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Dating: Help and advice

He doesn't want a relationship, just sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - i like this boy and i would love a relationship with him but we were talking earlier tongight and we got onto the conversation of relationships and he told me he didnt want a relationship, just sex. im still a virgin but im 16. should i go for the ...

He doesn't like me like "that" anymore. Is it over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - Hello. This is my painful and bitter sweet romance disaster. Well, my name is Jossie and I'm 18 years old. I moved to Wisconsin about 5 months ago so I attended my familys church. When I moved to wisconsin romance wasn't something I thought of. Not ...

Why do women do such things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - Hi everyone, I don't know why I don't listen to what people tel me. I'd love to know a reason for my stupidity. I fell in love wit ha girl who has a boyfriend. She also fell in love with me. As a fact, yesterday she was at my place. Wonder what...

Was I wrong to go with my instincts and look in his phone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I've been dating a wonderful guy for about 5 months and the other day for some reason, I looked at his text messages while he was in the shower, I found some messages from a girl who I think is an ex. She accused him of cheating on her, and she ...

How do suggest to my girlfriend that I'd prefer it if she shaved down there...?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - I was intimate with my girlfriend the other night, it was great. But her it was really hairy down there and i thought it as a turn off. I'd prefer it shaved like, it would feel 'nicer'. But i dont know how to go about asking her. It's no big deal, I ...

The thought of her in his bed makes me feel sick!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend's been really close to another girl and i dont know what to do. We were out yesterday and i was playing with his phone when i stumbled across some texts between him and this girl at his uni. I've met her and she seemed nice enough b...

Will my awkward kiss, ruin my chances for another date with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I went on my second date with a guy and we went to a movie. He held my hand (for the first time) during the movie and throughout the night as well. At the end of the night, he kissed me. However, the kiss wasn't amazing. It happened so quickly and I ...

Confusion here!! Why did he just stop calling me out the blue?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

29 November 2009 (?) - Hello everyone! I'm having this problem and would love you guys help with this situation I'm having. First off I met this guy that's a year younger than me, and I'm 22 by the way, and from the first time we met he was up front with me about his ...

Back with my ex gf, and nothing's the same! Now what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - I got back together with my ex (were together 4 years)after a long drawn-out breakup in which we both had rebounds. We both made mistakes, and we both are willing to address them. She acts much differently now though: passive, unenthusiatic, ...

It's so painful that I love him and he doesn't feel the same way! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - Hi, Ive been with my boyfriend for just about a year, and we haven't approached the "love subject" well he hasn't. I love him and haven't said it, im 2 upset to because i no he won't say it back. This really hurts because obviously im in ...

This is not what I want... but I love him, why am I feeling this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - Sorry about the details of name being conor and being male. A friend set this up for me. I'm actually female! Anyway my question is: I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 10 months. We've had several split ups but always 'kissed and made-up'...

Love my ex but there's another guy in the picture now

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - Ok i was dateing this guy for 7 months. He was my first true love then he lied to me and said that he dont have his phone any more and cant talk to me so he broke up with me. But the truth is he still has his phone and that his parints made him ...

Fell in love with friend's girl, any stories like mine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

29 November 2009 (?) - Hi, I fell in love with my bestfriends girlfriend we are soul mates we really love each other the circumstances we got together were not that great because my ex best friend didnt like.I didnt want to betray him but I was really in love and she ...

Good friend I don't want to lose but no physical spark

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - Question: Should I still be looking for sex in a relationship? I have been introduced to a very independent lady by a friend. This lady is solvent, lovely, kind, has a caring personality, good job and no children. She was happily married up t...

Even hearing he's ex's name makes me ill!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 4months and yesterday was the first time i met his 4year old son. It was so weird hearing him call my bf 'daddy'! I'm quite a jealous person and i can't stand his ex (the mother of his son) but they get along very ...

We kissed, we cuddled, but since then not even a whisper from him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - he drove for an hour to see me.. we went for a ride and started kissing.. i asked him what he wants from me.. he said he doesn't know.. he wants to get to know me then decide. i haven't heard from him since thursdays night.. am confused..s...

