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Archived questions from: 12 November, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Was it a one night stand or is he just 'pulling away'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - recently i started dating again and meet a guy in a dance club, we were dancing together and it was hot dirty dancing. he asked for my number so i gave it to him. after a week of talking/texting we meet up for date and ended up having sex, now i do...

He used me for sex and now he ignores me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - Ok this sounds really strange i no. about a month ago i got this random txt from this guy, we meet on a nite out im may and swapped numbers then out of know where he txt me again, we meet up 2 weeks ago 2day for a drink and from then carried ...

He only agrees to meet me if I ask him in person. What does that mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5282 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - Okay so i met this guy over the summer while i was on vacation, and looks wise, hes everything i told myself i wanted, personality wise, same thing. As soon as i seen him i just couldnt take my eyes off him and i know he felt the same way. He left ...

I've never cum when I've had sex with my boyfriend... help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - i've been with my boyfriend for almost two months now and i genuinly trust him and enjoy our sex life however i don't think ive ever come. i can feel the build up during sex and really enjoy it but then suddenly it just seems to stop or i feel a ...

Am I making a mistake by having an abortion?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 years now. He is an alcoholic. I just found out I'm pregnant. I would love to have the baby but I don't feel its fair to bring a child into the world with an alcoholic father. I already have a 17 year old ...

Will I ever love again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - I recently left my emotional bully cheating husband, and emotional I am frazzled and don't want anyone else.. I feel it would do me and my 4 children good if I was alone for a long long time... But I wanted to ask the aunts, if I do eventual...

Can he really ever love me again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - My bf of nine years had "more than a friendship" with a girl at work. He claims they never slept together and after a lot of revelations and tears, he is trying to make our relationship work again. He says he has cut off all contact with *her* and ...

My girl is an angel!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

12 November 2009 (M) - hi guys.... i am in love with a girl for 5 good years, and its a miracle because i have not met this girl in person. we used to talk on the phone and exchange pics. first let me point out ma girls qualities 1. she is an angel from her quali...

Is it me...? Am I being selfish?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - I have been with my 20 year old boyfriend for 2 years and i still love him more than ever, i just feel like throughout our relationship i have never really been treated. even on my birthday i didn't really get many presents and he complained when we ...

Help me, I just can't seem to get past first dates!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5280 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - hi, hope you can help me i just cant seem to get past first dates i dont know what im doing wrong , my last date was monday with a man i have known for five years i only know him to say hello to but on a night out recently his friends told me he has ...

How can I go out clubbing if I'm underage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

12 November 2009 (M) - ok so heres my story. My girlfreind/also my best freind is 19 on the 13th of december, and im 18 4 days later she is having her birthday party going out clubbing, as you know you have to be 18 to get into a club..... i cant miss my girl...

I really like a boy, he doesn't like me. Yet he tries to make me jealous?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - Hey all! I could do with some advice on a situation im in. Ill try keep it short! Well im 17 years old, and im in college. I was with my boyfriend for 19 months, but finished with him in september, because he had started to become abusive and also...

Is it possible to rekindle old flames? How should I try to do this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5282 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - Is it possible to rekindle old flames and old loves? My boyfriend and I broke up after 14 months of dating. We were a great couple until I pushed for the relationship to go to the next level. I pressured so much that I caused so much tension tha...

His ex is controlling him even though he's with me now.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5274 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend about 6 months now. He has 2 kids and 2 ex wives. Yonger one's mom is very strict with his visitation schedule and I have no problem. But the older one's mom is... she always comes up with plans to be without her kid and ...

First time sex tips, please?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - Hi, im a 15 year old female and a virgin and want to have sex with my boyfriend soon. He's 16 but has had sex alot of times. He knows that i am a virgin and says that when we do it, he will take it slowly for me and make sure that i'm okay with it....

He didn't call after we had sex on the 3rd date...should I just forget about him ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - I met this guy through a friend. We went out three times, on the third date we went out dancing and had sex. The following day he didn't call. I asked him if I had done something wrong? he said that it wasn't me, that it was him and that he ...

He's my fiancee but I am no longer attracted to him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for a little over a year. We have been throught a lot in our short relationship. He has a child from a previous relationship and that caused a great deal of stress in the beginning of our relationship, he was ...

How do I know nothing happened between her and this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5282 days ago

12 November 2009 (M) - hi i am seeing a girl, i started liking her, before i even proposed i asked her about her past relationship, and she said she liked someone on the 1st day i met her, but there was no commitment. later on when i was deeply in l...

I refuse to be his sex buddy...I want to move forward to the next step. How do I tell him this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - Met a great guy in the summer but as time went by - it was obvious that he just wanted a no strings attached relationship. The sex was amazing but I knocked it on the head and said no - I wanted and deserved more.... Well he recently has bee...

He's a great guy...but not sure of I respect him enough.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5282 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - Hi, some ideas please! I am worried cos with my boyfriend for 2.5 years now (not living together yet but planning to) and sometimes feel bored. Basically I feel I need to admire and look up to him (based on previous relationship) and while I think ...

Is he too good to be true?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5282 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - so i met this guy through a mutual friend. he thought i was really cute and so did i. i'm 20 and he's 23 and we both go to the same school. our friend eventually had us meet and we clicked right off the bat and the chemistry came so fast. its been ...

I'm waiting till I find the one

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

12 November 2009 (?) - Some of my friends have already have sex- some have boyfriends, others are married. I'm waiting until I find "the one." I don't necessarily have to be married, I just want it to be special. I don't know if it's the way I was raised or what, but it ...

IN love with my 21 year old soccer coach

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - I think I'm in love with my soccer coach he is 5 years older then me, he is 21. He is funny, cute and smart. He spends most of his time at training with me and at games he often sits next to me on the bench. I didn't think I liked him till...

I feel locked out of part of his life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - Ugh. I just don't feel like dealing with this, but I have to. My bf and I have been together for more than 6 years. He says he can't stand any of the guys at his school and he is almost always at my school, but if they ask him to do something, ...

In new relationship but still thinking about ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - well i spoke about this boy before. me and my male best friend of two years just made it official yesterday. i really like him, hes my ideal bf. hes smart, funny, sweet, caring, and everything that this other guy isnt. i stoppd talking to this other ...

I have insecurities. Are my feelings normal and how do I deal with them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5283 days ago

12 November 2009 (?) - Hi, I have been in a relationship for over 6 months we are very in love and very faithful to each other I have had a lot feelings of insecurity and doubt cropping over me these feelings overwhelm me and my mind makes me believe these things wou...

I want to date again but have insecurities because of the past

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5282 days ago

12 November 2009 (M) - Ok, this is kinda a two part situation for me that is really hard for me to get over, so no flaming please =P Well i suppose i should start in the beginning and keep it short =P. Me and my ex dated for a year and a half and after her cheating on ...

Are we doomed from the start because of religion and virginity?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5275 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - I am 20 years old and am still a virgin. It's never bothered me before until know. I really like this guy but he is quite a strong northern irish catholic and i'm a scottish protestant. I think there is something between us but I just fear that our ...

How can I show her she deserves better than some guy who wants to screw other men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

12 November 2009 (M) - My sister is 23 and has been dating a guy for over 7 years. A month ago he told her he was bi and had been cheating on her with a guy. She broke up with him but has since taken him back. They now have an open relationship where he can go and be gay ...