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Dating: Help and advice

Do I pursue the religious guy or the demanding one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5010 days ago

11 August 2010 (F) - I,m 18 and i like 2 older guys one 24 other 28. One i,ve not seen in 2 years and one i see near everyweek. I know for definate guy number 2 likes me. ya see Guy number one we,ll call James(28) is a sweet and caring guy who is a strong believer in ...

Our first kiss was not anything like I imagined it would be!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

11 August 2010 (M) - me and my long distance boyfriend kissed for the first time today,it is the first kiss ever for both of us. i didnt feel anything although i love him so much,actually the kiss was terrible,it is nothing like i imagined ..he was so nervous and just ...

I didn't text her back for 6-7 hours and suddenly I feel like I crossed some kind of line by her reaction

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

11 August 2010 (M) - Dear Aunts/Uncles, Heres the situation. I usually text my girl every other day. We swap text message back and forth. We dont see each other much but when we do get together its on the weekends 1-2 a month. Just depends on the month and each o...

He's too young to have ED!!!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

11 August 2010 (?) - Okay so, I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and a couple months. Things started off a little rocky, but we came through it and we're very much in love. We've had fights, but we were able to work through them. The only issue I'm really h...

What's your opinion on anniversaries in a long distance relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

11 August 2010 (F) - My question is more out of curiosity than anything. I've been with my boyfriend a little over five months, however it's always been long distance so we haven't seen each other much. That said, what's your opinion on anniversaries in a long distance ...

I don't get aroused just from looking at women I need them to touch me, am I gay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4791 days ago

11 August 2010 (M) - Hi I am just looking for some feedback to see if I'm normal or if I should be concerned. Looking at a woman doesn't get me hard, if we kiss or if she gives me a massage or something, then I get hard. Just looking at them walking down the street t...

His dad owns him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

11 August 2010 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend now for 3 years. He was 19 when we started dating, I was 18. He lived with his dad and after he lost his job and started working for him, his dad started to get very controlling of him. He gave him a curfew and set ...

Did I fail?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

11 August 2010 (M) - I'm back with another dating-related problem. Let me see if I can keep this short and sweet... Alright, I just got back from a camp I volunteered for. The camp was for kids who have kidney related diseases or transplants. I'm a transplant patie...

A jealous partner...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

11 August 2010 (F) - Never agree to stop contact with a friend or an ex for your partner or girl/boyfriend. People ya'll have to realise that Not ONE of us in this world 'Belongs' to anyone else or is theirs exclusively, no other relationship in this life is exclusive ...

Is my boyfriend a cheater or am I just paranoid??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

11 August 2010 (F) - I've begun to be suspicious of my boyfriend of 2 years. We haven't had any problems in the past although I have been cheated on by a previous partner. Our sex life has slowed right down, we only really have sex after a couple of glasses of wine now! ...

Do I let him go because I am not ready for sex or make him wait and see how genuine he is?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

11 August 2010 (F) - I have been interested in my current boyfriend for a long while. Things have occurred so we couldn't have courted earlier, but now I am having doubts and confusion about whether things are moving too quickly between us. We have been dating for ...

Do I break it off with my fiance and try to get back with my high school sweetheart

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

11 August 2010 (F) - Ok here is my Issue. I just got engaged to a guy I have been dating for 7 months. He is a wonderful guy. He takes care of me and puts me first in everything. The problem is every sunday I see my first love. He and i dated for 3 years off and on, and ...

It's important to me that he accepts my friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

11 August 2010 (F) - I need some advice. I have been dating an older man than myself now for over a year. We both have the greatest time when we're together and both have committed ourselves to one another. We haven't told my parents yet, because my parents are extr...

What more can I do to make it up to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

11 August 2010 (M) - Hello I am feeling very down about things and how my relationship has turned out. Things with my girlfreind are not good and I feel things can only continue this way for so long. Six months ago I broke my girlfreinds trust and revealed a very per...

How often should I mention 'our future' or should I leave it up to him to bring it up each time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

11 August 2010 (F) - Hi, I am 26 and my boyfriend is almost 32. We have been together for just over a year and discussed marriage from early on. I have acted totally crazy at times by being mistrusting and possessive but seem to be much improved on this front now. ...

Girls... how do you know when you've cum???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

11 August 2010 (F) - hello, i am 15 and im in a relationship with an amazing guy, we have been together 3 months today! we have preformed sexual acts on each other but every time we do his aim is to make me cum but to be honest im a really dumb girl, don't know much ...

I am afraid my abusive ex will try to punish me for having a new boyfriend...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

11 August 2010 (F) - I am separated from the father of my child, mainly because he was addicted to cocaine and abusive. I barely knew him when I got pregnant, he told me got me pregnant on purpose (he was 10 yrs older). Anyway we are apart and still going through co...

