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Archived questions from: 14 November, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Should I be concerned about his fetishes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5279 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years who I love dearly, constantly talks about sex. He masterbates at least 2 or more times a day. We do not live together, but we spent the weekends together and some nights during the week. We both are 53 yrs old. He has star...

I think he likes me, so why is he flirting with my friend in front of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - Theres this guy at school that i like and everytime we see each other in the hallways we have this slow moment and just stare. we dont really talk we just say hi and hug. when im with one of my friends he flirts with them right infront of me. im n...

Was his friend trying to get us together or get in the way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5278 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - I was sitting in the cafeteria and the guy I like was sitting at another table with his friend..later another one of his friends walked in with a girl that likes him too. So the girl like stops and doesn't walk over to the guy I like but his fri...

Dating a colleague with a history of despression. Should I listen to my family?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5279 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - I am 24 and have made friends with a guy at work. He is three years younger than me and we seem to get on great both at work and hanging out. My family have perceptions about him, as he has a short history of depression and comes across as distant ...

I think he likes me. How do I find out for sure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5279 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - i like this boy, we are really good friends, i know he likes me and i like him. when is he gonna ask me out? or for me to be his gf? i've know him since the august like somewhere around the 20th, and we became good friends, i really like him ...

What would you say if your 16 year old daughter asked for a hotel room?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - Hey, this question is mainly aimed at mum's opinions but any others are welcome, and I'd rather you say what you think within reason and without too much of a lecture thanks. Basically, I've been with my boyfriend 1 year 8 months, I'm fifteen and ...

He's still living in the same house as his wife and it's causing major problems...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - I am seeing a guy who i met 3 months ago. He is still living in the same house as his wife, they are getting divorced, she refuses to put the house up for sale. He says he hates her and yet he allows her to spend his money, go out for meals with her...

Life as someone's slave is hard, especially when they treat you worse than a bit of shit on their shoe!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - if i knew what to do i wouldn't be here but i need help and advice the man i'm with has left me with no friends and feeling like my life isn't important enough to discuss sometimes i feel if i start talking who'd actually listen. i'm with my pa...

Why does a girl try to make a guy jealous? Could he like her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5279 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - I'm not sure if the guy I like has any interest in her, they do know each other and used to talk, but now they don't talk anymore, I don't know what happened but he ignores her and acts like he doesn't know her. She's competitive towards me, and I'm ...

She had sex a week after our break up, two years later I still feel betrayed! Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

14 November 2009 (M) - I have been dating this girl for a little over 2 years now. Everything is great in our relationship and we both have sex regularly. There is one thing that came up and keeps coming up. When we first started dating, I had a jealous friend on the side...

Lately she has been acting like she is mad at me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

14 November 2009 (M) - I have been dating this girl for around 2 months now, and lately she has been acting like she is mad at me. For the first few weeks everything was fine, we got along, we kissed, we cuddled, that sort of stuff. For about 2 weeks now she has been ...

Cheating... or all innocent?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - hey, so my boyfriend is sooo sweet and perfect. at first he didnt want to show any affection in public, i think he was scared. i am his first long relationship but now he shows all affection in public and we are very very close and he is awesome! ...

Is there a chance that this relationship can be saved?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - For the last five months I was living with my boyfriend. He moved in only a few weeks after we started dating but we have been friends for several years. Things were going great, our kids got along well and we all had fun together. The problem is we ...

She surprised me by saying she wants sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

14 November 2009 (M) - Allo My girlfriend and i have been together for two years, and we're fine and dandy. Recently though she surprised me by saying she wants sex. She surprised me more then by asking 'What if I was drunk and I had sex with another guy at a party a...

I want to kiss my boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - I want to kiss my boyfriend. okay so im in the 8th grade and I realy like this boy. The thing is less than a week ago he was going out with one of my friends and she broke up with him. I asked her for premision and now im going out with him. The ...

I've fallen for somebody who doesn't want a relationship with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - Im in a huge fix.I've fallen for somebody who doesnt want a relationship with me.He's scared of commitment and also according to him our schedules dont allow us to see each other enough anyways.We met almost a year ago,and I kind of assumed he didnt ...

I think I love him and I think he likes me back. I want to have sex... but will it fit?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - I have a couple questions. my first question is that I have know this boy since i was 2 years old and i always thought of us as just friends and now i think i love him. I am 14 and he is almost 17. I think he likes me back but i just dont know wat...

If all he wanted was sex, why is he still talking to me? But if he really likes me why wouldn't he take me out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - There is this guy that lives in the same dorms as me at university. we got talking and he has invited me in a few times. But then he made a move on me. and he also asked me if i would be up for having sex with him. He was clearly just up for some...

They judge him because he's a different race!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - So, I really like this guy. He flirts with me all the time, but I try to ignore it because I don't want to get things started because he's moving away next year. He's an awesome athlete, will most likely go pro. some day. He's taller than me by ...

What should I do about this guy I'm stuck on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - Ok, so every girl has that one guy in her life, there might be a couple of others, but either way its always gunna be him and you will never be able to get over him. Well i think ive found him. He's absolutly gorgeous, and i can't stop thinking ...