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Archived questions from: 9 November, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

We're like soulmates but she is quite insecure. How do I handle this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5284 days ago

9 November 2009 (M) - well this is long so i'll make it as short as i can!! i'm 26 and have been best friends with a girl of the same age for 10 years. We have always done everything together (excluding physical) and see each other several times a week and are in ...

My bf is going to see his ex...and I am not happy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is perhaps going to meet up with his ex as friends. Am I in my rights to say I am not at all happy about it. Or is this asking for the whole "choose me or her" thing. Help. And girls, please tell me how you'd feel and what you do, and ...

I want to fight for this girl...so anyone got any good tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

9 November 2009 (M) - Its me again. This one will be short and sweet i promise, no 1000 word questions this time. Background----------------------- 6 mos ago I had this little crush on a girl, except my vulgar best friend (unintentionally) complicated th...

My boyfriend is 25, my son is 27!

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9 November 2009 (F) - I am 47. My gorgeous boyfriend is 25.. my son is 27, I initially could not believe a guy younger than my son would be interested in me... but I have looked after my figure. We have a mind blowing relationship and both his and my parents have no ...

Is there too much going against us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 November 2009 (M) - I am 25 dating a 36 year old woman. The attraction is always there, but I am slowly getting past all the other factors. She had a kid, the age difference of course, and the social stigma of "cradle robbing". Do you think it’s ok? Do you think it can ...

Do I take a chance with this man even although I'm 10 years older than him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - I have been with a man 10 years younger than I am for nearly two years now. We were living together and made plans to get married, but I ended up backing out because I was too concerned about the age difference. Neither of us has children (I'm 39, ...

How to solve size incompatibility?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for more than 2 years and our sex has never been too great if we compare to our past relations. The problem is that my vagina is "too large" and his penis is "too small". I tried to do Kegel exercises but after 6 months...

How can I stop all these nasty jibes about my boyfriend just because he's dyslexic?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - So, about two months ago, I started dating a guy. He's my first boyfriend, and the one I lost my first kiss to. He's unbelievably nice, kind, and sweet. He always treats me well and makes sure I am alright. He calls me all the time just to make sure ...

I'm scared I'm pregnant again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - I'm going to try to make this as short as possible. We were dating for ten months. But then he moved away and I was healing and I was in good process, but he moved back unexpectingly and I ran into him at a party and my heart just dropped. I got ...

Remaining friends with the other woman...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 November 2009 (M) - I had an emotional affair for nine months (no sex). I finally settled everything with the other woman and came clean to my girlfriend. I'm proud of how I handled it, though not proud it happened. The other woman and I parted on good terms, as ...

Am I too late to win him over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - how do i know if this guy likes me or just wants sex! ok so he took me to my prom i wasnt interested in him after prom he fell in "love" with me always at my house and stuff.... then he found out i like to party and stuff and hes actually seen other ...

Do you think he's comfortable enough to meet me alone instead of with mutual friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5279 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - I hope you dont think im totally stupid for this but ive got a problem wanting to meet up with a friend of mine, we;ve been friends for two years now and i still cant bring myself to ask him to go for a drink one daytime alone. Dont get me wrong ...

Should I continue with the 22 year old or with the 15 year old?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 November 2009 (M) - Hi cupid, am a young guy of 22.am very grateful to been with you here. my question is just relationship question. i met this girl on the internet about three months ago, she's from Philippine and am from Nigeria. she's the same age with me. i love ...

I promised I would, but now I am not sure if I should break up with my girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 November 2009 (M) - So here's the situation. My ex broke up with me months ago. I'm insanely in love with her. In the months following she would hold my hand and stuff, but tell me we can only be friends "for now" then she got a new bf, and i figured it was t...

He thinks I don't enjoy our sex life because I don't come

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months. We have had many ups and downs but we are both crazy about each other. The only issues we have is when it comes to sex. He says he doesn't feel like a man because he can't make me cum and i'm the first pe...

I don't want to be a weekend girlfriend. What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm 24 and the guy who likes me is 25. We met each other 4 weeks ago in a bar. We had so much fun that night, after that he started texting me, we went out for dinner, and a couple of times after that, everything was going well and I was falling ...

My bf has withdrawn emotionally, now that I'm pregnant! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - Bf used to spoil me at the start of the relationship -used to give me gifts etc - then I have now fallen pregnant - am half way through - its been on and off for the whole 20 wks so far, however he started to withdraw emotionally etc. I asked him ...

She fancies my man...do I confront her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - hi. my best friend fancies my man. i told him and he said that he loves me and always will. i believe him. the thing is every one can see what she is doing.i feel that she is trying to push me out by taking over my life. dont know what to do as if i ...