I need tips on how to fix my trust issues...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

11 August 2010 (M) - ok so me and my girlfriend have been together for almost 2 years in the first year she cheated and lied to me alot i caught her in all the lies and cheating she has done. its been almost a year now sense all that happened as far as i know she hasnt ...

19 months and I cant deal with it much longer!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

11 August 2010 (M) - hi, I've been with my girlfriend for 19 months now, and lately i have been going off her. she is aggresive at times and she goes crazy at the slightest thing e.g sniffing, coughing. i do love her but i think im going off her, i dont know what to do. ...

Are they MORE than just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5013 days ago

11 August 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm not really sure why I'm doing this because nothing seems to bring me peace of mind but I don't want to lose my boyfriend. He liked this girl who has been on and off with his best friend for years and then met me and started a relationship ...

Unbalanced lifestyle, all or nothing...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

11 August 2010 (M) - Hi, My girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year now, and recently we've been running into a lot of problems. To begin with, we have been spending time with each other mostly every day for the past several months. While I do love spe...

He can't stay away from girls, why can't I stay away from him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5013 days ago

11 August 2010 (F) - We have been together for almost 4 years, but lately things have gone downhill. Among other things, he has been going out with his friends (which includes trashy girls) a lot. He would lie about who he is with and where he is going. During one of ...

My boyfriend has just confessed to me that he's gay!!!

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11 August 2010 (F) - Hello guys. I'm in need of serious help over here. I am 18 years old, and my boyfriend of 3 years has just confessed to me that he is gay. He had come out as bi sexual a few weeks ago, and I was completely accepting and supportive. He actually said ...

Meds killing her sex drive

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5009 days ago

11 August 2010 (M) - I am 25 and am dating a girl my same age for three months. We hit it off great and see each other many times a week and we both want a long term relationship. My issue is with her sex drive. The first month we had sex many times and it was great. ...

Boyfriend seemed to have a lot more fun before he met me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5013 days ago

11 August 2010 (F) - I've been dating a wonderful guy almost a year that is funny, caring and a lot of fun. We live together, and he has helped me deal with the stress of losing most of my friends when starting university and get past many insecurities. I have an ...

Help! I think my partner is cheating!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5009 days ago

11 August 2010 (F) - I just recently moved in with my partner, we have been together for two and a half years and I am now pregnant. we have had our ups and downs and been through a lot even him not wanting this baby... anyway I think he is seeing someone behind my ...

Should I tell my boyfriend I was abused only months before we met to explain my behaviour?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

11 August 2010 (F) - I apologize for the wordiness, I'll try my best to stick to the point. I've been dating an amazing guy for the last 11 months- the first guy I have ever dated in fact that actually respects me as a person, appreciates me and gives a damn abo...

Does he have the wrong idea?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

11 August 2010 (F) - [OP original title] Hello everyone! I'm 21 years old and I think I've gotten myself into quite a mess. This guy and I met at our school a few months ago. We didnt get a chance to talk that much because it was the end of the semester but he added me o...

To Change Or Not To Change... That is the Question?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

11 August 2010 (F) - On so many occasions I have had friends, relatives and total strangers come to me with the same problem... "I think my partner is trying to change me" or "Maybe i need to change". The answer to this is simple!! No, You shouldn't need to change. ...

I kissed another guy! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

11 August 2010 (F) - recentally i had a campout with some friends, earlier in the day my boyfriends cusion told me that he had feelings for me, then later that night we kissed. my boyfriend found out and we had a massive argument and broke up but then he took me back ...

I love her and she loves me but she's dating my friend!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

11 August 2010 (M) - Sooo Ive known this girl for 11 years now and ive always had a thing for her. Time went by and eventually she started dating my best friend. he treats her like crap and all i can do is watch. He recently cheated and i told her what happened. i ...

I'm in a relationship but I think I'm falling for someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5013 days ago

11 August 2010 (F) - [Mod Note: OP's Title] I've been with my girlfriend for over 2 years, we've been through sooo much together and stayed together through it all, i have had my doubts before but i've never been interested in anyone else before. we both went out with...

I want him to ask me out!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5013 days ago

11 August 2010 (F) - I have had a crush on my best friends brother for some time now and he calls me honey n sweetie n his poppet wich means love or darling and I think he knows I like him but idk...my cousin tells me he is a loser and I don't beleive her and he says ...

Am I doing the right thing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

11 August 2010 (F) - ok i met a guy online. we were talking on the phone.. he used to flirt a lot.. and we used to talk about wat we want to do etc.. i want to be in a r/ship so i was second guessing his moves by then.. then i saw him comment on some girl's fb page.. ...

My bad back and her sex drive make it hard for me to walk!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

11 August 2010 (M) - I usually date females that are older then me, but just recently I found a girl that I have a lot in common with and she is amazing. Well the problem part is that I have a terrible back for my age and it is hard to have sex most days. I mean at the ...

