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Dating: Help and advice

Why am I so affraid to have a boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - Okay so my problem is kinda weird. I have no problem getting guys, a lot of guys really do like me but what we do is just hook up. I've only had one boyfriend and that was a very long time ago. Everytime a guy asks me to be his girl i cant run away ...

How do I introduce myself to the guy that caught my eye?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5276 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - so i like this guy and i have said hey to him a few times....i smile at him make eye contact all the usual stufft that a girl does when she like a guy...but i havnt tod him my name yet..so how do i introduce myself to him without looking like a ...

Why was his underwear all sticky?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5273 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - My partner of 4 years and I have a kid. My partner is 31 and i'm 28 and i'm ok looking not to me but he thinks i'm ok so anyway i wanted to have sex a few days ago he didn't. Now when i was doing his load of clothing i found his underwear sticky ...

How can I get beyond my insecurities?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5275 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - Help! I am so insecure about myself =/ When I'm not with my boyfriend (ie: during class, or if hes busy with homework, with friends...etc.) I get nervous and my mind starts to work over time and thoughts run through my head...I know he likes me! ...

Why won't any man have sex with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I am a female in my early twenties. I have been told I am attractive. I am slender yet have nice curves, a very noticeable smile and nice long hair. I am educated, intelligent, well mannered and have been told I have a great personality and a fa...

Please give me tips on how to not beg my boyfriend to take me back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - [MODERATOR NOTE: Four different posts from the same person have been combined into one.] Iv been in an on/off relationship for 2 years. I recently came to realise that he basically loved the control he had over me. He has no respect, puts me down...

I'm overwhelmed by condom selections! Any tips?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - Hey, Me and my girlfriend are thinking of having sex. And it sounds embarrasing, but when i looked in the shop for condoms, i was completely confused on how many different types there are. Can anyone help me out, and tell me the best 'DUREX...

Do I still like my boyfriend more than a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5276 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - Hey, I'm in a relationship and I'm thinking of ending it. I've always been an undecided person, so I'm seeking for a bit of advice. My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 5 months. We're both 16. He really is a great guy; Calm, kin...

My boyfriend left me, but hasn't turned in the key! Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend moved out without warning. He was a horrible communicator. His name is on the lease and he said that he would give me the key when the lease is up. Why keep the key?...

I have a boyfriend but no friend to talk to if I have a problem or just for fun. What do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5270 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - Hiya everyone :) Its not really a question question, just kind of needed some other people's views and opinions, or someone to listen really! I have a lovely family who i am quite close to, however when i was growing up they always kept themselves ...

My boyfriend puts alcohol before me and his children!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 7 months is a raging alcoholic and I dont know what to do. I did not know that it was this bad until recently. He is always putting his friends and his drinking before me. The other night he called me and said that he was on his wa...

The woman I love is there, but ignoring me. How can I reach her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - Just over two years ago I met the most incredible and beautiful woman. She is a professional Dominatrix and I had sought out her services to indulge some 'kinks'. However, we hit it off and never did anything professionally. We became really good ...

I feel so stupid because I fooled around with this guy at work!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I need some help, I feel so stupid. This is long - sorry. Me and a guy at work have been flirting for a long time I have always said never to a work thing but one day we were both working late and one thing let to another and we kissed, a bit la...

He's getting me a promise ring for Christmas. What should I get him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - What should I get him for Christmas? He's getting me a PROMISE RING. So, im 16 years old and my boyfriend is 17. We've had a great relationship, we've been together for basically 6 months, but we both know that if we met sooner, we would have be...

I haven't been myself lately and I am worried I am pregnant!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - im 17 years old and have been with my boyfriend for almost a year he is 24, we are in love and are very close. there have been a few times over the past few weeks that the condom split...i put it to the back of my mind and told myself i'll be okay. ...

My boyfriend thinks I am too young to be the mother of his baby.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - i am a virgin and would love to have sex with my bf and become his child's mom but my bf says that i'm very young to be the mother of his kid and he would make me pregnant only aftr i finish my college but i want it rite now and i have gone mad ...

How can I dress more attractively?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5274 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - i am a short , fat and black guy. plsss pour your suggestions for dressing attractively. i usually wear jeans trousers and t - shirts. but my friends insist me to wear formals that 'd be looking nice for me... plsss yur ideas!!!!!!!!!!!...

Obsession or Procrastination? How can I focus on my work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I'm supposed to be writing a thesis but find myself thinking about my lover all the time, and scouring pages like these for answers. I don't think badly of him or suspect him of anything (except being a gorgeous rascal), I just wonder about him and ...

