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Boyfriend and crush, please help!

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Question - (26 November 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 November 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

This probably sounds stupid but i will just say it. I have been in a relationship with this guy who i think i love nine months. We are both juniors in high school, but we go to different high schools. We sometimes see each other on the weekdays but usually weekends. Recently guys at my school have taken an interest in me, and i flirt back. I think i have a crush on one of the guys. Is this bad that i think i am in love with my boyfriend and then might have a crush on another guy? Wat do u think i should do keep going on with my relationship? Is this normal or bad to have a crush on another guy other than my boyfriend? I am a very loyal girlfriend so i dont want to cheat on my boyfriend, thanks.

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A female reader, oliviaclairex United Kingdom +, writes (26 November 2009):

oliviaclairex agony auntIf you're in love with your boyfriend, this crush is just lust not love so don't end it with your boyfriend.

If you are starting to not like you're boyfriend or feel he doesn't give you all you want, then maybe you want a change. You shouldn't cheat, just don't worry and see what happens.xxxxx

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (26 November 2009):

If you have a crush on another guy, it means that you need to work on your relationship with your boyfriend. Is there something missing from the relationship, or do you need to get closer to him? Is he treating you well? It just sounds like you need to put more effort into your relationship. However, if you do and you are still feeling this way, then look at whether you would be better ending your relationship and getting to know other guys. And stay loyal throughout, you'll feel better about it all and feel less confused if you don't cheat.

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