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Archived questions from: 4 August, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How does an attractive girl know when a guy is sincere?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5021 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - okay well im a model/singer and tons of guys say im hot/beautiful and whtever... but how do i know if there playing me, uhm just sayn that to get me in bed you know.. and how can i find the rite guy? :(...

Whats happening with me and my cousin? Is it because we were drunk or is it something more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - Ive been reunited with extended family after some years. During this, I met my cousin, and we instantly hit it of - lots in common, same humour etc. We got drunk one night not long after and ended up sleeping together - which at first was weird......

Wanting a bf, how do I know if this guy is truly interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5020 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - Hi. I'm 18 years old and I'm fairly shy. I've never really had a boyfriend. I know having a boyfriend isn't the most important thing, but when you see the majority of your best friends getting a boyfriend so easily (it seems) it's hard not to be gu...

We kissed! Does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - I've really liked a guy for a couple of years, and we have always flirted and got on well. The other week we drunkenly kissed and he stayed over, although we didn't sleep together. Since then he's been quite weird with me and I get the impression ...

Do you think it's wise to go home on a surprise visit or just leave it as we ended it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

4 August 2010 (M) - Need some advice... Here it goes... I have known this girl for about 5 years now... She and I hav always been cool with each other... And about 5 months ago she and I finally hooked up... At first she and I agreed that it was just going to be casual ...

My jealousy makes me furious at my BF, I need help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - Hello, I get extremely sad, angry, and jealous when my boyfriend looks at other women. Its not that he stares, an attractive woman can walk by on the street and i would feel the same way. Even if we are watching a movie and a sex sence comes up w...

My b/f is my BFF and the only person I trust, I don't want to rely on only him, Please Advise.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - I don't think I actually have one question, and it's not really a problem just I like to hear other peoples stories and options on things. You see the thing is at the moment I have no, real girl friends. So I really don't have anyone to talk to. I ...

I went to school with him, I'm interested, and want to see him, How can I approach him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5021 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - Hello, Iam interested in man we actually went to the same school but we havent met for a long time . I have met his brother recently. So my question is i found out he opened a office for education services near my house. So i was wondering should g...

I'm 14 & my bf's 25, I don't know what to do, he loves me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - OP's own title: I'm 14 years old and my boyfriend is 25. I really liked him before we were going out and he liked me too, he even dumped his girlfriend because he says he can't be with her when he loves me. I love him too but I'm soo scared abou...

I'm so confused, who do I chose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - MOD NOTE: OP's own title, tweaked a little as your original title has been used before. hey im 14 and im going out with a boy 1 year older than me and i love him but i got chatting to this boi callum 18 and 4 weeks on he told me he loves me and i...

I don't want sex, and I'm only 21, but my partner does

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - MOD NOTE: OP's own title:.. When me and my partner waited over a year before we had sex together, we were teenagers, and by the time we did have sex, we were 17. I loved it, couldn't get enough of it, and it was always me instigating it (of cour...

I'm not able to sustain an Hard on,

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

4 August 2010 (M) - Mod Note:, could not use your chosen title, so i've taken liberty to rename it... Hi i am 18 years of age and my girlfriend is 20 we were thinking about having sex for the past week when the time came I was hard but not hard to enter her so sh...

How can I get a second date!!!!! Fed Up!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

4 August 2010 (M) - Girls! I need help! I find it difficult to have a relationship - be it a one night stand or long term. I'm 22 and I've only had one one-night stand (ok some people are still virgins but I believe I am an outgoing guy that deserves more) ; and have ...

Guy I'm interested in is planning on going to seminary school!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5015 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - I have been interested in this guy for a while now, and whenever we have spoken, he seemed attracted to me, too. He got my phone number after a while and invited me to some things. The only problem is this: he is interested in becoming a preist! T...

Am I too attached?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5021 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - my boyfriend keeps telling me he wants to be with me all the time. and i want to be with him, but im kind of scared of losing him! what do i do? just get more attached? idk! help!...

