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Dating: Help and advice

Guys, how do you like to be turned on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

1 August 2010 (F) - Guys, how do you like to be turned on? My boyfriend and I don't have sex very often. He gets tired and because of his job and has a lower sex drive than myself. I don't exactly want sex every day, but I'd like to know some good ways to get the ...

Is there potential here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

1 August 2010 (F) - I recently met a guy who clearly found me attractive. It took a while for me to notice but he started growing on me too. The complicated thing about it all is that we are both is relationships with children. I have three and he has 2. The chemi...

My younger boyfriend is more experienced

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

1 August 2010 (F) - ok i know this is going to sound stupied but im only 14 and my bf is 13 i know it wrong well he more expriance like in the kissing way he wants me to do tounges wiff him but im scared to because i dont know how and what to do could some one help me ...

If I'm not pregnant what else could be wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

1 August 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have sex every day, with no contraception. My last period was June 25, 2010, and it's now August 1, 2010. I've been having nausea, vomiting, no bladder control, acne, and i went to the doctor and they took a pee test and said ...

I was the one who broke things off, he's accepted it but now I want him back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

1 August 2010 (F) - I recently split with my boyfriend of 4 years, i was having doubts about the relationship and mentioned it to him but also said i needed more time to think about it. then when we spoke again he decided we should split and i didn't want to lose him, ...

What can I do to make the relationship with my boyfriend better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

1 August 2010 (F) - I having problems with my relationship with my boyfriend. me and my boyfriend have been togather for 4 years. Our relationship started randomly when he asked me out and i had nothing to say but yes. we lived very close by and our parents were family ...

Girlfriend of 6 years has just left me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

1 August 2010 (M) - hi, my girlfriend of 6 years has left me. we have two beautiful daughters, one aged 4 and the other has her 1st birthday in around a weeks time. we have had a fairly turbulent but very enjoyable relationship, with a few break ups along the way wh...

Should the man have to do everything when lovemaking?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

1 August 2010 (M) - hello to anyone reading this and anyone willing to post some help lately my girlfriend and i have wanted to have sex also she's a virgin. but theres always been a problem. either she's on her period, i dont have a condom or she's just not mentall...

Why doesn't my fiance kiss me like he used to any more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

1 August 2010 (F) - my finance and i been together for years, we have kids together, i did notice when i first met him he wasnt a kisser but he gradually got in the kissing mood finally!! I've noticed a big change in my finance we would kiss constanly but over the ...

Does he feel offended/rejected because I didn't let him kiss me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

1 August 2010 (F) - Hello, I am 15 and am in a relationship with a boy I trust completely. No, I'm not going to ask if sex is okay because it's only been a month! And I am saving myself for a more apropriate age. *My question is; have I hurt his feelings?/would ...

I can't "cape" doing this!!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4999 days ago

1 August 2010 (M) - I need a little bit of help. I was about to have sex with my girlfriend for the first time the other day, and before we started she told me she had something to tell me. Apparently we can only have sex if we both have capes on, with pictures of each ...

I feel my boyfriend and I are just worlds apart. Can this work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

1 August 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid Hi im 15 years old I have met the perfect guy who's seventeen, who is literally prince charming but he's megga rich and im not, so its really awkward because he expects me to just drop everything and just come and see him. Also i feel...

This guilt is eating away at me. How can I get rid of it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

1 August 2010 (F) - When I was 19 (I am 24 now) I knowingly had an emotional affair with a married man. He told me upfront he was married (we met online) and that he didn't love his wife. I told him I didn't care that he had a wife and that I just wanted the company. ...

He enjoys anal... but I hate it!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

1 August 2010 (F) - Right okay so im 18 seeing a guy for 6 months who's 27. We've recently began getting serious and he said he loves me the other day which felt nice and natural so i replied. That isnt the problem.. theres certain things within our relationship that ...

I want him back! What can I do?

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1 August 2010 (F) - How to get my ex back? He is in new relationship and said he is very happy. but still he wants to keep friendship with me. and one day he talked to me about sex. when i denied he said he was kidding. i went for NC rule again. (i broke my 1st NC ...

Is she just concerned or is she feeling something for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

1 August 2010 (M) - A few weeks back I was visiting my very close friend for the day before she left to go abroad for a year. (we are friends in uni). At one point I was very attracted to her, but she didn't reciprocate, or I blew my chances on what may or may not h...

My boyfriend is a terrible kisser!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

1 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a month now, but have been interested in each other way before then. He's everything I expected and more, his family are amazing, he's amazing, everything is amazing! ... other than his kissing. Yes,...

How long does it take for a relationship to develop a committed one

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

1 August 2010 (F) - i have been seeing a this man for three years, he lives in another state. the first we pretty much talked and emailed one another. the second and third pretty much his vacations were at my home and my vacations and all of my summer were at his ...

Why won't a nice guy fall for me? I feel ugly and depressed.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

1 August 2010 (F) - I am 24 and have never been in love (not one that was reciprocated anyway). I believe this could be because I am not nice to look at (bordering on downright repulsive), slightly overweight and very very shy and also sarcastic. I do have a very ...

