same chick! They all hang out and become good friends! The chick likes guyA and has a casual relationship with guyA but guy B won't give up!Guy B tells the chick all of guy A's bizz one night while having drinks and ...

I've been waiting 3 years for her already!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5003 days ago

21 August 2010 (M) - I have waited for this girl for 3 years already. She's in a relationship with her bf for 5 years. She tells me her relationship isn't healthy because she went through a lot of break ups in this relationship but then patched back and she also went ...

How do I not make her feel uncomfortable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5003 days ago

21 August 2010 (M) - I have question about dating. I just got my confidence not a long time ago and built up my self esteem really good i am happy now , i love to go to school because i have alot of friends and a lot of girls flirt with me and i can confidently flir...

I don't want my friend hurt over this girl!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

21 August 2010 (F) - Like my guy friend E has been dating this girl C for two months....I got the guts to tell him HE'S obsessed! He only hangs with her and no one else! He even stops texting when theyre hanging and he only talks about her! But everyone knows he will ...

I'm afraid to let my guard down with him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4999 days ago

21 August 2010 (F) - Boyfriend goes through extreme lengths to chase me then avoids me. Let me start by saying, I am currently in school full time and will be graduating in June with my Bachelor's degree. I also have a full time job and am interning with a 2 local b...

I like my friends boyfriend, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5004 days ago

21 August 2010 (F) - i fell in love with my friends boyfriend. and well at first i didnt even know i liked him like that but something made me realise i like him as more then a friend. (btw all my freinds and family and even HIM knew i liked him before I EVEN knew) and ...

Younger woman messing with my head!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

21 August 2010 (M) - Ok here is the deal. I am older than this lady, yet I don't feel that way at all on the inside (and people tell me that I look younger than I am, and when I work out alot, I can easily pass for someone in their 20s). Ok, well, we have been friends, ...

I love her, but I hate her bestfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5004 days ago

21 August 2010 (M) - hi..the problem starts way early wid my ex....we were so great together....were no one was in our life....but suddenly her frnd comes and butts in...his actions and words show that he likes her...but she says he doesnt....we have had constant fights ...

I'm nervous about what to say when I talk to him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4999 days ago

21 August 2010 (F) - My ex and i were together for a couple of years. It was petty things that broke us up but nonetheless still important mistakes to be learned from. And I did learn from my mistakes with the time apart. I know what i would never do again. My ex and I ...

How do I make sure everything is the truth before I get married?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

21 August 2010 (F) - Hi, I am about to get married. To a man that I do love with all my heart, Yet he had some problems in the beginning of the relationship. So as of now I want to make sure that EVERYTHING is truth. I will not judge him on it. I just need to know. Pa...

How can I get over the nervousness and embarresment?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

21 August 2010 (M) - Recently i've watched friends and just general people my age start relationships, to be totally honest this hasn't bothered me until recently. I've thought about it and i'm geniunly upset about the fact I don't feel I have the ability to get a ...

Should I tell my friend about info I have on her boyfriend? or do I keep it to myself

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

21 August 2010 (F) - Right. I don't usually talk about this kind of thing or ask... but this is a dilemma that is really bothering me. I have a friend, who we shall call Katie. Katie has suffered from depression for a good portion of her life, and was recently d...

Why do we keep breaking up and then getting back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5003 days ago

21 August 2010 (F) - Me and my bf have been together for years. We have separated and even dated other ppl but we always end up back together! Why can't we either get it right or let go and move on?...

I don't want to sound like a prude by telling her I want more

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5004 days ago

21 August 2010 (M) - Need both guy/girls views… Ok so my deal in a nutshell. I was with my girl the other day and we hadn’t seen each other in a couple of months. Things started to heat up pretty quick and we ended up on the bed. It was around 15-25 min’s when she had ...

How do I get him to tell me how he feels?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

21 August 2010 (F) - My "friend" Ian , doesn't know I like him. He starts a conversation over text .we will have a few sentences and then he ends it by not replying. He calls me all kinds of names like sweetie and Hun. He won't tell me if he likes me , but I already ...

How do guys handle break ups? what do they think about?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

21 August 2010 (F) - Me and my bf broke up 6 days ago and we were together for 2 years!. Im heartbroken to say the least. we didnt talk until I texted him yesterday just saying hi. He immediately got defensive and thought i was trying to get back together when all i ...