If you love someone but don't have a clue wether they feel the same or not should you tell them.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - Hi, if you love someone but don't have a clue wether they feel the same or not should you tell them. What if the guy just freaks out? would telling him reduce your chances of ever being together? Please let me know what you think. what advantag...

How do I get this guy's attention and still be subtle?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - ok i'll try to be brief. theres this guy who i really fancy who i have alot in common with. i managed to get his number and when i asked him for it i think i sounded like a moron. he's good friends with my sensei(a sensei is a martial art teacher,...

How do I find a summer fling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - so im going away in just in just over a week, not abroad just to another part in england. im going with my mum and friend, but me and my friend will be going off by ourselves, to have a bit more fun, i want to find a summer romance. nothing serious, ...

I'm confused, is he playing head games?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

4 August 2010 (?) - My boyfriend(30) and I(25) have been together for almost a year now. We have been living together for the past 7 months. He seperated from his wife over a year ago and has just finalized his divorce at the beginning of summer. Yay! However, I have ...

Should I text this other woman, not to confront her, but to introduce myself?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - Mods Note...OP's own title: Hi. I've been with my BF *Jack* for 6 years. I admit, I had trust issues before our relationship started, thanks to my ex. But I've never had anything to worry about. So 6 months ago, our relationship started to get ...

How do I stop myself goin back :'(

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - Mods note..OP's own Title: Me and this boy used to like eachother (well apparently he did) but he got freaked thinkin i wanna relationship cuz he only wants some fun, so i decided i want to carry on having fun with him, ive told him before and we e...

Low self esteem, forbidden to date by my mother, but I still really want a boyfriend!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - im a 14 year old girl and im not in a rush to grow up, its just that my whole life since i started 3rd grade i wasnt popular. boys called me ugly and when i would start to like a guy the whole grade would find out and he didnt like me. no boys have ...

How do I ask my cousin if she will go out with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

4 August 2010 (M) - I'm in love with my cousin, and i'm pretty sure she feels the same way about me. So what I want to know is: How do I ask her if she'll go out with me? I've been with other girls, but it's just not the same......

If I get into a relationship, should I tell the guy that I have never been kissed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - Hey everyone! It is a little bit embarassing but i would really like your help. I a 19 year old girl, who has never had a real kiss. The reason for that is that i am not into relationships, i prefer dating. Recently i have been meeting really c...

If I lose weight will I have a chance with the girl I like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

4 August 2010 (M) - Hello, I'm a 14 year old boy and I always had some problems with my weight. I'm not obese but I got some fat on my chest and my belly and around the belly too.I don't know what techniques I should use so I can Loose Weight. I want to loose fat ...

How do I approach this man I am interested in when I have not seen him for years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - Hello, Iam interested in man we actually went to the same school but we havent met for a long time . I have met his other siblings recently. So my question is i found out he opened a office for education services near my house. So i was wondering ...

Can I still get a girlfriend if I'm not a very chatty person?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5021 days ago

4 August 2010 (M) - Can I still get a girlfriend if I'm not a very chatty/talkative person? I'm 22 and I'll definitely agree that I am more talkative and more confident now near the end of uni, than when I was in hgih school when I was a really shy boy who was scared t...

I do not want to be a doormat but at the same time I can't walk out on her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5021 days ago

4 August 2010 (M) - I have been in love with a woman, she knows it as well and has asked me for time to commit. We hang out together a lot and spend a lot of time together. She has had some past issues with relationships and I understand her need for time to decide. ...

Why am I jealous of my ex despite being happy in my new relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - I have a new boyfriend who I really care about, he's a great guy and makes me genuinely really happy and I have really strong feelings for him, everything between us is fine. But I don't understand why even though I have moved on and I am really ...

I like him but he has a child, should I get involved?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - I'm so upset. And I knew something was wrong. It was like this guy was perfect, but too good to be true. So, hopefully I'm moving on with my life and trying to put the past behind me, well atleast my ex. So I met this guy and we've been talking. We ...