The sex is great but I want a REAL man!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I can't help myself! My on-again-off-again boyfriend is smart, funny, and handsome. But he also smokes and drinks a LOT and rarely has time for me because he's a "writer". Every time I want to do something he has to stay home working on his ...

He stole my girl but says he will find me a new one!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - hey my story began 1 year ago i used to had 2 best friendz and we used to share everything even our emails so the contacts are the same. one day one of them gave me a girl email because he said he had fighted with her and he dont wanna to talk with ...

My sick boyfriend is ignoring me, so I am ignoring him back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has been ill all week, but he's just started to ignore me. For the past couple of days he hasn't replied to my texts and I haven't heard from him at all. I stopped texting him about a day ago because I thought he was trying to tell m...

I told her I wasnt ready, and that she felt lust not love, will she talk to me again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - Welcome, This is my life, Im Dave 16 and 6 months old, Tash is 16 and 11 months old Im gonna write the situation, and Id be very thankful if you could give me the next steps I could follow. There is this girl called Tash, her and I are ...

I have a LDR but am drawn towards somebody else

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - Hey, i'm in a relationship at the minute, have been with him for a month now..although at the minute he's in a different country and he isn't moving over here until next year, so it's a long distance relationship. The way i feel at the minute, b...

Big weekend planned, but what about my cycle?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm going for a weekend trip with my boyfriend this Saturday but I'll be on period then. I'm on the pill and usually I start my seven day break on the Monday and have my period until the following Monday when I start taking the pill again. I...

I have set myself a pattern that I find I cant break

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - ive had 2 relations both onli lasting 18 months!!! they get serious an they say i love u an they give me everything i want an i run 10 miles in the other direction!then wen i see them with a new girlfriend all happy i want them back?but i no ill b...

My older workmate is flirting with me, and other colleagues are asking questions

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I have become friends with a man who is 10 years older than me. We work together and have gone out together several times as friends (meals, games, etc). For the last six months we have been play-flirting. I like him but didn't take anything ...

After four years I am still in love with my ex girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - Going back 4-5 years ago i had split with my ex and we both went on our own ways. both she and i have had a few different partners and am willing to look past that obviously, its a long time. the hard part here is that ever since we split as i go...

My boyfriend is losing interest, what can I do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5265 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years now and we are both 17 and we love each other very very much, the only problem is im the loving and caring type and always want affection, when he shows it when he wants to, i mean he is a great ...

How sensitive IS a woman's vagina?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - Lately my girlfriend and I have been really going at it when we make out. Lately we have been doing this thing where we will position ourselves in a way where I put my leg between hers and she locks it there and we kinda "grind" together. She really ...

How long should I wait, I have given him a week already

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend said he needs time . That he needs to become a better person. We been having problems we been together for almost four years.I texted him after a week of not calling me and he says he loves me and misses me but says staying apart is the ...

He wont tell me he loves me, but I know he does

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29 November 2009 (F) - my question is i am friends with this man who has been a friend for 30 plus years. we tried to date two times in the pass, but i always went the other way. now he and i has become really close this time and i am really into him. we have a sexual ...

I want to get him the perfect gift...

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29 November 2009 (F) - So my boyfriend is 15 and I'm 16, we have been together for a month and it will be two on December 13, 2009. I want to get him something for Christmas but, i dont know what to get him. He is the sweetest guy i know, i told him what i want for Chri...

She trusts me but wont say she loves me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5265 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - well i dont really know where to start. I'm 17 years old, she is 18 years old, we started out friends, then good friends, then two weeks before the end of school last year i finally grabbed her hand and kissed her like 10 minutes later lol. now 6 ...

She called me her problem, I want to be her boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - i have this girlfriend(not yet official) who's very cranky. it was 6 AM in the morning and i woke up and i got a msg from her saying that she can't sleep. so i called and asked her why. i was kinda out of my mind cuz i'm still sleepy and at on...

