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Archived questions from: 26 November, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Is this love or just infatuation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5265 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - i love this dude so much. i have mix emotions about him but i know that i truly love him [as a friend]. we met each other when i was about 7 and he was 10 from that day our eyes met. i still remember when we met. i just cant stop thinking about him ...

My ex-boyfriend faces prison for what he did, should I continue case against him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - I stupidly met up with an obsessed ex boyfriend reasons I do not know nor can explain. We met up and returned home to his house by taxi around 11.30. On entry into the house I went to the toilet. During this time he had taken my mobile and proce...

Are condoms safe enough without using birth control?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - Hi everyone. Well, me and my boyfriend are planning to have sex soon, and we are both virgins. Of course we're planning on using protection to prevent pregnancy and infections. The thing is, is it okay to only use condoms on the first time and not ...

I was raped in the past and don't want to make out with my boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - so me and my bf have been goin out for a while and we kiss all the time but hes been wanting to makeout. i asked him if we could take our relationship a little slower and he said yes but i do want to makeout with him, i just dont know how. People ...

He can't let my past go...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend wont forget what has happened to me in the past, he is always saying how it affects him and makes him upset, but he still says that he loves me loads and its only when he is reminded about what happened he hates me and wonders why he is ...

My Bisexual Secret

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - Okay, so, I'm bisexual. Ive known it for a while, and I share everything with my boyfriend, but is it the right thing to tell him this? Hes already worried about other guys trying to make a move, letalone a girl. Should I tell him and risk him ...

My boyfriend physically and mentally drains me... I'm so unhappy...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3392 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - Hello to everyone that responds to my question. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. The relationship started out ok, and its been alright since. I enjoy his company sometimes, but half of the time he mentally exhausts me. Once upon a t...

He wants to go to "next base." What does this mean exactly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have only kissed (not made out) and he said maybe we could "go to the next base" But I was always told 1st base was making out, so what do you think he means? Haha....

Is he going off me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - i been dating this boy since i was a freshmen in high school, he is now in college and im now a senior. He agreed that we would stay together. The first year of college everything was ok but this year everything went wrong, he would only call me ...

My guy won't let go of the past...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5267 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - Me and my bf have been together for one year are we great together and get on really well. He says that he loves me loads and would do anything for me but when i was tidying up for him i found loads of stuff from his last gf, he said she was a h...

My boyfriend slapped me... what should I do for him to forgive me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - What should i do my boyfriend slapped me? What should i do for him to forgive me? me and my boyfriend got in a big argument about where we will spend thanksgiving and i said a few things and kicked him where it would hurt the most.. cause he was p...

What is the cure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5267 days ago

26 November 2009 (M) - I need to know is there a cure? My girlfriend and I broke up last June. I thought I was fine and over her, I do not want to get back together with her or even see her again. But for some reason I found out that she is dating again and has a new ...

My boyfriend said it's too expensive to get a divorce, that's it's only a piece of paper but it's tearing me apart...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a guy for almost 4 years now. Living together for most of it. I love him more than anything, and we have been through a lot together. We both have 2 children from previous relationships and all 4 children are ...

He held me tight all last night and he said he loves me more than anything, but now I am in fear of him leaving...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has Huge trust issues but i trust him completely, he is a very honourable, loving man. he has a bit of a reason though, as i had taken anti-depressents and didn't tell him about it because he was always telling me that i'm such a downer ...

I am falling hard for my best female friend. What can I do to kill these feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5267 days ago

26 November 2009 (M) - I am not married, but living in a relationship of many, many years. I love my companion very much, she has been my everything so far. In regards to my female friend, I have known this girl, my friend, for many years but only in the last year we...

I need your opinions please. Is he worth staying with in the long run....?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5267 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - Ok so my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 and a half years. We both have a child (My son is 4 and his daughter is 3) although both children are from previous relationships. He is currently incarcerated and has been since March of this ...

Why would he invite me out for dinner but then never call or texts to arrange the date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - I sent an email to a guy I used to work with--just a "hi, how are you doing" email. He answered and said "we should get together for dinner and catch up on things." He included his cell number. I called a couple of days later, we talked for abt 15 ...

Why do I feel like I miss him if missing someone is not a sign of being in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - I am seeing a guy, whom I got to know at work. We have been hanging out and I get a sense of 'missing' when we are separate.I have been told that it isn't a sign for being in love, but if this is not the case, then why do I feel this way? Out of all ...

I've just come out of a relationship, so why am I attracted to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5267 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - hope you guys can help me her. a couple of weeks ago a new guy started at my job. ive just come out of a very bad relationship 7 months ago so want a nice stress free life but i dont know whats wrong with me but im strangelt attracted to thi...

If I have sex with him will it ruin any chance of having a relationship with him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - I met this guy a month ago.We've hung out twice/talk dailyOur texts involve alot of flirting + the usual - what we're upto etc.Despite our super flirty/naughty txts.He's a gentleman in person -hasnt crossed the line and apologizes when he feels he ...

Guys opinions needed, whats up with his late night phone calls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5267 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - I need guy's inputs mainly. I have a guy friend and there is obviously something more than friendship between us. He currently has a girlfriend and things have been going on lately that seem to point towards them not being together much longer. The ...

