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Dating: Help and advice

How can I tell him I'd like to spend some quality time together WITHOUT his mates?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

9 August 2010 (F) - Hey everyone! ,, I love my boyfriend to bits! but he's really close with his guy mates and its hard to get him alone sometimes! i get along with his friends its just sometimes id like it to be just me and him? what should i do? Thank...

I feel I will always be second best in his life...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5015 days ago

9 August 2010 (F) - Heys guys, i was wondering if you can give me an outside opinion... i have been with my partner for around 2 years now and to be honest we didnt start on the best grounds. in the first month of our relationship he has cheated on me with his ex g...

He doesn't seem to miss me at all since he moved away...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5016 days ago

9 August 2010 (F) - Okay well my boyfriend of almost 7 years got a very good job offer sprung on him last week which gave him 2 days to get his stuff packed and move 1200 miles away. before he went we talked about it and decided that i would go down a month after so he ...

Girl I met while travelling... or my girlfriend. Who to choose?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

9 August 2010 (M) - I have just come back from travelling for 10 days. Before setting off i had a girlfriend of two months, Whilst travelling i spent an awful lot of time with another girl on the same trip. I feel very strong about her and now im not with her i miss ...

Should I help my ex with career at the risk of losing my current boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

9 August 2010 (F) - Hey guys, be great to get ur advice on this. Im in a very loving and caring relationship with my boyfriend a year now. im 25 and he's 26. im going into my final year in college stusying animation, and recently have a great opportunity for a great ...

Sex after dating just 2 weeks?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

9 August 2010 (F) - its bad to have sex with your boyfriend if you have date him only for two weeks?...

My boyfriend has turned all distant...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5015 days ago

9 August 2010 (F) - hey, ive been with my bf for nearly 2 years, hes been distancing himself a lot lately, but hes always been quite a distant person. I texed him to ask him what was going on and bluntly asked him if he still wanted to be with me and he replied 'im ...

My girlfriend masturbates but doesn't want to have sex very much.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

9 August 2010 (M) - I'm 24 and my girlfriend is 19. We've been dating for 7 months and just moved in together 2 months ago. We have had periods where we have had a lot of sex, but here recently it is just about 1-3 times a week, usually on the lower side. The thing ...

How do we approach our parents with the news I'm pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5015 days ago

9 August 2010 (F) - im 17 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now. we just found out this morning that i am pregnant. it doesn't seem real yet, i feel like its all just a dream.. we're going to take another test tonight and make sure i actually am, ...

Need help with communication issues...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5015 days ago

9 August 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a great guy who I met online since April. We live about an hour apart and he lives on base so it's difficult to see each other because of his job in the RAF. Since we have been together he has had to go on ...

Does it sound like sex is all he was interested in?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

9 August 2010 (F) - At the beggining of the year i had my first proper relationship with a boy 5 years older than who had a kid from a previous relationship. We were together 2 months and he made me feel really special so i decided to sleep with him. I am moving t...

My dream date... how can I tell him I want to act it out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

9 August 2010 (F) - Hey guys please answer this..... Ok everone has a dream date including me. My dream date is walking on the beach with my boyfriend looking at the sunset, sitting on the sand hugging and talking to each other, maybe a kiss here and there, splashing ...

He fantasises about having sex with other women as I'm the only one he's slept with...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

9 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 4 years now. We have had a rocky relationship. In the beginning he kissed another girl that was wayyyy younger them him. We moved on after that and then a couple years later I found pictures of her ...

Help!!! Am I being selfish by keeping him in my life when maybe he would be better off without me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5016 days ago

9 August 2010 (F) - I am 14 and me and my friend haven't really been great recently, I guess the most important thing to mention is he's also my ex-boyfriend. He lives more than an hour away and this is one of the reasons we broke up (about a year ago) but I insisted ...

Engaged... but I don't love her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

9 August 2010 (M) - Hello, We're engaged for nearly a year now, I like her but I don't think that I love her. We're sexually attracted to each other but other than that we have nothing in common. I told her once that I am not sure where our relationship is headin...

Girlfriend didn't introduce me to her friends, should I be upset?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5015 days ago

9 August 2010 (M) - hi guys i just wanna know your opinion about this see my girlfriend and i went to a wedding of her friend. it was all good and steady but when we were about to leave, and as we approached the couple, she chit chatted with her and of course ...

Need Age difference advice please.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5016 days ago

9 August 2010 (F) - Hi, i'm 17 years old and will be 18 in four months. I've been friends with a guy for a while, and things seem to have changed recently. He is 26 years old and he is a really nice guy. He's one of my very good friends. The deal is that I'm attracted ...

His mother meddles in our relationship constantly but he's a mummie's boy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5015 days ago

9 August 2010 (F) - Is there hope?..... Help I'm 44 yrs old I date a man who still lives at home after 8 yrs of dating. He also lies about everything from his thinking he is a celebrity to why he still lives at home. He blames me for all that goes wrong in his life and ...

How would you respond to a person that had a crush on you.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

9 August 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm just wondering... how would you respond to someone who tells you that they have a crush on you if you wasnt attracted to them. What would you say? in the nicest way. thanks ...

He wants us to get a place together but I'm not so sure...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

9 August 2010 (F) - hey im 18 and iv been with my boyfriend for 2 and half years. we started seeing each other in high school and tbh he wasnt my type of guy. i dont no whether i have trust problems or whether its him :/ the thing is i worry a lot but he texts girls ...

How can I advise my daughter???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

9 August 2010 (F) - My daughter is 19 ,and very confused. She is unable to be alone, and because of that ,she is putting up, with a boyfriend ,who is not treating her very nice. I think she is putting in much more than he does, and I dont know how loyal he is , ...

