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51-59,
anonymous
writes:hope you guys can help me her.a couple of weeks ago a new guy started at my job.ive just come out of a very bad relationship 7 months ago so want a nice stress free life but i dont know whats wrong with me but im strangelt attracted to this new guy.last week due to short staffing etc we found ourselves working together 3 days in a row and i have to say we got on very very well together-it was almost like not being at work and ive helped him loads-him being new and allheres where it gets difficult. in the last 3 days we have spoke about stuff most normal people wouldnt after such a short time. hes going through a divorce-his wife of 10 years ran off with someone else so i can see hes very hurt/angry and he spoke to me about it a little.he also said last week that an old friend he didnt know works in another sector gave him her number off the cuff so theyre now phone flirting-whats wrong with me though that im attracted to him ?hes also got 2 young kids with the current ex and 2 grown up ones before so its majorly complicated. i dont intend to do anything but why am i getting attracted to him and what should i do now hes got a phone friend/potential girlfriend-me and himwe get on really well arrrgh help please !
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2009): Ask him out for lunch. What's the worst that could happen? Sounds like he needs someone to talk to and who knows what may develop. You can't deny a connection if there is one.
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