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Dating: Help and advice

I'm a third wheel around everyone I know

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

12 August 2010 (F) - I'd really like to have a boyfriend but I'm so androgynous (flat chested, for some reason muscly and have never been able to grow long hair) that guys my own age are just repulsed by me. It has always been like this and no matter where I live or ...

Is 4.5 in length & 4.5 in girth too small to satisfy females?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

12 August 2010 (M) - Guys and Gals I need your opinion. I'm Bi and really attracted to females but only have had sex with males. All the male mates tell me that my size is perfect but we engage in anal sex so smaller sizes are probably better anyways. I really want ...

Still in love with her... how can I let her know how I feel?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

12 August 2010 (M) - Hi all, Been searching this site for a few days now, and have decided to post my situation for advice / support Basically i'm male and was with the love of my life back in 1995, in 1997 we split and she moved on, a year later she came knocki...

Did I handle the situation right, and should I text him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

12 August 2010 (F) - Hey there, So I have this on again/off again relationship/friendship with this guy. Last week I heard from him every day, and then nothing for 4 days. This week I heard from him by text. Yesterday he texed "If you want to go for tea somet...

What should I do to make her happy and help her get back on track?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

12 August 2010 (M) - i have been with my girlfriend for almost two years and things seem a little too confusing for me at this moment. when we met she was living with her ex-boyfriend and she claimed it was only because they had bought a house together and her name was ...

What do I do when she comes back with feelings for another guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

12 August 2010 (M) - My gf went back home for summer. Her cousin was the only one that takes her out. He started holding her hand and hugging her and kissing her on the neck after a hug and on her checks. And she used to kiss him too on hes neck and hes checks. And ...

I've not to tell anyone about the fact we're on a break but I'm hurting too!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5013 days ago

12 August 2010 (M) - I dont understand my girlfriend at the moment, we have been in a strong loving relationship for 18 months. theres always been issues with her ex, and she is going through quite a messy divorce, and several court appearances. we are always there ...

My life now revolves around him and the kids. I don't really have one.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

12 August 2010 (F) - Hi everyone. I have posted on here before and appreciated your replies. I moved in with my partner a year ago almost, we lived a few hours apart. we met on the internet. he was in the army. He has 2 kids from a previous marraige that ended badly. he ...

Live in partner has been looking at porn!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

12 August 2010 (F) - The other day I was going into my history because I was searching for a holiday and forgot the website I found one on. My partner and I share the laptop and while I was in the history I was shocked and disgusted to see a free pornographic website ...

Should I invite my boyfriend to my graduating ceremony?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

12 August 2010 (F) - I'm graduating from high school and I wonder if I should invite my bf to the ceremony... We've been going out for almost six months, talk for hrs about everything, and he encourages my writing, my ideas, my goals- he helps me whenever and however he ...

Please help me validate my anxiety!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

12 August 2010 (F) - Ok, please help me put my mind at rest, or validate my anxiety! My boyfriend and I are not having sex but we do give each other handjobs. I've heard that it is possible to get pregnant from this if he has cum on his hands etc and I am very neurotic ...

How can we stop our arguments turning nasty and spiteful?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

12 August 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, last time I posted a question here i got some good, helpful, nonjudgmental help so have decided to seek out some more advice. Basically, I have been with my boyfriend for the past two years now. Overall I would say our relationship is ...

Emergency contraception!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5013 days ago

12 August 2010 (F) - The other day whilst having sex with my boyfriend, the condom must have slipped off and when he came it went inside me. I took emergency contraception literally about half an hour, 45 minutes later. My question, is emergency contraception ef...

He thinks it is unhealthy that we are physically obsessed with each other??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

12 August 2010 (F) - I'm newly back on the dating scene and am very confused. Met a guy I really like and though it has only been a month it has got intense very quickly. He pushed it more than me and we have seen a lot of each other, spending every weekend together...

