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Archived questions from: 8 November, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

He lost interest but I can't forget him, even though I'm now seeing a great guy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - Can someone please get some sense into me? I went out on a date with this guy and we really hit it off. He's in the airforce and the day after our date he left on a three week assignment. During the three weeks he was away he messaged me ever...

He asked to see naked pictures of another woman!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - Well, i just want to ask you lady's out there what you would do if you caught your boyfriend out, that he had been asking your BROTHER to see NAKED pictures of my brother's girlfriend. My boyfriend says that its just natural for a lad, and i would ...

Help needed! How can I get over her past?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

8 November 2009 (M) - I've been dating my current girlfriend for about 6 months now and everyhting was fine and dandy... We really felt we were in love with each other but we got into talking about our pasts and hers really upset me. She's young and has been with 7 ...

I'm having a strong desire to run before I am hurt. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

8 November 2009 (?) - Feeling so uneasy with this. He didn't say he loves me back, and I'm afraid of how this is affecting me now. Yes, it's important that he treats me well, and he does. He says he doesn't want to jinx anything. Meanwhile, I'm having a strong desire ...

Is there too much trust lost or can it be salvaged?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - Someone I really care about is hurting because of my past actions. I have been seeing someone who I met at work for a year who is much younger than me and we got along really well and enjoyed each others company. About 4 months into the relation...

Why a "secret" relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

8 November 2009 (M) - hey everyone, im having a problem. if you get into a relationship and he/she doesnt wanna tell certain people, does that mean he/she is ashamed of being with you infront of other people or does he/she think those people wouldn't understand?...

Am I getting my hopes up thinking he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - I need some help. Please. I’ve been speaking to a guy I know on msn for about a year. We speak often and get on pretty well. I really like him. We have some mutual friends who we’re both close to, but it’s taken a long time for us to speak. I joined...

Flirting with a coworker...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5285 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - Ok I was talking to my bf on skype today while I was at work and I put my headset down to answer the phone. Well the person that called was a co-worker, hes an older guy that flirts with everyone, I was being friendly with him but I know that I ...

Are women intimidated by an attractive male?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

8 November 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm kind of curious, I work in with a few woman and I not really after pulling them or sleeping with them at all, I've got someone else in my eye! However what I'm curious about it are women intimidted by an attractive male either at work or in ...

Boyfriend vs. best friend situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - so im in a confusing, yet silly situation that i seem to have not alot of people to talk to. A not-so-close friend of mine brought up the subject of my bf, who i have just gotten back with after a long break, we had some issues, got back, and it's ...

Should I date him despite what friends/family say?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - ok so i am 15 year old girl dating a 19 year old guy we love eatch other more than any thing and life with out him just would not happen.. my aunt says i should end it with him she does not like the age diff. and she is a cop and my ucle her husband ...

Is this a sign he doesn't want marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5285 days ago

8 November 2009 (?) - I finally did it! I said I love you to him. I couldn't hold it in any longer. He said that he thinks about saying it to me but can't right now, and asked me if that was okay. I said "yes for now", because I didn't say it for him to say it back. ...

How can I gain the confidence to ask him out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5285 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - hi, i hav been in love with the same boy 4 agez now but neva had the confidentz 2 ask him out. i dicided i was actually gonna tell him soon, i hav known him a long time, we get along well, he is really nice etc. but he's always surrounded by galz ...

Can anyone tell me how to kiss on the cheek?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

8 November 2009 (M) - Ok Basically, My Girlfriend and I have been in an intimate relationship for about a month and half now, and within this time I have found I have a strange inability to kiss on the cheek. I've tried so many times but it feels like I'm never going to ...

Teenage LDR: any suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - heres the scenario.. we are both 16, in highschool, met when we were 14, have been dating for almost two years, i switched to a different highschool and we've been fine. I believe we are in love, we never have the stupid problems all of our frien...

He wants to marry me but chats online to women..help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - Cupid Aunt, I (45) have been in a steady relationship with a wonderful guy, about 9 years older than me, for about two years. We are compatible in every way possible. He has even asked me to marry me and we have made future plans. However,...

