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Archived questions from: 15 August, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

After 4 and a half years... do I stay or do I go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

15 August 2010 (F) - I've been with my bf for 4 1/2 years. He is my fist and only serious bf and ever since i fell in love with him i had my future planned out. He loves me so much and is very good to me and talks about getting married all the time. I have been sure ...

He's not texting as much since we've met... help me with my insecurities.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

15 August 2010 (F) - i have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for 6 months now and we have just spent our first week together and everything went brilliantly. i was afraid we would argue and so was he but after we talked and agreed that it went ...

Communication methods needed...

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15 August 2010 (M) - Hi guys, Well, My girlfriend recently moved from New York To Arizona. I am stuck here in New York. Her mom never liked to see us together. She tried to separate us many times. Of course, we always got back together. Thats love. You cannot talk to ...

Feelings for my ex are ruining my life. Why can't I move on?

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15 August 2010 (F) - I went out with this boy, (let's call him Ben) who was in my year, last March. We were perfect for each other- into all the same stuff, liked each other and we got along so well. I've never found any boy as easy to talk to. We went out for about 6 ...

He needs time apart... I'm scared it will ruin us!

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15 August 2010 (F) - SO boyfriend broke up with me we have been togethe for 3 years, i am going to throw it out there bc i have been askign my friends for advise i need a strangers help. thing is that i got pretty annoying and desperate bc i realized i can lose him! i ...

How would you react if your girlfriend told you she was molested when she was younger by a couple of family members?

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15 August 2010 (F) - Hey i have a question mostly for guys but girls can answer too. How would you react if your girlfriend told you she was molested when she was younger by a couple of family members? Would you rather have her not ever tell you or would you be glad ...

How can I get my boyfriend to kiss me and want me more?

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15 August 2010 (F) - My bf loves me very much an me too.... i'm 100% sure he loves me and cares for me... he doesn't hide things with me.... it has been for 4 months we are still together. We have never fought, never argued, we both are emo... if he's sad,i'll be SAD. ...

Will I look too eager if I text him?

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15 August 2010 (F) - i met this guy on a night out and we really hit it off. we exchanged numbers and we were texting for a while and he was asking to meet up, but we were both going on holiday. Ive been home 2 weeks and we havent spoke.. he knows im home etc. Does i...

Should I tell b/f I looked at his messages?

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15 August 2010 (F) - I looked at my bfs texts when he was out of the room and I found one that upset me a bit. Nothing drastic, just a not so nice comment about me. But shall I just get over it or shall I tell him I did it? ...

What makes a woman come across as insane?

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15 August 2010 (F) - I recently heard from a friend that my ex used to call me insane to his friends when we were together. I am a little odd in the way i do things but i wouldnt say i'm insane? And i used to argue with him over things that didnt matter to him but matt...

Sometimes she seems off limits to me others it seems she really likes me

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15 August 2010 (M) - I really care for a girl at work but she confuses me. We have been working together for nearly 7 years and have become really close. She shows all the classic signs of liking me but then sometimes when I stop by her desk she will lean back with ...

What should do if my girlfriend says she needs time?

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15 August 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over three months. About a week ago I commented on her facebook and said "hope you are having a good day and looking forward to seeing you again". A couple days later she blocked me. I said it was ...

She wants marriage and I don't!

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15 August 2010 (M) - Hello! I'm 55 and she's 35 with 3 kids, we love each other and have been in this relationship for 14 months but she wants marriage and I don't. She'd become very upset when ever she asks me about getting married which she has done several times and ...

Why did she pick on me all night?

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15 August 2010 (M) - I've been dating a girl for a short while and we seem to like each other. However, the other day we were hanging out with her friends and they found it necessary to tease me and pick on me all night. When I got offended apparently I was being a bad ...

What are the qualities that attract and keep men?

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15 August 2010 (F) - I want to know what a man looks for in a female. What are the qualities that attract and keep men. I have the physical side down, thanks to genetics and healthy eating. Although, I am disadvantaged due to the fact that I am not caucasian and have ...