I feel like this is a one sided relationship. Is it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5268 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - I am friend with a guy who I met at work. We have been hanging out for over a month now, and generally he's fine, apart from his music. He is a big fan of his bass guitar, which isn't a problem to me, but I dislike the songs he plays the bass tunes ...

Did I put him off with my overreaction?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5268 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - Please can I have advice on this problem that is really depressing me.... I have this problem that rears it's ugly head every now and again. I don't know why it happens it just does! Right when I'm into a guy and think there may be a chance ...

What do I do about my boyfriend's drinking problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - My bf wants me to spend Christmas with him and his family, and although I really want to share that occasion with him, at the same time I want to be with my family. The decision wouldnt be so hard if it wasnt for my bfs drinking problem. I am sick ...

He's involved, wants nothing to do with love but is offering sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - Hi, and wow I cannot believe I'm asking the internet for advice but here it goes: A few days ago [maybe even a week] I met this fantastic guy. Thing is, he is a bit older than I am and already has a girl friend. Here are the problems with the...

I'm married and my girlfriend let her ex sleep over. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

26 November 2009 (M) - My girlfriend agreed to date me even though she knew I was married. I was honest from day one. You will have to believe me as she did that my wife and I stopped sleeping together 4 years ago. My Girlfriend has a two year old with a man that ...

If she was a big flirt while dating someone else, will she be the same way with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

26 November 2009 (M) - so im in love with ths girl...shes 18. im 16. shes bisexual and was in a relationship when she told me she had feelings for me....i had feelings for her as well. i respected that she was with someone and didnt flirt with her or anything but she was ...

Can people of different social class date?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - So for the past few weeks I have been talking to this extremely good looking guy in my sociology class. The other day I missed class to study for my criminal justice test and the following class he asked me why I was away. I told him the reason, he ...

Boyfriend and crush, please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - This probably sounds stupid but i will just say it. I have been in a relationship with this guy who i think i love nine months. We are both juniors in high school, but we go to different high schools. We sometimes see each other on the weekdays but ...

I feel like I jump down my boyfriend's throat for stupid things.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - I feel like I jump down my boyfriend's throat for stupid things. He's so clueless most of the time about what I want him to do, and I feel like I need to let him know but when I do he gets upset because he really doesn't mean to do anything wrong. ...

Weve been together for 5 months, we have never gone farther than making out. is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months now and i am completely crazy about him. however, even though weve been together for 5 months, we have never gone farther than making out. is this normal? he is 18 and i am 16. i am his first girl ...

Good Friend or The Boy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - A good friend of mine likes this guy, but i like him too. But, she dated him for a week, and they broke up, and i think he's really starting to like me. What should i do? Be a loyal friend or take a chance? ...

This guy likes me but I like his best friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5267 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - This is a bit long and messed up. I broke up with my long term partner ( and fiance) last year. Soon after I broke up, this pretty close friend of mine (call him X) whom I hadn't met for awhile, contacted me to catch up. Not long after that, X ...

Is it a date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - Hi, For the past couple of months i have been working at Wendy's and recently this guy has been working there. I think that he is interested in me, we flirt every single chance we get. The second day we worked together he gave me his number a...

I need some ideas what to buy him this Christmas...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - Hey I need help with a simple situation. Christmas is coming up and I have no idea what I should get my boyfriend I'm really not good when it comes to shopping for guys my boyfriend is 24 years old Any ideas will be highly appreciated!!! ...

I feel like my boyfriend doesn't care any more, should I end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - I'm in a long distance relationship, and have been for almost 7 months. It went pretty well at first, and I thought it was 'perfect' during the summer (but perhaps that was just the honeymoon stage). Once school started, we both began to get very ...

Do I have to compromise myself to attract a man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - I am a 20 year old virgin who has never had much luck with guys. I'm not thin (however, I'm not obese: I'm just slightly overweight), I don't have any self confidence in my appearance, and I do not pretend to be something I'm not! Usually, when I ...

Very confused by his behavior and don't know what to make of it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - I'm currently rather confused about what is going on between me and a guy I have been involved with. I met him about 2 months ago when I started at university, and it was obvious from as soon as we met that he really liked me. After about 2 we...

Unprotected sex... now I'm worried I may be pregnant!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - hi im 17 and have a boyfriend i have been having unprotected sex with. thing is i wasnt meant to be due on my period until the 6th december but i come on today which is a week and a half early, this keeps happening, its happend about 3 times now, i ...

It's his birthday next week and I STILL have no idea what to get him. Any ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

26 November 2009 (M) - my boyfriend and i have been going out for a month and a half. his birthday is on monday and i still don't know what he would want. i keep asking him, and all he says is "i don't know, surprise me." which basically makes him no help. any ideas? ...

Help! In love with my boyfriend's best friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - I'm really confused right now and i don't know what to do. I like my boyfriend's best friend! but i still have feelings for my boyfriend. I feel horrible. Help! :( ..please :(!!...

How can I let my friend see I want to spend more time with my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - I got a boyfriend on Sunday, but I haven't been able to spend much time with him because my friend "Lucy" doesn't seem to grasp the concept that I want to spend time with him as well. I want to let her know, but I don't want to do it in a way that ...

"Water sports!"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I engage in watersports ie urinating on each other. He has asked me if he could pee inside of me and I wanted to know if anything could potentially harm me if we did engage?...