My boyfriend and best friend don't get along!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

12 August 2010 (F) - My best friend since kindergarden doesnt like my fiance. I've tried and tried to have them get along. She always finds some reason not to like something he does or says. He is one of the most sweetest guys I have ever dated. I dont know if I should ...

Girlfriend to housekeeper!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

12 August 2010 (F) - I dated my boyfriend 4 three months, I'm a single parent and he knew that. I never mentioned to him about my financial situation, but now that things have become harder for me, I had to tel him everything. He offered for us to move in with him ...

So homesick and sad...

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12 August 2010 (F) - Please help... I am really homesick! I am not sure what to do. I moved away to be with a long distance lover a few years ago. At first living here was wonderful and exciting but as time goes by I am so sad. I find myself having dreams/nightmares ...

Our jealousy is causing problems in our relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

12 August 2010 (F) - i have been with my girlfriend for over a year now. and i really love her but the problem is that she gets really jealous. for example she wont let me talk to several people. and one time i had this best friend who was male, and we had been best ...

Is he stingy... or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5013 days ago

12 August 2010 (F) - Hey friends, my story seem very strange to me but may make sense to you, i'm a 32 year old woman who's been in long distance relationship with a 38 year old man since 9 months now , the problem is i felt that he's a gentleman when we go out in terms ...

I'm now 4 days late! Help!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

12 August 2010 (?) - My boyfriend and I have sex regularly. But we always use protection. We use condoms and he pulls out. But one day I put the condom on him and had accidentally came in contact with sperm about 1 hour prior to that. I took a pregnancy test because I ...

I think he has been texting or ringing other women behind my back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4904 days ago

12 August 2010 (F) - Please could anyone help me? i could really do with some advice and peoples true views on this, i hope you can help me as im still very much in love with my ex but he treated me badly, should i go back with him? or should i move on to a guy that ...

I just feel I have left it too late due to my super shyness...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

12 August 2010 (M) - I am 19 comming on 20... and I havn't really had a girl friend, let alone had sex... everybody else seems to have partners. I am too scared to even think about getting a girlfriend, mainly becuse I don't think I look like your average virgin: ...

Could her defeatist attitude rub off on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5012 days ago

12 August 2010 (M) - Dear Cupids, I got little issue with my girlfriend. I really like her and love spending time with her. However it seems like as our relationship is moving along (5months) she has been getting increasingly negative about herself and myself. I do...

Why does he seem to keep everything in?

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12 August 2010 (F) - My Boyfriend is really confusing lately. We are in a relationship now for 6 months, he has liked me for over a year now. Before we went out about a month I was dead set on not dating anymore in high school. So when I found out he liked me and he ...

Does flirting with other guys equal cheating?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

12 August 2010 (?) - Does flirting with other guys equal cheating? I've got a bf but I tend to sometimes flirt with other guys, no touching, nothing, just teasing them. Is this wrong and does this mean I'm cheating in any way? ...

Boyfriend talking to ex's mother... I'm scared to ask him about it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

12 August 2010 (F) - I recently found out my boyfriend is talking to his ex girlfriend's mom on face book. I think he is looking up his ex on face book also. I found he is looking up a house the ex bought. He does still have pictures of her when they were engaged. I am ...

The guy I'm dating has slept with a prostitute! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

12 August 2010 (F) - Hi Guys, For the past few months i have been dating this guy, i had been seeing him for about two months before he went on a three week holiday. We never had a discussion about what level our relationship was at, i didn't expect him to not see o...

How can we bring the fun times back to our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

12 August 2010 (F) - My fiancé and I's fun time has gotten a gotten boring. We have tried new ways and it doesn't seem to work. What could we do to make it better? We've been engaged 7 months and I really want to fix it. ...

Wanting to date my sister's friend, but my sister wants me back with my ex...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

12 August 2010 (M) - I have recently split up with my previous girlfriend since she grew to be controlling and possesive towards me, we had an arguement which ended up me leaving her. We are now friends which is'nt much an issue. BUT My sister and my previous part...