Did the father of my baby give me Gardnerella Bacterial Vaginalis?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I want to know what people think are the signs of a cheating man. I am currently pregnant - about the half way mark...and the father of baby has been on and off with me for most of this pregnancy which I finally told him point blank am fed up of the ...

I love my boyfriend, but I am tired of staying home all the time!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for several years. When we first started dating we went out often. As the years passed, we found ourselves staying home more often. Recently, I have wanted to go out, so when the situation presents itself, ...

Love Triangle: Should I wait and see how things go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - ok, I'm in a dilemma. I like this guy and he says he likes me too, but he has a gf that he has been on and off with for three years. The complicated thing is that in between their relationship she was married and had 3 kids.(He has no kids with her) ...

Is it possible to change a man's mind once they've settled on a course?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I've written before about my boyfriend who is going through a divorce and that I feel as though he has been showing less interest in me as a person recently and been a bit complacent towards me - even though he did make the effort to see me...

I was MIA for 6 weeks, but she broke up with me for an older rich man!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - So I've been seeing this girl for over a year. The status of our relationship has varied from lovers,to close friends, to 'just friends' to 'seeing each other.'. Around 6 months ago we broke off our relationship to become just friends. After ...

I am desperate to meet someone. Why am I having trouble?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - Hello, I am a woman in my mid forties. I was in a relationship with a man a while back but, broke up. I still see him since we travel in the same circles. It took me a long time to get over him. I really fell for this guy and it has been...

I have a date and I don't know what to talk about!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - ok i need help and pretty fast!! I just accepted this date from a guy i have liked for months and months. Well i don't know that much about him and previously on dates lets just say i suck at them. When i'm out with my friends im this bubbly outg...

This girl is horrible to me. Could it be true she likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - Hellooo :), i have a question about a girl in our class. I've been wondering if she fancies me or not, but its a bit complicated. We both did a college course last year and everyone that i have kept in touch with from that course said they thought ...

Is this dream telling me something?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I had a dream last night that my boyfriend and I were getting married. We were at the movies with our friends, and everyone was all excited for us. But we were such in a rush to get married that we didn't even have rings or anything planned. He ...

Am I wasting my time with him? Why would he cut off contact all of a sudden?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5276 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I met a guy a few weeks ago and had a lovely first date. We stayed up until the early hours just talking and laughing and kissing. He walked me home and gave me a kiss goodbye. Since then, our communication has slowed. He has stopped texting first ...

Any ideas what this dream means?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5271 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I had a dream last night that my boyfriend and I were getting married. We were at the movies with our friends, and everyone was all excited for us. But we were in such in a rush to get married that we didn't even have rings or anything planned. He ...

Is it a good idea to quit my job and let him support me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i been dating for 3 years. we been through so many break-ups. he is a very jealous person. he can be controlling also. he is a great person when he wants to be. there's one problem though. i met him at my place of employment. im a ...

How can I show my ex I've changed and that I want her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - I really want to give things with my exgirlfriend another go and i think she does too but im scared she will turn me down. We were together for 9 months a few years ago, and we're were very close. I stupidly dumped her when she became depresse...

Who do you think likes me more? I'm drawn to one guy but I'm not sure if he's interested!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I have some male friends, two of which I am concerned about. The first one is a guy I work with, let's call him Daniel, and the second is called Gary. Dan and I have known each other for just over a month now, through work mainly. In the w...

Am I crazy for thinking my boyfriend might be gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - hi i have been with my boyfriend for ten months now, but i have known him for a long time... we both love eachother, he tells me alot that he loves me, treats me so good. this is gonna sound a bit crazy but i keep thinking my boyfriend is gay or ...

I know nothing about dating! Has anyone got any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - I am a 20 year old male who has never had a date because I've always been to shy to ask anyone. I am, now, perfectly confident in myself and can talk to girls much more easily. The problem is I don't really know absolutely anything about dating and ...

To others it seems like there is not a lot to lose, but to me its the world!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5276 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - Hi. I have a major problem i've been in love with this guy for the best part of a year and a half. We were friends and were in the same class, i really thought he liked me, he used to get really nervous around me, like sometimes he couldnt talk to ...

How do I keep my boyfriend happy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - hey i have been with my boyfriend seven months now, but i have known him for years... we both love each other and are very close, i can be myself around him. but sometimes i feel that i could be boring him, do you have any tips on how to keep hold ...

What songs should I listen to after finding out he doesn't like me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - To cut a long story short I have recently found out that the person I like, likes someone else, and to be honest... I'm gutted. But rather than moping around any longer [I like him A LOT] I want to move on. I need some songs that I can listen to ...

