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anonymous
writes:How do i choose between two men? I have strong feelings for both of them and one of them is my ex that i lived with. they both say they love me and i dont want to hurt nay of them. help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2010): if u an ur ex break up over the same thing time an time again,then u may as well accept ur over an move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2010): Choose whoever you want but as far as not hurting anyone I think that is not possible. One of them will be hurt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2010): Choose the one you feel at ease with,the one who you feel comfortable with whatever part of your body he can see,who is like your best friend when you hang out. Sexual compatibility is important to. You may not know the newest guy as well as you think,the ex you will know inside out, so take that into account too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2010): i alwayz go by better the devil you know than the one you dont. if your choosing then he`s not exactly the ex is he? if he catches on about this he may then be your ex,permanently. Jakes answer of being a free agent until married is a joke. i recommend you dont cheat. I do believe he wouldnt share the same view if in his own relationship.as you have strong feelings for both i dont think any fit into your future. why not let them both go? then find that "ONE" person,i dont think its either of these.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2010): You've already moved on, to the new guy. You shouldn't even be talking to your ex if he still says he loves you. He's just trying to brake what you've got now. If you go back to him, and he knows you've been with a new guy, after some time, it will play on his mind, and he'll leave you again.
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reader, aman mehta  +, writes (25 August 2010):
 choose the present one
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2010): Choose the guy that you feel most compatable with, the one who loves you for you,the one who will be there when you need them, the one you can laugh, cry, and joke with. The one who will be your rock when you are down, and dont forget does he give you what you need intimately?
Dont leave it too late to decide otherwise you will bite off more than you can chew and dig yourself into a more a deeper whole and then you will be crying!
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reader, jake79 +, writes (25 August 2010):
he's your ex for a reason....if it was supposed to work it would have, let the other guy have a go! or go out with both - get's tricky but until your married your a free agent.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2010): Well definaly choose the one you see yourself with in the long run. Exes are usually exes for a reason also. Something wasn't right the first go round.
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reader, cocoqueen88  +, writes (25 August 2010):
 Choose whom ever you....(1) can see your self having a future with, (2) wants the same thing you want, (3) treats you good, (4) makes you feel special... what ever you do don't lead them both on when you feel more of rone over the other.
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