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Archived questions from: 5 November, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Will I know if he is in love with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5289 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - Hi. I am confused by my boyfriend of five months who avoids the elusive : "I Love you" words. He phones and texts me four times day we see each other every day and he is loving and affectionate. The trouble is I would love to know what he really ...

Why, if she cares for me, does she insist on me earning as much as I can and accept the benefits that it brings, and yet despise me for it?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - I work so hard at my job because we need the money. My gf wants us to buy a larger place with some land and outbuildings etc so I feel I have to work as hard as I can. On the other side my gf will not get a paid job. She says that she already...

I was too clingy and my girlfriend has drifted. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5289 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - Hello, I'am whit this girl for about a month now,(this is my first relationship by the way), at first it was great we were totally over each other and I could see that she is attracted to me, but I was too clingy and followed her wherever she went...

Is it possible for a woman to fall in love after spending only 3 intimate weekends together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - Is it possible for a woman to fall in love after spending only 3 intimate weekends together? We are both divorced and single. We both have kids that are grown and on their own, so in that aspect there is no problem. Even if they were small or ...

I can't tell if he's just not interested or if he really is busy. Do I respond or just let it go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - I met this guy about 3 weeks ago and we went out and we had what I thought was a great date. So great in fact we decided to go out the next night as well, which in retrospect was probably not a smart move. Then he just didn't call me or anything. ...

How can I build up my confidence so I can ask out this great guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - Hi. Ok here's the scoop. Iv heard from some mates that a really gorgeous, fun guy likes me. I want to ask him out but whats holding me bak is that im out of his league. I am pretty but i get the impression that hes more experienced and will be ...

Is it normal for him to be unsure or am I clinging to false hope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - Ok so some background…we are both in our late twenties...my ex broke up with me nearly 2 weeks ago. We got together about middle June (4 months ago) but had known each other for years. He had broken up with his long term live in gf in April (I k...

I know I can't get over our break-up while we have contact, but I can't abandon him while he is treated for cancer!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5289 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - I'm in such a difficult situation at the moment. I split with my boyfriend 2 months ago, but I still love him. We've stayed in contact since that day which I know we shouln't have because it's made it impossible to get over him. He still loves me ...

How can I show my ex-girlfriend that I've changed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - i dated this girl for 4 years on an off. we broke up about a year ago and sine then she has started seeing another guy. she told me that we were done for good and then about a week ago she started calling me and saying that she still loves me and ...

Do my positive points outweigh my negative points? Am I a good catch?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - This is a silly question maybe. I am 20 years old in uni never had a girlfriend. Been looking at myself and thinking about what I have or don't have... So looking at bad, the only thing is, a big thing in a way is that I am overweight. I am wo...

My boyfriend keeps saying he has sex for my benefit, even though he is always initiating it!

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5 November 2009 (F) - my boyfriend always iniates sex and then afterwards tells me that he didn't want it and only did it for me. i don't care whether i get any or not and he is the one who gives all the signals and leads me to the bedroom so why does he keep saying ...

Is it wrong to love your cousin? If so, why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - Hi I am in love with my cousin. I have feeling for her and think she does to, and I have not told her that I loved her, and i am going to wate to ask har to have sex or do any thing lick to marriy her tell we get older. I realy whant to tell he...

She had sex with her ex, so I went out and had sex with another girl. Is this relationship doomed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - hi my girlfriend and i are together for like a year. we jumped straight into relationship literally the day after she finished with her ex of 3 years. a few days ago i found out she had sex with him again a couple of weeks ago. in anger i we...

I am falling for my "friends with benefits" guy, should I tell him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - I am in a friends with benefits relationship with a guy who is not ready for a relationship. I thought I wasn't ready either so the arrangement at first suited me fine plus the XXX is fantastic. But lately I have found we have both been getting very ...

Why do I find it so hard to approach women I am attracted to?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - Why do I find it so hard to approach females I like, particularly good-looking ones? Last night, I went to Pizza Hut and got my friend to ask the waitress out for me cos I didn't have the guts to do it? Is it because I am afraid of rejection, that ...

How do I tell this guy that I am not interested in him and I have a boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - i have just been asked out by this guy i really like and have said yes, but i have a dilema and this may sound really vain and the truth is im really not, i know that i am not that great looking and that people fall for my personality not that i am ...

How can I make him like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - there is this guy in my class every girl likes.he is the hottest and cutest guy and funniest. i liked him always.but recently he has started behaving towards me as if he likes me in a joking manner. he behaves like that with a lot of girls but he ...