How do I know if she's really into me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

9 August 2010 (M) - I recently started spending time with this girl that I've know for a while. I had not seen her in about 8 months when she randomly asked me to hang out one night. Its been about a month and I've developed feelings for her but I am unsure of how she ...

As a guy, would you assume this text meant the female fancies you or is just giving you a compliment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

9 August 2010 (F) - I sent a male friend of mine a text today to tell him I thought at 48 he still looked b@@@dy good and said I hope I haven't embarrassed you. I also told him to keep it to himself (as it was my way of telling him that I think he is gorgeous). He t...

How do I go about contacting this man I met through work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

9 August 2010 (F) - hello everyone. I would like some advice please. I recently undertook a temporary job for 8 weeks and met some lovely people, in particular a nice man! I did not see him everyday for the 8 weeks, as he only worked for 3 days and only came back fro...

Is he thinking about marriage or is he just all talk?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

9 August 2010 (F) - I am just writing because I am somewhat confused by my boyfriend's behavior lately. Things seem to be going well for us - his family and friends love me and seem to think I'm a keeper, and I think he is too. We were at a mutual friend's wedding ...

My (same sex) best friend is hitting on me! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5016 days ago

9 August 2010 (F) - can you help? i live an average life in uni, but i have a best friend and she is really cool and sweet but a bit too friendly recently. she is just my bestest friend, shes had more boyfriends and break ups than days in a year, and when she does ...

Is it wrong to walk out and not come back if there is a huge argument when I leave?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5016 days ago

9 August 2010 (F) - Basically i have a few things i want advice for. Im 19 years old and currently going to uni but home for the summer. I feel like i am so restricted here. Basically my dad has been treating my like s**t ever since i got back for summer and he fo...

I've never felt an attraction like this before but the problem is she's a lesbian!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

9 August 2010 (M) - Its kind of a weird situation , once i saw this girl in school , first time i saw her something inside me moved , my heart just started to beat weird i feel like pressure inside me i never felt before , i am attracted to her like i've never been to ...

How do I get over being so shy around girls and make my move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5015 days ago

9 August 2010 (M) - Dear cupid.. I am a pretty goodlooking guy i am funny and easy to get along with. i just have one problem every time im with the girl that i like i cant man up and make a move. Even if it is the thing i want to do most. how can i get over my shyn...

Guy who used to stare at me now seeing another girl. Am confused and need to understand why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

9 August 2010 (F) - I know this is probably a very asked question but i need to know what did it mean. i went to school with this guy for a year and all he did was stare at me but never talked to me. he was polite to say hi and that which was good but was there ...

Her word against his

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

9 August 2010 (M) - i feel like im being manipulated by my girlfriend, how do you catch her out? one day out of the blue she told me my good mate said bad things to her parents about me, i confront my friend he said it didn't happen, i ask her father he did not know...

Virgin at 24

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

9 August 2010 (F) - I am going to be 24 in a month, and I am still a virgin. I'm starting to worry that guys will be put off by it. My friends told me just not tell a guy that that I am, but I think he'll find out when he finds out I've only been in one brief ...

How can my boyfriend and I regain the spark in our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5017 days ago

9 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have dated for 4 years. We had had an on and off type of relationship . I feel that I am not IN love with him anymore, I have felt this for a long time but have been reluctant to end things forever - as there are a lot of good ...

Love or Fantasy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5017 days ago

9 August 2010 (M) - Hi there guys I just got back off an amazing holiday where i met this american girl that i now cant get over. Basically at first we sort of talked a bit and i thought she was really pretty and found out she was easy and fun to talk to. We were...

Sex for the very first time

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

9 August 2010 (F) - i am going to have sex for the first time tomorrow but am scared that his penis will not fit in me :S hellp please? what should i do ? ...

He says he is nervous around me and I would like to change that.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

9 August 2010 (F) - I dated a guy for a year and then we broke up. We've tried remaining friends, and it has been on and off. After 2 months of not talking, he called me b/c of some problems he ran into with his gf. We started talking and hanging again...which I ...

I don't want to give him oral sex b/c actual sex happen rarely

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

9 August 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together for about 6 months and even at first he didnt want to have sex that much, maybe 1 or 2 times a week. He always asks for blow jobs and I dont really even want to because I know that will make him last even ...

In love with someone 4x my age

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

9 August 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid ok well I just started working at a job and my boss is really nice. I have worked there for about a month or so and I am really starting to like him but the major problem is that I'm 13 and he's 51...is that weird? I don't like him in a...

Ambivalence

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

9 August 2010 (M) - Dear cupid, I'm quite confused and ambivalent right now regarding the relationship with my girlfriend, and I would like some advice. I met her back in 2006. Before that, she used to live in a different city but her parents asked her to move so...

Should I stay with my girlfriend????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

9 August 2010 (M) - So I was wondering if my girlfriend still deserves me after screwing up many times and this being the biggest time of all. She is currently in another state and the only friends she has over there party and drink. One night, she snuck out and went ...

Young love gone wrong

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

9 August 2010 (F) - me and my ex boyfriend dated for 18 months, but when summer came along i broke it off due to a fight we had. i didnt think it would be a "done of good" break up but, we are now on our third month apart and he does still call me. although, last week ...

One mistake

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

9 August 2010 (F) - i am trapped by my own mistake.my best friend's boyfriend approached me to do sex.he is really handsome and i have heard my friend mourning through doors.i always fantasize them.when he approached i was thrilled to get that same exp. i first denied ...

Why is she so nervous around me.?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

9 August 2010 (M) - There's this girl I like in school who is very nervous when we happen to be alone together. When I talk to her she smiles, she doesn't say much and her voice changes.It's a lot softer and more reserved than when she talks to other people. She laughs ...