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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I have only kissed (not made out) and he said maybe we could "go to the next base" But I was always told 1st base was making out, so what do you think he means? Haha.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2009): He wants to get into your pants. Dont do it with him. If he cared for you and not for sex he wouldn't have asked like this.
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reader, bitch +, writes (26 November 2009):
Hi sweetie. You have nothing to be ashamed of by asking this question. You are smart to come here and post this and look for feedback. I also believe first base is kissing, second is fondling the breasts, and third is below the belt area. If you are not ready or comfortable to do anything I would say so. You are in control and it is all up to you honey. If you want to wait until you feel ready to move forward, just say you are not ready and want to wait. Good luck and have fun kissing....
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reader, old-spinstah  +, writes (26 November 2009):
Generally (as I understand it)
First base is kissing, cuddling and touching each other's non-sexual parts (hands, arms, neck back etc)
Second base involves touching and stimulating the breasts
Third base involves touching and stimulating the genitals
Fourth base is sexual intercourse.
But, as Emily suggests, you need to ask him what he means as it's open to interpretation. You might think that second base is letting him feel your boob quickly over your clothes, he might see it as both of you being naked from the waist up. It can be a difficult thing to ask. If he brings it up again, ask him "What does "second base" mean to you?"
Hope this helps. And only do things with him that you're comfortable with
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (26 November 2009):
Ask him!
He may have different ideas to us so talk to him.
You need to be able to communicate with your boyfriend REALLY well if you are going to start getting physical.
Decide what you are ready for and not ready for and let him know. Set some boundaries.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Marky.T +, writes (26 November 2009):
lol this is easy what i was told by bmy older bro is1st base kissing2nd base handjob fingering3rd base blowjob licking out 4th base all the way full blown sexhope that helpsps 5th anal lol
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