Prince charming across the Pacific

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5021 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - I met this man while I was on vacation in Hawaii. He was my tour guide. When the tour was over, he got off the bus and shook our hands. Then he gave me a kiss on the check. I asked for his email addres,and he gave it to me. I have called him a fe...

Can this relationship work? We are about to meet for the first time and I need advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

4 August 2010 (M) - hi, i just started to fall in love with a girl over the phone. it started when she buzzed my number..i ignored it..she then phoned me ...couldnt answer...*missed call* however..i contacted her..we talked for an hour...she sounds calm and loving on ...

He likes me, I like him, but he doesn't want a relationship, what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - My best male friend and i have abit of a past, on and off throughout our entire 'friendship' we've battled back and forth between friends and more. Multiple times we have expressed we have feelings for one another, but in the almost 3 years w...

Is this guy brushing my friend off or is he actually going to come to the party?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - my friend asked this guy to a party we're having this weekend, and he said "yea I'll probably come around"... he has a history of flirting with her, and seems to like her. from a guys point of view, will he be coming? ...is he just trying not to ...

My brother wont let me come to his wedding unless I have a date to bring with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

4 August 2010 (M) - all my brothers friends will have there wives and girlfriends at his wedding so he would like me to be the same. but he said if i can't get one for saturday i can't come to his wedding. well it looks like i won't be going became i get one. i've ...

Should I stay or should I leave?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - well me and my girlfriend have been dating for a few months now, but i have some concerns! I feel like she takes advantage of me. I do so much for her thats its ridiculous. When were togather in public or just hanging out she rather spend my money ...

Does he want to be friends or more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - Hello! i really like this guy and i want him to be my boyfiend. The problem is, i dont know how to make it happen or even if he likes me! The guys i have gone for in the past have been players that are very forward in their approach (so th...

Should I be hopeful that we can have a future despite the distance between us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am really in love with this guy that I met online. I find him very understanding, gentle, and uplifting. Every time we talk I always find myself feeling a realm of happiness that I usually don't feel otherwise. We always talk tog...

Should I just move on or see how it all unfolds?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5022 days ago

4 August 2010 (M) - There is this girl that i have become really close with lately. We talk everyday on the internet and we care about each other a lot. Only one problem. We live too far away for anything further to happen, we have told each other how we feel and ...

Why do guys ask for a number and then never call?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - Why would a guy make it a point to get a girl's number and not call? I have been told if a man is interested he will call within a day of asking, but I really don't want to buy into the idea of rules and games when it comes to relationships and ...

Does he like me or is that just his personality?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - This is such a cliche question, but the circumstances are always different! Okay so I've had this guy friend that I sort of knew/ was friends with my freshman year when he was a senior. When he graduated that year we lost touch. Now I'm going into ...

I really want to date my friend of years but I'm not sure how to approach this

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

4 August 2010 (M) - So I find myself in the same situation I have been in once before. I have a female best friend, actually my REAL best friend. Years ago I found myself starting to have feelings for you, now mind you this was in high school we were very young. ...

Why do men do the "I love you but...." thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5007 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - I have been seeing a an amazing guy for about 10 months. He is a widower with kids. I am totally in love with him and he has told me so many times that he loves me. The relationship began as friendship and grew to something far more. There wasn't a...

Ever get jealous of people that get engaged or are married?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

4 August 2010 (M) - I see on facebook how people I know from the past are getting married or just recently engaged. I'm a 24 year old single dude, and I get down when I see this. I feel happy for them, but I get a little sad. I had this one relationship (I liked this ...

I'm too much the friend, and never end up the girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

4 August 2010 (F) - My problem is i act too much like a friend and end up never being the girlfriend :( basically all the guys ive dated or liked, have always treated me like a good friend, sum1 they will share all their secrets with, sum1 to go for when they need a...