I've never kissed before and don't know how to do it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - ok the guy i have liked forr aggess has asked me out and he is my first boyfriend....well this is kindof embaressing but i have never kissed anyone before and i dont want him to think i am a rubbish kisser...so how do you kiss? ...

Am I being too needy or is my boyfriend slacking on his part?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - To make a long story short... I met my boyfriend almost four years ago. We dated, life got in the way, broke it off, remained best friends the next two years, he was there through it all- good, bad, you name it. We recently got back together. We ...

Do I have a chance of getting him back in my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5290 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - When i was 13 i lost my Virginity to my 4th grade crush 13 is young but i felt we were meant to be. And the relationship took a down fall..Now he is dating one of my Closest friend...she is like Family...my feelings for him hasn't gone away...On my ...

How do I get her to stop her accusations?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - I have been dating this young lady for 3 or 4 months that I have started to have feelings for. But the problem that I am currently having with her is for the past month and a half or so, she constantly accuses me of cheating EVERY WEEK!! This only ...

She's on the fence, how do I get her back?

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5 November 2009 (M) - So, she broke up with me because she felt emotionally drained. Drained, from feeling like she had to make all the decisions, was the strong one all the time, had to cater to me too much etc. Essentially, I was too needy, and that came through and ...

We both really like each other but she has a boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - This is kinda long/confusing but i'll keep it simple. I'm a senior in high school and have had a great friend since my sophomore year. Back then when she was a freshman, she had a big crush on me but i was oblivious since even if i was great friends ...

Arranged relationship -- where do we stand?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - One of my parents friends from another country proposed for his son .. I am in Canada. My dad told his dad that we have to get to know each other, so we started chatting online and I told him, if he wants to know when I am going to marry him, his ...

Should I leave things alone or try to get her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5289 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - Ok this may take a while but please read all of it. I really need some advice on this. I'll start this story in with my 7th when I was 14 grade year. I met this girl named Laurinda and I'm not gonna lie at first I thought she was just some annoying...

I am struggling to keep up with my boyfriend's sexual appetite!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - I really need help with this problem so any advice would be greatly appreciated:) So my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and in the beginning we had XXX almost 3-4 times a day! He is very sexually active and so was I. Now that our...

I'm 13 years old and have dating and kissing questions.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5290 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - Ok i need help!!! im 13 and never benn kissed. And everyone else i my school has already have a boy-friend . Ok this guy i like him but my best friend likes him too!! but i think he likes me not her .... and the way i know it is because he ...

How can I encourage my boyfriend to drive to see me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 months, and we both live an hour away from each other. In the 3 months that we have known each other, I have always driven to see him weekly (sometimes twice a week), and he's only driven down to see me ...

I can't tell if he likes me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5290 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - I really like this guy who is two years older than me. I told his cousin, who is my friend, and she told him. He doesnt want a relationship because he doesn't want to get hurt. I've been cheated on four times and well here I am trying again. He's ...

Should I ask my boyfriend for space?

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5 November 2009 (F) - i know i love my boyfriend, i appreciate everything he do for me. and i don't want to leave him. but lately i feel like a need a little space. i don't know if if it is because i am in college and i want to just have other options. but should i tell ...

How can you tell a guy is really interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - why is it when guys like q girl around her they are sweet but in front of their friends they can sometimes be jerks? how can u tell if a guy is genuinely interested in you?...

My girlfriend is not ready to give me oral sex and I don't want to push her. Aside from hand jobs, what else can we do?

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5 November 2009 (M) - So me and my girlfriend have made it to hand jobs. She is not sure about a blowjob and wants to take it another step without going to blowjob. What else can we do?...

Am I selfish for wanting to go abroad, or is he selfish for wanting me to stay?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - I don't know who is right in this situation !.Me and this guy i used to be with have been together on and off for a few years. We haven't become very serious, such as moving in together, having kids, or doing many sexual things.He has said in the ...

Should I apologize to her on the phone for trying to apologize in a letter?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - Thanks for all help in advance. I finally managed to apologize to the girl I've been going after, albeit through a letter delivered by someone else. It said something along the lines of "Sorry for being a coward and a fool by having others give ...

Do opposites attract? Will I not attact him because we're so much alike?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5290 days ago

5 November 2009 (F) - I have had a crush on my boss for the past 8 months. I don't believe in having a work relationship so I have done nothing to pursue it. I would be willing to find a new job, its time for me to move up in my industry anyway, but I don't know how to ...

How can my girlfriend say she loves me, when I feel like I am her enemy most of the time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

5 November 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid, How can my girlfriend say she loves me, when I feel like I am her enemy most of the time?.... I am a 27 year old international student from Norway currently studying and living in Australia. I have been seeing my girlfriend, who i...