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writes:I've been with my boyfriend for not more than a year. I love him dearly and I want to satisfy his every need. He says I do but he always get horny on his own. He does most of the foreplay and I feel bad because I want to play with his penis but dont know how. Help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2009): Don't forget his balls. Men complain they don't get enough attention. Caress them gently. Lick them. Put them in your mouth.
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reader, leo3  +, writes (23 September 2009):
 try to work him up by teasing him (not for too long) by gently stroking his shaft with your fingers then kind of play with the tip and talk kind of dirty. every guy likes it a little different though, watching him is a good idea, but another way to get a feel for what he likes is put your hand around it and have him put his hand over yours and show you how he jerks off so you can get a feel for it and replicate it next time. also dont be afraid to talk to him, im sure he'd appreciate your concern.
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reader, Candleman +, writes (23 September 2009):
 Like what caring guy said only I'll elaborate a little more...Every guy masturbates their own particular way. They've done it for years. There is a certain way they grip it, certain way they stroke, certain pauses etc.
Ask him to masturbate in front of you and watch what he does. Try to duplicate what he does. Like caring guys says, communicate with him and ask if what you are doing is working, harder, firmer grip etc.
Also, keep in mind that you don't have to focus on the penis all the time. Gently rub his stomach (unless he's sensitive to weight or overly ticklish), use your feet to rub him, perform oral, talk dirty... There is almost an infinite amount of things that you can do. Take it slow at first and don't try to do too much at one time. It takes time to get experience doing this.
The key is to explore yourselves in order to learn what you do and don't like and communicate to each other, don't rely on guessing. Most important is to relax and enjoy.
Good Luck and Enjoy
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (23 September 2009):
Watch what does and copy. Also, ask him direct if there's anything you'd like him to do. You can only learn about him when you're with him. Guys like differernt things.
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