Do guys mention girls they like a lot?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

11 August 2010 (F) - Do you think if a guy mentions a girl a lot, he likes her? I know in high school this is the case, but do you think that this could be true even when we're older? I am wondering because the guy I am dating right now mentions this one friend, wh...

Help! I can't say no to sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

11 August 2010 (F) - Ok. I'm 19 years old. I've had a many boyfriends in the past and I lost my virginity about a year ago. Before i lost it I thought sex should be a very intimate, highly valued, and important part of my life. However now that I've been having sex, I ...

How do I stop being jealous about her ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

11 August 2010 (M) - I guess I've come to a point where i need advice. My gf and i have been dating for awhile now. We fell for each other quickly and are very in love with each other. It seems like everything is perfect except i cant stop being jealous of her ex bf and ...

How do I ask her out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5013 days ago

11 August 2010 (M) - dear cupid i want to ask you a question, i really like this woman i see every day but she is very shy like me how do i approach this woman do i buy her a bunch of flowers then ask her out and where do i take her any suggestion as i'm new to this. as ...

We like each other but he won't ask me out!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5013 days ago

11 August 2010 (F) - I really like this guy and he has gone to school with me since kindergarten and we have been kinda best friends for a year. He knows I like him and he says he likes me too but he won't do anything about it. We know everything about eachother ...

How did you meet your partner?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

11 August 2010 (?) - I am only 13, and never has had a boyfriend. But I would like to ask everyone, how did you meet your significent other? Where were you? How old were you? Was it love at 1st sight? Any answers are greatly appreciated. Thank you. :]...

How do I please my boyfriend in bed?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

11 August 2010 (F) - I am in desperate need of help. Don't take this the wrong way. My boyfriend and I are in love and happy and hoping to start a life together. The only thing we really seem to have a problem with (or rather he has a problem with) is in bed. More ...

Did my boyfriend have sex with his kid's mom?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

11 August 2010 (F) - a couple weeks ago me and my boyfriend had an argument about some girls on his myspace well he decided to ignore me for the rest of that night. We talked and made good the next day, but two days later his daughters mom came by just to let me know ...

I'm in love with my best friend what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

11 August 2010 (M) - Ok I have a bit of a dilemma,I'm in love with my best friend. Her and I have been friends for about 3 yrs now and also work together for the past approximately 6-7 months. Over those months we have gotten to be best friends. We know just about ...

Being Happy In a Relationship

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

11 August 2010 (F) - It's great being in a relationship. It can be fun and the companship is really satisfying. However, in staying happy it's important to:- (1) Both have some time to yourselves to pursue hobbies, interests. Just once a week or twice a week...

Should we just put our fun in the past?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5013 days ago

11 August 2010 (F) - Ah. ok how important is kissing?... me and this guy that i really like well (we have liked) each other on and off since 2008. Had a little fling before he went away to school. the week before he left he came over to my house friday he took me ...

Does this guy like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

11 August 2010 (F) - Ok so I think this guy likes me, let call him M, so M and I went out like 2 years ago. So we were walking home one day and this kid kept bugging me about why this other kid broke up with me, so M told him to shut the f**k up about it and he was ...

How can I choose between these 3 girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

11 August 2010 (M) - I need help! I'm in love with 3 girls and I cant choose between them and they all want me! The first, is my ex she dated my for 1 year till she had to break up with me. The second, is the girl of my dreams she has this amazing smile and her breasts ...

How do you think this guy sees me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5014 days ago

11 August 2010 (F) - Hey guys. How do you think this guy sees me? Our friends think he fancies me and I was starting to think that too. He texts me or msn's me every day without fail. He adds a lot of xxx's at the end of texts and when he signs out of msn. He constant...

How to do I cope with this unrequited love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5013 days ago

11 August 2010 (M) - I'm a classic hopeless romantic. And it's the classic case of unrequited love. And to make a long story short, I was rejected by a girl who I thought was the world. I've tried moving on with my life, like any sensible person. There's a girl ...

Do women care what a man looks like? Or do they just get turned on by the attention from men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

11 August 2010 (M) - This is kind of a subtle question, and I am not sure if I can even articulate it right. But do you women, especially married ladies, care at all what men look like? It seems you get turned on by mens attention. In other words, you get turned on ...

Why are guy scared to just say they like you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5014 days ago

11 August 2010 (F) - I'm wondering why guys never approach me. Instead they get their friends to drop hints. For example a guy had his friends yell out to me "[His name] likes you." And another guy today had his friends yell out "Hey [His name] wants to say hello to you ...

Is there a possibility he is falling for me too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5013 days ago

11 August 2010 (F) - so there is this guy that i really like... somedays he flirts, LOTS. other days he just kinda treats me like a friend (only paying a little more attention to me than he would any other girl). the other night was girls night for me and a friend,...