Why am I always the friend not the GIRLfriend

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15 August 2010 (F) - Hey everyone! Okay, here it is. I always give guys (unintentionaly and i have no idea how) hints that i only want to be friends. And, obviously, at the end I always end up helping the guy with some other girl or just hanging there as a close fr...

Why would he want to get back with his old circle of friends?

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15 August 2010 (F) - my boyfriend of 2 years broke up with his ex late 2007, they had been going out for 6 years (who he says they are both completely over each other. his ex moved to the u.s also). he was close with his ex's group of friends at the time and they'd all ...

"You're mine!"

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15 August 2010 (F) - the last few nights that i've been sleeping with my boyfriend, and while im half asleep he'll say to me "youre mine". is it normal for guys to say that? he can be quite insecure and needy at times and today we were out and there were a lot of guys ...

21 and single yet again...

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15 August 2010 (F) - Failed relationship after failed relationship. That's what it seems like to me. 21 and single yet again. I know having a boyfriend isn't the only thing that matters in life but it's really getting me down. I keep thinking 'he's a keeper' and it ...

Advice on dealing with jealousy towards ex fiance of boyfriend?

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15 August 2010 (F) - Hi, I am in a relationship with a wonderful man but the problem is he is friends with an ex fiance of his and am having a big problem with this,I am very much in love with him, I just feel horribly jealous because they were together for a l...

After rejecting me 2years ago, do you think he's showing signs that he is interested in me now?

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15 August 2010 (F) - I split up from my long-term partner about 2 1/2 years ago at around the same time an old flame from school split from his partner. Coincidentally we met up a couple of months later and began seeing each other. At the time it seemed like the perfect ...

How long does a girl have to wait for a proposal?

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15 August 2010 (F) - My b/f and i have been together for over 2 years now, how long doesa girl have to wait for a proposal? i'm worried if I ask it will hurt his ego.... i dont want to give any ultamatiums but have dropped hints left right and center and the best ...

I get the feeling he doesn't love me

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15 August 2010 (F) - ok..this guy say s that he loves me..like really crazy about me..but i dont understand..he never does nething to make me feel tht he likes me other than saying so... He goes on calling me on the phone non-stop..with out really being concerne...

My boyfriend joked with his mate about my trust issues

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

15 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend once broke my trust and met his ex behind my back. It's made me insecure which he says he realises is his fault. But I heard he made a joke about my insecurity to a mate. Now what am I supposed to think?...

I'll wait as long as she needs to have sex, but is there anything I can do for myself in the meantime?

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15 August 2010 (M) - Background: =========== I've been with this girl for 2 months now. She is not willing to have sex. We escalated from occasional makeout to frequent makeout sessions. Then, she reduced it all completely. I discussed it with her. She said she ...

I'm unsure of this Navy guy's real commitment to me..

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15 August 2010 (F) - I have been dating a Navy man for a year now. We get along great most of the time and have a lot in common. Here's the problem...he's from FL and I'm from the N.W. He has a new baby in FL who was born earlier this year, to a woman who was just his ...

He's a great supportive guy...but he has a pot smoking problem...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

15 August 2010 (F) - My current boyfriend right now is 46. He smokes weed at most 2 days out of the week. It really bothers me, but he doesnt become a bad violent person or anything like that. I think weed is a bad example for our kids, we live together, but he doesnt ...

I've said I love you, but he won't say it back!

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15 August 2010 (F) - Dear cupid, Me and my boyfriend have been going out since June 11th I love him very very much but he has never said to me that he loves me!! Everyone says we are cute together even before we started going out, he is great we have never had an argue...

Why does my body love him when he makes me sick?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

15 August 2010 (F) - I've just recently realised a guy I've liked for ages is using me. So I've only just learnt that he isnt the guy for me, and that I should ignore him for the best.But why do I feel completely different around him, when he is near me? Its like my ...

Love with a touch of family?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5010 days ago

15 August 2010 (F) - [OP original title] When I first saw him we were in middle school. We started going out freshman year of high school. We really thought we were both in love and one night we snuck out and we ended up having sex but we used protection. His dad foun...