Should I dump my bf of 2 years... for the new guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

1 August 2010 (F) - I have been with the same guy for a long time, almost 2 years. When we first got together, the sparks were amazing, but now there gone. It's more like a friendship then a relationship. In fact, we were friends before we were together, so we have ...

Boyfriend's job is ruining our sex life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

1 August 2010 (F) - A couple of days ago I posted this question: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-doesnt-know-how-much-our-sex-life.html After reading it through, reading the answers, and talking to my boyfriend, I have come to the conclusion that his job i...

I can't move on from my abusive ex-boyfriend of 2 years...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

1 August 2010 (F) - my first ever relationship was to say the least... dramatic. I was 16 and he was 21. We started for the first 4 months well, but he was always controlling, he then moved to Canada as his mother there got a brain tumour. We were together for 2 years ...

Should I watch the old videos of my boyfriend and his ex together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

1 August 2010 (F) - hi ladies and gents, Im interested in my bf's ex, i wanna have a better idea of what she looks like and what involvement she had with my bf before i came along. I know he has made some movies with her and taken naked photos. Why do i fee...

How can I change the way I feel about relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

1 August 2010 (F) - I'm 22 years old and in my 2nd relationship. My first partner was abusive and this affected me badly. My new partner is different however he is far from perfect. When I'm seeing someone I find that they occupy my thoughts for most of the day. I've ...

Help! Is there any chance of getting him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

1 August 2010 (F) - I have deleted my profile from facebook when my ex told me that he was in new relationship and he was very happy. I told him be happy with her. He then said he wants to keep contact with me but as a friend. I dont know why did he say that. But I ...

Help! I need to know if I made the right decision by rejecting him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

1 August 2010 (F) - Help! I think I made a mistake in not dating him! I am 15 now, but when I was 14 a guy asked me out. I liked him a lot. He was smart, funny, and very handsome :) but he was 17. So when he asked me out I said no. I was scared my parents would be...

Sparks flying, should I drop the current boyfriend for the new guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

I'm 34, he's 25 can we work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

1 August 2010 (F) - Ok, a few weeks ago, I interviewed for a volunteer position within my company and another employee entered the room to tell me about the opportunity since he just finished his year on the project. We maintained strong eye contact throughout but I ...

The celebrity I'm dating constantly bugs me for money!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

1 August 2010 (F) - (OP's suggested title) I'm a model who is dating a celebrity (I'll call him Tyrone), most people call him a hasbeen or say his career is over... why? Because he hasn't been a star of a movie in nearly 17years. We met on Facebook and we clicked ...

We like each other but he won't ask me out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

1 August 2010 (F) - I have a guy friend whom I am interested in and who I believe is interested in me. We get along great and we flirt with each other alot of the time. I'm wondering why he hasn't asked me out on a date. Now I know one reason could be that maybe he is ...

The guy I really like wants me to date his friend! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

1 August 2010 (F) - Ok, so I've randomly ended up in this love triangle kind of situation. A good friend of mine (let's call him John) tells me his best mate (call him James) wants to ask me out. But I kind of have a crush on John and am not really interested in ...

Is his female client interested in him or am I over-reacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

1 August 2010 (F) - I went out for breakfast with a guy friend of mine. He and I were having fun and conversation was great. He saw a client of his from work and excused himself to go talk to her. After a short stint of time he returned to our table and we continued ...

Need ideas on what I can do to drive him crazy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

1 August 2010 (F) - Hi, my boyfriend and myself have alot of sex - we even joke and say that we are nymphos because no matter where we are we can't keep our hands off of each other. At a BBQ we went into the bathroom for a good (and loud) ten minutes much to the ...

Love Weirdness

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

1 August 2010 (F) - (OP's suggested title) Why would a guy say "I love you," and then say a few months later that he could "never" love you?....and deny that he ever said it in the first place...When he said it several times! ...

Bipolar boyfriend, should I stay or should I go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

1 August 2010 (F) - My bipolar bf went manic 6 months ago. Before that, he and I were so happy. We had planned a future together. Now he's a total stranger and he's so mean! He's like the worst parts of himself. When this episode began, he said he wanted help and ...

He's breaking my heart with his neglecting ways, why would he say he loves me??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

1 August 2010 (F) - I have been seeing a man on and off for the past 10 years. I really love him and the biggest problem is that he dosen't seem to make time for me. He use to call every day some times 3 times a day. Until three weeks ago I just got tired of waiting ...

How do I get him to overcome his commitment issues?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

1 August 2010 (F) - I have been talking to this guy for about 2 and a half months. We have been really hitting it off. We both absolutely like each other and have soo much in common its like seeing myself in a mirror. he treats me like his girlfriend, he h...

Fiance is overseas and wanted to hang out with a male, am I missing something?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

1 August 2010 (M) - My Fiancee is overseas, we have been together for a year and a half, she has been feeling a bit down because I am not at her side but knows she can be OK. Just today she mentioned she had gone out with someone because she needed the presence fo a ...

He doesn't seem to understand, that I don't need to know about his ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5024 days ago

1 August 2010 (F) - I've been dating this guy for 6 months, things have been up and down anyways yestrerday i saw him for a bit we're talking and he mentions that he took his car to get serviced at Lexus where his ex girlfriend works with whom he was with for 2 years ...