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Archived questions from: 13 November, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

What do you think of this girl? We've been attracted to each other on and off.

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13 November 2009 (F) - ok question any gender of thoughts would be appreciated.... ok so lets say you like a girl you and you have been attracted to each other on and off.. then last year you took her to her hs prom and you liked her alot... she didnt like you at the ...

He said we'd talk about it when we were at his house or mine!

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13 November 2009 (F) - okay so iv been texin this boy for almost 5months and we've been meeting but we have never spoke about our relation ship, we were texin the other night and i asked him what he wanted but when he answered he asked if we could talk about it another ...

How do I tell a guy I like I'm not ready yet to date him?

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13 November 2009 (F) - Ok. So theres this guy i like at school and hes in two of my classes and i was talking to one of my friends and she told me that he said to her that he realllyyy likes me, and that he wants to ask me out, but wants to get to know me a little better ...

Help! I'm afraid to fall asleep when my boyfriend stays the night!

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13 November 2009 (F) - Hi - I have a lot of anxiety problems and I'm afraid to fall asleep when my boyfriend stays the night! - I look awful first thing in the morning and worry my fella will wake and see me! I also snore and I worry my boyfriend won't like it! - What ...

Should I ask her out or not?

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13 November 2009 (M) - Alright I have a question that needs to be answered immediately, please. There's this girl that i really like and I think I'm goin to ask her out tonight. just to give her the whole weekend to think about it. The only thing is that were really good ...

Help! My bf is way too jealous!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - Hey, im having a jealousy problem with my boyfriend of 8 months. Everytime I speak to lads he gets jealous, but today is his birthday and some lasses commented on his facebook whome are WAY prettier than me, like I don't wannah be in a relationshi...

I'm really paranoid thinking that she is cheating one me!

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13 November 2009 (M) - Now this is a tough one. Me and my partner have been on and off for 4 years. I love her more than anything and I wish she felt the same but she has said that she doesnt. I cheated on her for 2 months but never had sex with this girl, I had ...

Finding out my gf's family secret is really 'eating me up inside'! How do I cope?

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13 November 2009 (M) - Recently I found out that my girlfriend of 5 1/2 years was molested by her brother from the 3rd grade through middle school (she was 9 and he was 14 when it started). Her brother and I met in our freshman year of high school and have been best ...

He orgasms so quickly!! Is this normal?

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13 November 2009 (F) - I have a question which might sound sad, but I have been meeting this guy on and off for a while and we have kissed and on the last few times he has asked me to give him a hand job, the first time, he came quite quick and I was surprised but the ...

I have a crush on him and he ignores me!

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13 November 2009 (F) - hiya there's a boy in my year i hav a crush on but i hav realised he never looks me in the eye. me n my friends often sit near him in class n he'll talk to them but blocks me out. its like i am not there. he'll tlk to me if he's pickin on me (me...

If he is ready to move in with me then why is he not spending more time with me?

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13 November 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for almost two years now. he has been unemployed for over half of our relationship. he is currently living with family outside of the town we live in. when he first moved in with his parents he started a ...

Why don't men spend money on me?

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13 November 2009 (F) - Hello, I have always dated men who do not spend money on me. They would have splashed out on their previous gf's but not on me. Usually I am the one to get them great gifts but I rarely get anything cool in return, just cards and some random gene...

I want her back desperately! Any advice?

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13 November 2009 (M) - hi guys! please i need your help. back ground- last year, when i was in 10th standard, there was a very cute girl in my class. but sh was very shy and reserved.and by luck, i was her only guy friend. slowly, i developed a huge crush on her. ...

He just up and left me after I helped him. His excuse: I accused him of cheating!

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13 November 2009 (F) - i let my boyfriend of six months come stay with me 3 months ago when he lost his place and soon after his job. at the begin i was thinking he was cheating because females used to always call his phone but the calls stopped after he moved in. then ...

Does she truely want to be with me?

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13 November 2009 (M) - Heya Well basically i dont know if my girlfriend/bestfriend for 4 years... truely wants to be with me or is cheating. First of all, shes 19 im 18, she wont let me tell anyone we are going out, because her mom would cuss her out she says, and...