Need some clarification on her flirting techniques! What did she mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

8 November 2009 (M) - Hi, just a quick question about flirting. This girl and I have been flirting for a while, mostly harmless but sometimes more suggestive. Recently, we were flirting by text, and she sent me a teasing message, questioning my sexual experien...

What does first time sex feel like? Are you nervous?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

8 November 2009 (M) - Just curious is all....my girlfriend and I have been going out for two years and the topic of sex was brought up, something we talk about alot, but never actually plan to do it for a long time. So, anyway, what does everyone feel the first time? ...

I like her and need tips on how to handle myself, on our first date...advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5285 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - i've known this girl through an online social site for 3 months. she's a lesbian and is also the first and only girl i have ever liked, and even though we have never met but my gut feeling tells me that if we both pursue further we might end up ...

Married man problems..what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5285 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - i got accidentally involved with a married man who is my boss too i m 37 and he's 55 we never did sex but ya bit oral activities i like talking to him as i m unmarried he's ask me not to call before his wife and keeps all measures to hide his affair ...

Heard a lot of bad things about this guy...should I drop him or give him a fair shot?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5285 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - Ok this is kind of long but I really need your guys's help. Ok I just started highschool and there's this boy that im very confused about. He's a sophmore but should be a junior because he got held back cause he had to go to rehab......

Her bf talks dirty to me on msn...is this right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, A few weeks ago, my best friend got really drunk at a party and got off with this bloke who has been our friend for ages. The next day at school, they decided to hook up. Now personally i dont think that ts right to go out with someone...

We made up again, but I am crushed about his fling with another woman when were apart! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5284 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - I am in a huge rut. I was with this guy for 2 years before breaking up and we each slept with someone else. The difficult part is that for one we were engaged, and also that we had a child and 1 month and a half after he was born, we broke up and I ...

I want to move forward with our relationship, but I won't until I have some sort of commitment! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5285 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - Ok.. so my situation is a little complicated i'm afraid. Basically theres this guy, and me and him have been friends for a long time. And he liked me a while back, but I wasnt interessted cos I was getting over my ex. Now over summer we hung out a ...

Should I tell him I meant it when I said that I loved him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - Last night I said in my sleep "i love you" to my bf for the first time. We have never said 'i love you' to each other yet before. I sleep talk quiet often, but usally I either just mumble things he cant understand or im yelling and screaming when I ...

I broke up with my b/f because I love my teacher

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I am 16 years old and am in love with my former teacher. I know there is so many questions on this website about this issue, but I just need some specific help. I have known him for 3 years now, and he taught me for two. I moved away at the end ...

Is she leaving me hanging?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

8 November 2009 (M) - I have recently decided to reconnect with my old school friends and most importantly, reconnect with a woman who I had a crush on in high school but never had the courage to ask out. I met her on Facebook and I post chat with her on a somewhat re...

Boy troubles - which one should I choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - Hello! Im dumb with boy troubles. Six months ago, I was suppost to date this guy called Zak whos 16, Im 15. Everything was working out perfect, until we got into a fight, and stopped talking. Then I dated this guy called Dylan for three months, e...

He will live with his mum so we won't have any privacy, am I overreacting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5285 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - my ex and i might get back and so I am probably jumping ahead but he did tell me he was thinking of giving up his apartment and just stay at his mom's to save money..most nights he is there anyways so she isn't alone. The idea of it doesn't bother ...

All I want is to fall in love with someone that will love me back. Is that too much to ask for?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5286 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I was wondering if I could get some advice on how to attract love into my life. I ended up asking a man out and we dated for about six months. Before then I had not dated since before my marriage and have been divorced for ten...

How can I tell?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - dear cupid, I want to have sex with my soon to be husband but the problem is that I dont know if he wants to have sex with me. How can I tell if he wants to have sex with me before the weding? ...

I am sick of the arguing... should I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - im 17 years old and im a really cool girl and ive been dating this guy on and off for atleast 2 years, but we have known each other since i was in 7th grade. i love him very very much and i would do anything for him. but idk if he would do the same ...

He's sending mixed signals - does he like me or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

8 November 2009 (F) - ok here it goes..... i like this guy in uni, we met offically just over a week ago but i liked him before then.. whats been happening is there is some major flirting and chatting when we are sober, and when i was drunk i propa came on to him but he...