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writes:I am a 20 year old virgin who has never had much luck with guys. I'm not thin (however, I'm not obese: I'm just slightly overweight), I don't have any self confidence in my appearance, and I do not pretend to be something I'm not! Usually, when I see magazines, or websites offering advice to become more attractive; it involves the woman having to compromise everything that makes her "her." Is it even possible to attract anyone or have a relationship if the woman is not willing to sacrifice everything that makes her unique?
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reader, rick0289  +, writes (26 November 2009):
all you need to do is re-read all the posts and understand that all it takes is a healthy outlook on life. With that comes confidence and THAT is what people are attracted to.
From there springs all things great! Security, growth, sex... fun, laughter!
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reader, Jay_Jacks  +, writes (26 November 2009):
One thing I learned being a rather curvy, unique woman myself is that guys will either want to be your best friend or be the love of your life.
Find your sexuality and run with it! Before you know it guys will be trying their damnedest to try and catch up. Wanting you're attention.
A guy should never expect you to be anything other than what you are. They do though, but be strong and hold your own. NO ONE has the right to tell another person who they should or should not be in order to be socially accepted. In fact I pride myself on NOT being socially acceptable... It's way more fun that way and no one knows what to expect next!
I think every now and then everyone needs to remind themselves that they are a beautiful, unique and special person.
Just because we don't all look like those airbrushed beauties in the magazines/bill boards/tv etc doesn't mean we're any less gorgeous.
And you my sweet, well clearly you're full of all kinds of awesomeness. If you don't like how you look, try on a few different styles, but be comfortable with you!
Do what YOU need to do to make yourself happy. The rest will follow...
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reader, DiamondGirlx +, writes (26 November 2009):
 I think its pretty damn cool that you wanna be urself,
im fed up of girls being something their not just to impress someone thats being 'fake'
and yeh it is possible to do so, just find a hobby you like doing or join some club or anything you find interesting and start from there. You can build up ur confidence and get to know more people. Your'll be able to find someone who likes you for being you!!
:) D.Gx
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reader, shortone1 +, writes (26 November 2009):
 soon or later you will come across a man who loves you for you. no matter what. just maybe if you don't already , go places and get out there and have fun.
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