I realised I couldnt trust my boyfriend but only after we had unprotected sex! How do I move on from this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I feel completely betrayed. I was dating a guy for six months and thought i could trust him. He started doing things that made me believe otherwise. So I broke it off, then I realized we had sex a couple of times throughout our relationship ...

Is a Christmas gift a sign to a girl that things are starting to get more serious?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - I've been dating this girl for about three months now, and we haven't really had any sort of talk about the status of our relationship. I really like her, I'm pretty sure she likes me, and we have a lot of fun together, but I don't want things to ...

To date or not to date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I've been talking to a guy for almost a year and the past 2 months we've been spending more time together. I have a couple of questions.. he has bad credit and short on money. I feel so shallow when I think of that being the dealbreaker for going to ...

Am I wrong for thinking we had something going?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5276 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - Im really confused about this guy.He says he is scared of a relationship and doesnt want one,but to me I think a relationship is pretty close to what we have already been doing,except without the title! Let me explain some of the details with my ...

Getting it up (first time)

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - Hi people, I have a concern I'd like to get input on. I'm 18-22 and a virgin; I was about to have sex several times after making out but every time I couldn't get a full erection, or of I did, it fell off quickly..I just didn't seem to be that ...

I've got a boyfriend now so how can I stop this urge?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I'm 18 and i have a problem and i need help. well in the past i had this one guy that i gave blow jobs to and now that im in a relationship i have nothing else to give because i love the person im with. so one day they asked me to come over but i ...

My girlfriend lives in a defense mechanism and won't let me inside.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - I've been in a somewhat new relationship. We've been talking for months and months, but only a few back actually made things officially exclusive. Anyway, my girlfriend has a tendency to keep to herself about things that bother her. She remains ...

I have a great relationship with my boyfriend... but there's something missing...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I have a sweet, loving boyfriend who worships me. He is trying to improve his life, it took a while, but in an effort to not lose me he started community college six months ago,is maintaining a steady job although it doesn't pay much, and has ...

He wants me to change everything about myself!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I'm 19 years old and i have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we have a baby together but I'm not sure if he still loves me or not?? He tells me that i need to change and dont know what i need to change?? When i ask him he tells me "everyth...

Confused about what's going on with my relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - I've known this girl for years and she's my best friend n all. She recently wanted to give us a try n 2 months into it I'm just not sure about my feelings! One minute I'm like yes I want to be with her, then the next minute I dont. Small things ...

Make up sex! Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - Why is it that every single time that me and my fiance have a falling out we always end up having make-up sex? I've told him before that I think he chooses to bring up an argument a lot of times is just so we can have sex. And sometimes this makes ...

I know more about books than women... help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - Well, this is another story of my life. i have decided to write those things down coz i cannot keep them inside me any more. I have started to like this website (I have received quite helpful advice), but I'm curious to see if anyone has an answe...

Does my boyfriend not care any more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and we've gone through some tough and good times. Like at first he was the one that was all over me, telling me how much he liked me and so on. And I was always the 'mean' one if you will. But then he kinda ...

He's introduced me to his family. Does that mean he's serious about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - Why would a guy introduce you too his family and bring you around them? I personally wouldn't bring any guys around my family unless I was planning to keep him around. The reason I asked is because I met all my ex boyfriend's family and was always ...

Overly jealous fiance???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - Why does my fiance keep wanting to know about my past. He wants to know was he the first to finger me, had I ever had sex before and such. I don't understand how my past has any effect on me and him. He refuses to accept that he is my first and he ...

A bad experience in bed!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I had an experience in bed the other night and I am not sure how I should react to it. I was having sex with my boyfriend, I was lying on my stomach and he was on top of me. We were both very drunk. Then he stuck it my bum. I dont know whethe...

My girlfriend's mum is a pain in the bum!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - ok i recently posted about my gf and her mum well her mum has used her brains to get her daughter to think she was ok so she could text me. The following thing: I am warning you... dont ever contact my daughter again... she is 19 and does not ...

They wont let us see each any more!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5246 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - Okay so, I've been in my relationship for 1 year and 2 months so far. We've gone through a lot and overcome it all. The fact we didnt see each other after we met for 5 months, was because we had to get each other's parents to like us, and the fact ...

Am I being too sensitive? Has she lost interest in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - I'll start off by saying that I am a sensitive guy. I get my feelings hurt fairly easy (though I rarely show it.) My girlfriend and I have been together for two years. We were friends throughout high school, and we each had a crush on one another ...

Is he interested or just blowing me off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I met M two weeks ago through a common friend of ours. He liked me and I liked him but nothing happened. A few days later we were talking on facebook and he suggested we go have drinks. We finally went out on a date and in the end he ended up coming ...