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writes: [Mod Note - OP's own title]Hi,Kicker: I'm a virgin. Kidding. So anyway, so's my girlfriend. We've been dating since december or last year. We're still sort of getting toward haveing sex but we're not really sure where that is, just know that we're happy spending time together doing whatever, so going there isn't very important. So we start making out pretty intensely, and than bam, we're nude (I know, just like that. BAM. BOOM.) .... ( BAM! ) Okay, so anyways, we're naked, and I stop us and say "Hey we shouldn't do this, I don't have a condom and I don't think it's the right time." We talk and she ended up being scared to go there anyways and so all was fine with that. Whatever. So, I get up, and like, I dunno. I notice that she has a HUGE bush. Like, it's MONSTEROUS. No exageration, it's..pretty nasty. I get that she can't help it, but now it's ALL I can think about-and it's grossing me out and turning me off. I love her to death! But I look at any part of her but her face and it goes back to hair. Oh hey babe *cringes* *Mixed feelings of heartrenching affection and disgust*. Like, also, a second question, is it normal to make out in underwear? We do it frequently without going any further than kissing. I just always wondered. So anyways, after the whole almost sex time, we made out some, and that's ALL i could think about AGAIN. I feel like..half of the contents of her panties are filled with hair, and they could be. Seriously. I am NOT kidding. I guess my question is: Has anyone had this or a similar problem and what did they do about it to stop thinking about it or to do that got it off their mind. I realize this could sound PETTY but it's more like, it's just bothering me, and I don't know why! I'd feel terribad asking her to shave. D:
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2010): Well I can talk to her about sex, just not the bulge.
And like I said, I AM a virgin. So I guess I SHOULD sound like one.
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reader, Distant Melody  +, writes (25 August 2010):
You really sound like a virgin. Haha wow. Afraid of pubes....Do you shave YOUR dick? Maybe shes doing it because she doesnt like pubes either & she wants you to shave. I dont really see whats the problems with pubes....Do you have armpit hair? Its pretty much the same...Why wouldnt making out in underwear be un normal? People are different & do different things. You can make out in any situation honestly. Its not UN NORMAL. In my opinion, if you cant talk to her about sex, you're NOT ready.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2010): Just nicely ask, would u mind shaving for me sweetie? My bf has done, and because he was nice about it, I did. Just be nice. If you are rude or insult or anythign then there will be trouble. And you will NOT get any further with her. Treat this very delicately.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2010): what are you talking about? hairy is beautiful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2010): Get over it. It's natural. A 100 years ago no one did. It's sweet you don't want to ask her to shave but if you really loved her it wouldn't even be an issue. It's petty. Just try not to think about it, turn the lights off.
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