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Archived questions from: 1 November, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Is a monogamous relationship/marriage realistic these days?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - Hey, I don’t post much but I visit the site daily to see the new questions. I think this post is a rant versus a question, but it’s something I’ve been thinking a lot about recently. It’s really been on my mind. I really just don’t kno...

Dating divorced man with daughters...why havent I met the younger one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - I have been dating a wonderful man for over 1 year now. We enjoy each other very much, and when together have a great time. We love each other deeply. We've both been divorced within the last 2 years. The only problem is the younger daughter...

He walked out 10 weeks ago, do you think he's coming back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - my boyfriend walked out on me and my son 3 month ago for what i dont know i have asked him to come back but no he had me waiting for 10 weeks for him to say it was over do you think he will ever come back a love him very much and he knows i do ...

We live together and I have no place to go...how do I end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - How do I break up with someone that I live with? My boyfriend and I have been together for thwo years now. I think he's a great person but I no longer want to be with him. I know I should just go, but as we live together, and I don't have anywh...

I like him! but I'm still so close with his best friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - Hey Everyone, I went out with this boy, on-off, for about two years. He told me everything, and there was a lot of really awful experiences that he went through. In the end, I broke up with him (complicated reasons). We're still really close, I ...

I slept with my girlfriend and now she's not calling me back! And also.. my male friend hit on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

1 November 2009 (M) - Hello fellow agony aunts. I have a problem..actually it's 2 and i was wondering if you guys could help. So last night was Halloween and there was a huge party in my town. Everyone..all my friends and people from other schools were there. And i we...

I lied about my age and now I don't know if I should tell him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - so, i met this guy about 4 years ago through mutual friends...when we met i KNEW he was in his 20's and i was about to turn 16...ive always had older groups of friends. well, this guy and i always kept in touch...emailed for a good three months just ...

I love him, I don't want to lose him but I don't know what else to do.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - I am a 21 year old Egyptian girl. A year ago I met an American guy online, he is 26. Since the first night we met we both clicked right away. We talked for five hours and neither of us really wanted to go. I wasn't looking for a relationship nor was ...

How do I ask him out? How do I flirt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - Ok then ... Hey peeps There's this guy I like and have liked for roughly .... 2 and a bit years, and while I was with my bf I cudnt stop thinking about him so I dumped him bcos I felt guilty and also he was being really harsh 2 my friends....

I cant help but feel that he has forgot me while on hol. What shall I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriends gone on holiday and i miss him . But i cant help feeling that hes forgot me . I know hes on holiday and hes enjoying him self . but my mind wonders . I cant help it . I have tryed keeping busy .What shall i do ? Please help Heartb...

Is there any chance that he'll come back to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5293 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, From October of 2008 to May of 2009, I was in a relationship with the boy that I am thoroughly convinced was my first love. Our time together was absolutely wonderful. During those seven months, I was happier than I had ever been be...

Could it be him that just wants sex all the time?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - Every time I go to my fiances' house, all he ever wants to do is 'do it'. He never wants to go out or do anything, and he says this is because he never has alot of money. But, yes he works. But he doesn't hardly ever want to go anywhere, not even a ...

Two guys possibly like me, should I wait for them to make the first move?

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1 November 2009 (F) - Two guys possibly like me: one i have had feelings for for a while but i keep getting mixed ones back off him. The other is gorgeous, irish and fun to be around. It was said last night that he fancies me. I like both of these guys but i don't know ...

Sometimes I wonder if we should break up. Are we doomed to fail?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

1 November 2009 (M) - I am a 30 year old male dating someone in my age range but just a little younger. We have so much fun together and enjoy each other's company. She does so much for me and I for her. However, I think that at times we are both insecure and it ...

(Contains list of emails and some bad language) Do these emails mean we're getting back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5293 days ago

1 November 2009 (M) - my Girl friend wrot me thisand I was wondering if we are getting back together? these emails are in the order they were received. Dear Johnny, First of all by you just admitting to all this without rationalizations, excuses or div...

Childhood sweethearts and now we're together, but he says he needs to be alone.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 9 months. We were childhood sweethearts over 20 years ago. Got back together when both our marriages crumbled (both our partners had affairs). His wife left him in Jan of this year, divorced by June. My ...

I'm not responding to her affection but I don't want to lose her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

1 November 2009 (M) - Hi...Iv just turned 60 and have a lovely wife who has just turned 32. Yes a big age gap I know. We have been married since 2004 and during that time have been apart once. I'm having a lot of problems with my age and the fact that I feel tha...

I want to be with him, he broke up with his girlfriend for me but now he isn't replying to me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - ive been in love for months with a boy. he works with me, and has told me hundreds of times he loves me too and he really wants to be with me. but he has a "girlfriend" a girl who he texts constantly but never sees face to face. we have hooked up a ...