Is it bad that I vented our relationship isssues to other people?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

12 August 2010 (M) - I recently found out my girlfriend had been lying to me, which hurt a lot at first. I wrote her an email telling her I found out and she didn't get back for a few days, so I thought it was over. I am an extrovert I need people around me to talk with ...

I need advice guys, I don't know what to do. Am I wasting my time on him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5010 days ago

12 August 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are both 23. We met each other about 5 years ago. After a year of friendship (maybe not really friendship, we had a lot of common friends so we met often at parties) we started a relationship. He was my first boyfriend and I was ...

How do I get my give stubborn boyfriend to heat things up more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5013 days ago

12 August 2010 (F) - HELP! My boyfriend is making me sexually frustrated!!! I feel as though I am way more into it then him and it causes me to feel as though he is not attracted to me anymore. Were still in university and both living at hime so it makes things harder ...

Do I move with my family, or stay for my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5013 days ago

12 August 2010 (F) - ok so Im not sure this is the type of question that normally goes on here but hopefully I can get help. I'm a 16 year old girl and I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. I love him alot and care about him. A couple days ago my dad told me ...

Help! My relationship is at breaking point!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5009 days ago

12 August 2010 (F) - It will be 5 years later this month that my boyfriend and I have been dealing with each other. During this time there has been many break ups. Ive been very loyal to him over the years never having sex with anyone else, just making friends for the ...

How to know if he's the "one"

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

12 August 2010 (F) - I have an important question.. How do you know when you've found the right guy? How do you know that you've found the person you can spend the rest of your life living happily with? I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 8 years now. We'...

I've had sex but never had a real boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

12 August 2010 (F) - Now its been over a week since me and this other guy have been talking. And I have a quite embarrassing comfession to make. Although I have had sex and have had many boyfriends..I haven't had a REAL boyfriend. You know the ones who take you out on ...

Confused about which one to date!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

12 August 2010 (F) - Ok um 21 n I lasted with my ex which now is 26 let's call him "joe" almost 3 yrs n we broke up like a month ago.. Couple of days later I meet this guy he's 22 let's call him "danny" ok so now were dating n I felt kinda guilty 4 moving on so fast ...

Is he just that busy? Or just blowing me off?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

12 August 2010 (F) - I've known of the guy in question for several years. He is pretty close friends with some acquantinences of mine. (they are just acquantices, i dont feel comfortable making them privy to this, so asking for their help is OUT OF THE QUESTION) All ...

Do guys remember the little things like girls do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

12 August 2010 (F) - I as a girl have noticed that when a girl likes a guy she'll remember all the little parts. I remember everything. Almost every line he's ever said to me. And it's not like I obsess over them or write them down but I remember all the little things ...

He doesn't have a job and asks me for money, it is because I'm his girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

12 August 2010 (F) - I meant this guy, who is 30 years old. He recently lost his job. We have been dating for 5 months. I am confused because of the simple fact that he asks me for money. I am not sure if he is trying to use me, or because I’m his girl he feel as though ...

I'm 21, He's 58 and been divorced 3 times! Could we be happy together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

12 August 2010 (F) - I am currently in a relationship with a 58-year old man. I just turned 21. We've been together for 7 months, and most of the time I think our relationship is very good. We are very comfortable with each other and have a great sex life. This is the ...

I want my boyfriend to know the real reason why I shut down, but I'm scared..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5013 days ago

12 August 2010 (F) - Heyy, i have been with my boyfriend for a long time and i love him with all my heart, just he doesnt know what happend to me when i was younger (14) and what happend with my ex before i met my boyfriend now. well basically when i was 14 i was rap...

Why do women say they like a nice guy, but let their actions show they like to be treated badly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

12 August 2010 (M) - I have spent many hours just sitting and listening to women talk. Sometimes because I'm stuck in a situation where I'm the only guy in the room with a bunch of women, sometimes just trying to get an insight into the female mind. One thing I have ...