I feel my love is fading while my boyfriend is away

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I have been in a long distance relationship for 4 years, going to be moving in together in about 6months, which I'm excited about, but sometimes I get nervous about my relationship because my bf seems so certain that I am his future, he sees it ...

How can I keep my jaw from hurting so fast when I give him oral sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - Ok so I'm seventeen and have a nineteen year old boyfriend, we have sex a lot and use protection. I feel that our love life is missing something. He does oral sex real good and I think that I suck! I don't know how to make oral sex fun for him. ...

I want to be friends with my married lovers step son

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - i`m a widow of almost 10 months i have been seeing a married man for about 4 months we have kept a low profile as far as his family is concerned, (no small children)now he is telling me he loves me and i believe him, he also states his wife is ...

I have had two broken dates, and now I think a brush off

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - Hi there, ok so about a month ago I had a relationship breakup. I am fine with it because the guy was treating me like crap. Well there was a guy (I'll call him J) that him and I were both friends with throughout the time we were together. My ex ...

I am ready to move on to the next stage with my girl

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - So me and my girlfriend have been together for about a year and 3 months now, but we havent gone any further than making out without shirts. We talk openly about topics like sex and such but not about US doing that, and im sure she wouldnt do that ...

What can I do to make our 1 year of dating annivesary special?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - Ok, so i really need some help. My 1 year anniversary is coming up in about 2 months, and i need ideas on something special to do for my girlfriend. My friend had this pretty cool idea, it was with those airplanes and they wrote in the ...

My younger lover blows hot and cold

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29 November 2009 (F) - i recently started dating a guy that is 14 years younger than me. he claims to have always dated older women which after careful thinking i was very interested in him. but now after great everything he wants to keep me around but not be in a ...

My boyfriend has kept his online dating profile, is he cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about 5 months now and its going really great though he used to have an internet dating profile which he told me about but he still uses it. He says he doesnt go to pick up girls but just to check out the 'scene' to ...

He keeps me apart from his family life, and wont say "I love you"

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29 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year--but he has not yet said I love you nor has he ever invited me to any function or event involving his family (I have met his sisters through his mom because I work with her but have never been invited ...

He wants space but wants me to wait. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5265 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - Hello, I am writing again to ask advice from anyone who can help me. a couple of weeks ago I broke up with my partner, of 12months. He was having a lot of problems with minor depression and drinking, and was honest enough to say I can do this. I...

He is my friend, I like her but she likes him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5265 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - Well, there's a girl at my school and I love her to pieces. Anyway, I asked her out and she said she needed time. However to my shock, my best friend told me she liked him so now he's in a dilema. Really I am asking the question for him because he's ...

I left my run for him too late

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5265 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - im a shy girl but, theres this boy and we used to talk for hours on the phone and i felt really comfortable talking to him and then he started saying he really liked me but i didnt want to go out with him because i was scared what people would say. ...

To snog or not to snog, that is the question

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - hey im 13 and im going out with a boy he is 15 and he wants to snog me i have done it before but i dont want to again i get nerves every time im around him and i cant seem to snog him what shall i do thankYou ...

Am I just a booty call?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - Ok, here goes I am recently divorced after 14 years of marriage. The last 2 years of my marriage were really hard and I clocked marriage then. I have a crush on my next door neighbor and it has been going on for about 1 year. Recently he has been ...

Why do girls lead guys on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - Ive liked this girl for a few months now but only recently have i worked up the courage to ask her for her number, which she gave to me. We ended up txting each other all night and connected really well and our night ended with her coming over ...

Six dates and no hug, no holding hands nor kissing so far!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - Hey, there is this girl (22) I (25) date, we have seen each other about 8 times, 6 times one on one - which resembles a date for me. Yesterday I cooked for her. She looked me up on facebook, is active in the communication part, asks me when I want ...

Hair pulled out of head...I never needed advice more in my life as I do now. Whats your thought on this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - Hey guys, Background first of all, I'm in a relationship that is requiring a lot of work to keep going. I love Sarah to bits but its really hard to make us work. We are together for more than 2 years. We took breaks(not seeing other people) a ...