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writes:Hey readers , So I'm a 14year old girl who thinks I'm inlove with a 14year old boy . During my 8th grade year I've experienced alot with this boy . Lets call him "EJ" EJ and I met 3years ago in 6th grade and things haven't became serious between us until 8th grade . Long short. . .* I really liked EJ*I'd tell EJ anything in the world and he would listen*We started flriting with each other*I had oral sex with himAbout 4months ago [ twicee ] * I offered to lose my virginity to him but he said no , because he felt I wasn't ready for sex yet ! *_I've been avoidinq him and we got in an argument the other day*he wrote me about a week and a half later and we started talking thenn*his sister told me how he told her that he had started to gain feelings for me but he is so scared of committing due to his past relationships.* I'm very shy and he has brought me out my shell a bit !*I dream about him constantly*I miss himm dearly . I likee cry about it everyday.*he invited me to his house but I'm scared of what might happen if I goI don't really have a solid question but any advice that you can give will help be beneficial to me . I don't tell any of my friends this because they are so judgemental . I usualy tell EJ everthing but how am I suppose to say this . Any advice , comments would help . Please and thank you
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reader, ScreammStarr +, writes (6 December 2010):
ScreammStarr is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey ! Just want to say Thank You ! & after all theseee years,month,etc I finally cut EJ off . I moved on ( ;
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reader, kittyl305  +, writes (25 August 2010):
 Glad i was at help. Just stay strong and dont let boys put you down, ive had my heart broke so many time's now that i am just staying single till i meet the right boy.
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reader, ScreammStarr +, writes (25 August 2010):
ScreammStarr is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks Kitty1305 and maybe him sayying no was for the better . Now I actually am glad he said no`and whenn avoiding him I thought my feelings would go away but they remain .
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reader, kittyl305 +, writes (25 August 2010):
hello your 14!! you have all your life to live, don't set your hart on one boy and you should never cry over one ever. If you are ready for sex then he should understand but he might be shy and unsteady with the idea so w8 for his approval but don't loose your V to some one who you might regret later on in life, your 14 w8 till your at least 16 then you will have saved it most defiantly for someone who you love i lost my V when i was 14 to the boy who i thought i loved it lasted a year as soon as we had sex he ended it. just don't go breaking your heart. and if your able to tell him anything just come right out with it, or right him a letter give it him and run away. hope i gave you some idea on what to do :) x
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