He likes somebody else, should I break up with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5293 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - Ok. So i dont know if i should break up with my boyfriend or not. i think he likes my best friend . i dont know why i just get that feeling like he does like her. I confronted him and asked him if he liked her. And he said "No, she doesn't have all ...

We get on so well! But there are some problems..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5240 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - Hello, I started dating a guy about a year ago. Things went well until he had a problem with ED. He told me he only ended up sleeping with the women that he married. His first marriage lasted 3 years (she ended up deciding to be gay). Hi seco...

She cheated on me and I forgive her, but now she does not know what she wants.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

1 November 2009 (M) - Well here it goes, I was went on vacation and I kept in contact with my girlfriend that I love very much, and i suspected something was going on and I was right She was cheating on me and she admitted it and asked me to forgive her I was raged but I ...

Does she look at other men? Is she lying to me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

1 November 2009 (M) - I feel terrible. I do not know what to do. I have accused my girlfriend time after time after time of looking at other men and she always insists that she doesn't. But I see her looking around whenever we are outside, so she has to be judging and ...

What should I do about the cold shoulder he is giving me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - He doesnt care to know how am doing or if i even still exist and i dont know what to do.I've always tried to guide my heart against wavering men but i think i just let my wall crumble without even trying to uphold it.i met this guy like 3yrs a go ...

He's gay, but I really really like him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - I am falling in love with my relationships councilor and don't know how to stop feeling like this. I ended my marriage 1 yr ago cause my husband was having sex with men.We were married for 18 years so I am not some ditzy young thing with a silly ...

His behaviour is a bit confusing. What do you make of it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - in a relationship with a fairly controlling boyfriend. he gets jealous of every guy i go out with or dance with when we are clubbing. i wanted to try rock climbing and he told me i don't have the upper strength and would suck at it. i said i ...

Is it true he just needs time and no pressure to sort himself out?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - Basically its a very complicated story. Back in April I almost lost my job twice over and me and my partner were not getting on 2 well. on august the 9th he cheated on me for a week just kissing with one of my friends. I forgave him, but he went to ...

Should I stay here for the guy or move and make a new start?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5294 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - hi well i am having a serious dialema im 20 and i moved to scotland with my mum when i was 11 but my family still stay down england. my mum has a parner and 2 kids now. i want to move back to england and told them and they said they are fine...

Social etiquitte for same sex relationships

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

1 November 2009 (M) - ok im 22 i'm looking for a boyfriend, and i need to understand more about social ettiquite being i'm a male as well. i definitely understand sex should stay between us, unless i'm involved in "girl talk" so to speak. but what's the best way to ...

Is weight the absolue dealbreaker for guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - I am 30 now, but when I was 14 in high school I secretly had a crush on a guy. After graduation, we hooked up (made out) a couple of times, but then he disappeared, got married and had a kid. During his marriage, he started emailing me - 27 emails ...

We never got to meet, and I scared him off!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5294 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - We never got to meet, and i scared him off. He lives a few states down and Ill probably see him in 2 years at my best friends wedding (we met thru her) We used to talk lots and then i told him how i felt (eventho we never met) and he told me he ...

The new world for a man, how do I learn to love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

1 November 2009 (M) - Hi every one, pardon me for coming with questions at this late time in the night... BUt I must say a few words before I can ask... I am pretty confused right now... you see, I met a girl 2 months ago, Jenny is her name. I first got to know her ...

How do I get over someone I never had?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - okay. so i have this crush on a boy in my school. and i know he doesn't feel the same way about me. but i can't stop thinking about him. and i always bump into him during school. and it makes it so much harder. the worst part is i have a boyfriend ...

Why are men so reluctant to commit?

This question has 37 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - Guys, please help me out here. Since, my divorce I have had two relationships with commitment phobic men. Why are men afraid to commit. Is it that there are so many pretty , smart,successful girls to choose from? What makes a guy chose one girl over ...

Do I have to just sit and wait?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

1 November 2009 (M) - Wow, it certainly has been a while. I used to come on this site to answer questions, yet here I am years later asking one. So, here's my problem: I have been hooking up and hanging out a lot with this girl who lives right across from my dorm roo...

How do I regain self confidence and feel worthy again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - How do you regain self confidence after someone have cheated on you? Especially if the other woman was beautiful. How do I feel worthy again and not so ugly....

Should I go back to the UK for university, and leave my b/f in Australia?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

1 November 2009 (F) - I'm from the uk, and I moved to australia with my boyfriend a couple months ago. I'd quit university in the uk, after a year and a half, because I felt like I'd chosen the wrong course, under pressure from my family, and it was incredibly stressfull ...

Why is she confused and doubting her feelings for me? I have done nothing wrong

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

1 November 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been dating since April, although we were having casual sex for about a month prior. We got engaged in August, just as she moved to China for a year. We had spent almost all of that time prior to her moving away in each ...