Should I just leave him alone and give him time or maybe I have totally scared him off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - I am a bit confused by this guy. I see him around my local pubs quite a bit and he always had lots of girls around him. I thought he was a bit of a jerk. I had a feeling he had a thing for me because he would always stare at me and look at me when ...

He told me he was a "sick man" and now I havent heard from him in a month, what does this mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - I have been talking to this man for 6 months. We both fell in love with each other. One night, we were texting each other...it was the only way at the time because of his job. Everything was going well. Then at the end, he said, "I'm a sick man". I ...

At my age, being realistic, what are the chances of lasting and marrying her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

9 November 2009 (M) - I'm 18, shes 19. we was best friend for four years before we got together. we got together and we broke up, but it wasnt long before we realised we cant do it without each other, and now we are back together again. we have our ups and downs as wit...

Did he just hook up with me to boost my self-esteem or does he really have feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - I started working at a nearby resort when I was 16 and instantly started to crush on one single manager.. We have always been able to talk and get along great. He is twice my age though and has a kid half my age. I am now 19 and he 39 and I've b...

Why does no one seem to like me as girlfriend material or want to hire me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - I'm so confused about life, I have no job and no boyfriend. I feel I'm comfortable and confident with myself so I don't understand why guys only see me as a sexual partner and not a girlfriend. Could it be because I emit I want a boyfriend from my ...

Why would someone say all of those things and then just sort of disappear?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - This guy and I dated for a few months, then he moved away, and we decided to be "just friends." I am fine with that. We had become very close in a short period of time, and we have a very special friendship, or so I thought (not FWB, if that's what ...

Why hasn't he asked me to be his girl yet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - my guy is white and i'm black. i have never dated a white guy before so it is hard for me to figure him out. usually when i date black guys, the whole process goes like this. we talk on the phone, hangout, and after a while they ask me to be their ...

Do you think he really loves me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - i hv bf for 4 months wer both married we go on dating i am confused f he really lovs me bec during our date he nver spend even single cents and if i ddnt tx him he dont hv the initiatve to tx me woud u think he really loves me the way he did but he ...

Can a guy in his late 30's be interested in a girl in her late 20's for a serious relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - Could a guy in his late 30s be interested in a woman in her late 20s for a more serious relationship? We are 10 years apart, almost to the exact day....

How long after hooking up should I wait to contact her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

9 November 2009 (M) - Last Night I went out with this girl and after some drinks we came back to my place and had amazing sex. In the morning I drove her home and she gave me her number. Now I'm wondering when I should contact her again. Two female friends of mine say...

My Ex Bf is sending mixed signals, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - this is going to be a little long so please bear with me, My ex-Bf's older than me, I've always been attracted to older men, but he's been married once, has a daughter by the woman he married and has a son by a girl he just dated for a few years, ...

Is asking for a 'break' the same as breaking up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - i need advice. been dating my boyfriend for 15 months long distance. we saw each other once every month for an extended weekend and had several week long visits. i have met practically his whole extended fam, one of the week-long visits was with ...

He flirts with me. Does that mean he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - Alright.. I'm 13 and I've known my neighbor who is the same age as me scence I was 2. I've liked him ever scence I was like 10... I think i might be in love with him now because he's seen me thro the the good the bad and the ugly... He's been wit...

I'm shy. Does she think I'm ont interested? Should I approach her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 November 2009 (M) - There is this really pretty girl that I like at church. She and I are both freshmen in college, but go to different universities in the same city. I'm pretty sure she likes me back because I catch her looking at me many times, and when I make eye ...

My academic performance is suffering because of my attraction - I'm afraid he'll think I'm mediocore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - I have written before about a teacher's assistant that I have developed feelings for. He is a Ph.D candidate and I am in my senior year. We are both very shy people but we have been warming up to each other, being more familiar and communicating ...

He wants me to be 'his woman', but I suspect I'm not the only one.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5286 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - Hey guys... He's been asking me to be his woman, but honestly I dont feel like I'm the only one that he's seeing...even though I met his mom. That doesnt mean nothing though. He's good looking and attracts many girls. When I went to see him, I we...

I'm not sure how interested he is. How should I act with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - I'm 20 and am currently liking someone who I work with. I've worked there for about 3 months, and the man involved is 18. I have always had a crush on him since I started but he only started noticing that I liked him about 3 weeks ago when we ...

Confused...is he interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5286 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - dear cupid, i am really confused about this guy that i think im really starting to like!! it has been a while since i met someone that im slightly interested in since my last break up. and finally im starting to like someone but i am really confused...