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writes:I got a boyfriend on Sunday, but I haven't been able to spend much time with him because my friend "Lucy" doesn't seem to grasp the concept that I want to spend time with him as well. I want to let her know, but I don't want to do it in a way that will upset her. Can anyone help? Reply to this Question
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reader, oliviaclairex  +, writes (27 November 2009):
 take it in turns with them:) if she doesn't understand then just see your boyfriend until she realises she has to share:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionJust a note: I am in High school, and we don't have a playground. There is also 4 different classes that we must attend. My friend, "Lucy" is my best friend, and has never had a boyfriend, but she also has no classes with me. So the only time I can see her is the only time I can see my boyfriend as well.
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reader, Marky.T +, writes (26 November 2009):
ok lets take a good look at this. why is your freind not giving you personal time with your new bf the reasons that i can think of it (a) if she a mate who you hang around with alot then you have to understand that its going to be hard for her to adjust alot of people feel most comftable with one freind more than others and then to have to hang out with some one eles can be uncomftable for them my solution is to just ask nicely say hey me and what his name are going to do somthing alone (ok maby dont word it just like that but sorta along those lines)(b) maby she dosnt like your guy maby cause of playgrong bulling, sterotypes (jock's,stoners,geeks,ect)or maby he is an ex of her's .This can all lead to best freind over protection syndrom ask your lad if hes has any bad history with her to cause this.(c) if the main place you and your bf meet up is the playground ( i asume this seeing as your 13-15 )then ofcorse shes going to hang out with you its hard to be alone so dont be angry at her for that but also maby you and your bf should set up a date out of school ( or high school what ever you call it)then theres no way or reason for her to tag alongthats all i can think of at this late hour in wet and cold england but it is most likely (A) the only way you are going to make any head way is by talking to her do not in any way upset her rember love come and gose but freindship is eternal ( wow i feel like a poet )i hoped that helped drop me a mail with some feed back and tell me how it gose good luck with it :):)
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reader, oliviaclairex +, writes (26 November 2009):
Just go to see your boyfriend and don't tell her you don't have to, and when she asked just say you went to see him today. And if she asks you to go out just say you've made arrangments with him. But don't forget about her, she's just as important if not more at our age!xxxx
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