I think I.m in love with the tattoo artist,,should I ask him out for a drink?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - just under 3 weeks ago i had a tattoo done. it wasn't my first tattoo, it was a cover up of an old one. the tattooist was a man in his late 40s, who didn't look like a typical tattooist at all. he was just an attractive older man. he also had a ...

How should I avoid him? And what should I do to completely forget that man?

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13 November 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm mentally tortured and need your help badly. The agony of my life started when I've met him and we became close to each other. I thought he is a gentleman guy as he revealed to me all his past. He was married with one daughter...

Am I seeing signals where there arent any?

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13 November 2009 (F) - Ok there is this guy in work I have a huge crush on but Im too shy to speak to him. Im a shy person anyway but around people I like I completely clam up. Anyway, anytime Im around him I constantly catch him staring at me. Ive actually made a p...

Why don't I always get the right guys?

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13 November 2009 (F) - i am into a relationship now this probably my 5th relationship after 4 heart breaks we have jst datted for 3 months and we had a minor misunderstanding bacause he didn't cal me for 5 days i got angry cos it's very unusual of him,so wen he eventually ...

Should I be jealous of this picture with my boyfriend being kissed by another girl?

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13 November 2009 (F) - So this is a question of whether or not i should be jealous, i opened my fb and i see a tagged picture of my bf, with a girl giving him a big side smooch on his cheek, but thats it, no other picture. for some reason im not bothered but i feel like ...

Do I stay or do I go!? Need help with soul-searching (warning: question is essay-length :P)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5267 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts... I have posted one question prior to this; a few years ago, after breaking up from an abusive partner. Well, I successfully found myself a lovely lad after that, and we have been together over a year now, which is the longest I...

Met a man from the Internet but now he says he needs to back off...

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13 November 2009 (F) - I met a lovely man through the internet, we chatted via msn and text for quite a while first before meeting. When we did it was gr8 (for me at lesat) I was crazy about him and thought he felt the same! He came fot the weekend said he had a ...

He says he likes me, but I do not see any affection

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - a friend told me his good friend liked me so I started seeing this guy. This guy emailed me, gave me him number, and invited me to coffee. I think I scared him during out first two dates because I was not sure about my feelings toward him. Recently...

... Or would he keep a respectable distance?

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13 November 2009 (F) - Would a guy ever invade your personal space if he is not interested in you?...

Which of these two guys should I marry?

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13 November 2009 (F) - i am 22 now .i was in a love relationship with a guy for 4 years and we broke up, then I moved back to US. due to my tensions, I flirted with a guy and had fake love relationship for almost 6 months, I introduced him to my family and both his and my ...

Would it be bad if I kissed HIM first?

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13 November 2009 (F) - I'm not for sure AT ALL right now but this guy MIGHT want to kiss me and is too scared. Would it be bad if i kissed him first? What if he doesn't necessarily want to kiss me and i kiss him first? would he be mad? want more?...

I'd like her to throw herself at me more.. should I raise this?

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13 November 2009 (M) - My girlfriend is really stiff and uptight. I'd like her to throw herself at me more. Should i breakup with her , or tell her how i feel and hope she speaks to me again. ...

Its been a long time since I asked anyone out... how do I handle possible rejection?

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13 November 2009 (M) - Dear Aunties and Uncles...I broke up with my ex over a month ago... And we dated for a year.. I'm finally moving on, being happy with life and such.. I met this beautiful girl the other day and she just got back from Nashville, Her parents found out ...

I'm confident in life, but shy with men

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13 November 2009 (F) - I'm not shy around people - I'm actually very open and loud. People tell me I'm funny and I have a lot going for me. I feel like I have a lot going for me! I don't think there is anything wrong with me. Most importantly, I think I'm friendly...

She says she wants no contact for a month to see if I'm for real

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13 November 2009 (M) - I really can't understand her. She used to have feelings toward me and she told me she is attracted to me. After a day, she has started to hurt my feelings like saying move on, find someone better, we should keep distance and we might not get toge...

A few years back, my bf pretty much called me fat. Now that he and I are both ready to hit the sack, I can't get over it. Help!

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13 November 2009 (F) - My bf and I have been together for almost three years yet have been friends since he was 9 and I was 10. I'm overweight (5'7", 190 lbs) and a few days after we started 10th grade I was feeling down and he said to me "if you did some more physical ...