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Archived questions from: 19 November, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Does our relationship have potential, or are we just friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - I am completely confused. Completely! I've been getting close with this guy for the past month and a half. It's been one thing after another. First, I was hesitant because I thought he was still with this girl. Actually I still don't know whats go...

Has anybody taken a break and everything worked out in the end?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - Ok so I'm 23 my bfs 25 we were dating for 4 months yet we have gone thru so much in so little time... yet he asked for space to make sure what he wants n to see if he's ready to make the next step which is marriage, yea sounds fast but we know each ...

The sum of al fears... My obsession with relationship (sexual) past.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

19 November 2009 (M) - I've been on this site, and a few others for a while. My question I guess is a combination of many questions, and I'm not totally sure where to begin. Let me start by saying that I love my girl. If I didn't then I wouldn't be worried about an...

I haven't dated in a year!!! Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5274 days ago

19 November 2009 (M) - hey, i was in a really close relationship that ended a year ago, but since then i just havent dated anyone. when i go out with friends i sometimes notice when a girl is interested but im so shy around girls i think they assume im not into them and ...

Help me prepare... in case I'm pregnant!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5274 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - Please help! I'm worried I'm pregnant... Me and my boyfriend have never used a condom but I'm on the pill. We both got tested before we slept together. But I'm a bit forgetful and miss a few pills from time to time. But me and my boyfriend have ...

Do I stay with him even though I am not sure about him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5274 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - ok, well I am in a somewhat serious relationship for about 12mos. I really care about him but I dont feel completely happy. and for some reason i'm falling in love with a man that already has a partner also. what is wrong with me? what do i do?...

Ex wants to get back together but she has a boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5274 days ago

19 November 2009 (M) - My ex told me she wanted to get back together (dated 4 years), but she has a new boyfriend (dated a few months).She told me that breaking up with him would be hard, and she'd do it "very soon"--that was 2 days ago. since then she hasn't called me or ...

Why am I so destructive and jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5274 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - I am extremely jealous and destructive. I was not always like this and I do not know how to fix myself. In high school I suffered with severe acne and a stye on my eye for almost two years. This was not because I was lazy and not looking for help. I ...

Who the heck is "Sadie?"

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - the guy I ve been seeing just text me, he said ok tks sadie, thing is my name isnt sadie....what shall i do...

We've only been back together for a week but already she is showing signs of her old behaviour!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5274 days ago

19 November 2009 (M) - Hi, need some advice about what to do next. Me and my ex were with each other for 3 years but broke up 10 months ago she is very insecure no matter what i do to comfort her or resure her, in the end it tore us apart not saying i done nothing wrong ...

How many frogs do I have to date in order to find the one?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5274 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - I have written for advice in the past and still need it. I dated a great guy and we broke up afte six months of dating. He only was divorced one year. I have been single for ten. He went through a lot of bad stuff with his divorce. He never ...

How can I know he truly loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend a lot but he doesn't feels it ever. What should I do and how can I trust him and know that he truly loves me??? help...

Advice please... How can I make it up to my girlfriend and also to karma?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5274 days ago

19 November 2009 (?) - Hi, I fell in love with my best friend's girl but somehow knew it was wrong the first time (The hardest thing I have ever done and the most pain ive ever felt) and was frightened of the fact it might blow up in my face so I went after someone el...

Are there any signs I can look out for to see if he still has feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5275 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - Ok, long story short, my sister met this bloke and him and his son came to live with her about a year or so ago. me and the son hit it off and ended up getting really close emotionally (amongst other things) no details. especially after...

I'm worried my Christmas gift might be a bit too soppy and clingy, any thoughts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5274 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - Sadly my financial situation is not as I'd like it so I'm very poor and cant really afford christmas presents properly this year. However I really want to get my boyfriend something fantastic as hes been so amazing and just getting to know him ...

How do I get her to realise that I am Mr Right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5274 days ago

19 November 2009 (M) - Alright so there is this amazing girl I work with... Kinda a fucked up situation... She is seeing some one and I am sungle... I want to get with her because I'm single and her guy treats her like shit... We talk for hours wen it's slow at work and ...

Does giving a girl space work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5274 days ago

19 November 2009 (M) - Does giving a girl space and time work...

What does he want? sex? Playing around? Or is he just full of bs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5274 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - I met this guy from online.We talked/flirted daily for a wk before meeting. We met and despite our flirty chats..he was sweet, a gentleman and our drinks + coffee date ended w/ passionate kiss, followed by a txt tellin me he had a great time.He ...

Losing hope

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - I've been in an on/off relationship for almost 4 years now. We have never really officially to others called each other boyfriend/ girlfriend which doesn't bother me because I know what we have. I love the guy, I'm so happy when i'm with him ...

Do girls like macho or caring guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

19 November 2009 (M) - Hi There Everybody...I'm 18 Years Old And I Just Wanted to Know If Girls Like It If A Guy is Macho Or Just Kind,Caring And Fun Loving...Cos I Am Not macho...But I Do Like Having Fun And just being normal...And Watching Anime!!!...And I Dont Wanna ...

Should I be worried by my boyfriend calling other girls "darling"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5274 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - my bf all ways calls other girls darling and stuff like that what should i think of that...

Adice on a girl

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5274 days ago

19 November 2009 (M) - So I've been sort of going out with this girl for like a month. We've been talking and I've known her for a long time and I really like her. However, she hasn't talked to me in over a week. Nothing wrong with it, but its strange because we were ...

Which one of these amazing girls do you think I should date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5246 days ago

19 November 2009 (M) - (First off I would like to apologize for the length of this message. There's just some background information I thought might be necessary to put before my question) Hey people I am 15 years young and live in Maine. I have got myself stuck bet...

He cant cum when I give him a blowjob because of the big "mental' component to it! What am I doing wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - Hi Guys, I've been going out with a friend of mine for about a month now, and although we're both VERY different we get along great. However, the other night I decided to give him a blowjob, which he thoroughly appreciated (OK, who wouldn't), but a...

Which of these amazing girls should I date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

Is he nervous or just playing me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - I have been seeing this boy for about a month now. We both go to the same college and we met for the first time at one of my friend's parties. We both asked for each others numbers and that was it for the night. We talked for the next day and we ...

How can I stop feeling so jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - I get so jealous with my boyfriend and it's making me feel insecure. I get annoyed feeling this way. We've been together for a little over a year but we are getting into too many fights because I fill my head with so many things. Before it was ...

Please help me... he hits me on a regular basis...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, i love him very much even though he hits me on a regular basis, I'm 17 he is 23 so when he does this to me i cant stand up for myself because hes too strong, i cant leave him because i have no one else to ...