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How to seduce a lady & have sex

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Question - (9 March 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 11 February 2010)
A male Nigeria age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Wants 2 no how 2 completly seduce a lady and hv sex wit her. Cos i hv been wit 4 girls bt non respond properly.d 1st didnt allow me 2 touch her panties but we ar kissing. D 2nd after much strugle i remove her panties but refuse me 2 penetrate. 3rd only alow me 2 romance her. 4rd i manage 2 use my finger becos she said dat she is stil a virgin,so i use my finger bt no blood 2 proof. So can i know hw 2 get in completly.

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A male reader, sway baby Ghana +, writes (11 February 2010):

man i tell u got to take ur time ur time will surely come and trust u will never forget it than rushing into it!!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2009):

It is not about your seducing skills. It is about meeting the right girl who has no sexual hang ups. Wait for her. Good luck.

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A female reader, flicka23 Mauritius +, writes (9 March 2009):

flicka23 agony auntHello, I think all you want is to have sex and is not even interested in the girls. As soon as you get a bit intimate with the girls, you profit to put your fingers in their panties and I'm sure they were shocked as they did not expect you to be so quick at getting to their panties. And you seem to hold a misconception that a virgin will bleed if you put a finger in her private part, I can confirm that it's totally not true for my case.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2009):

it sounds like ur wanting a sexual experience, but are lookin to young girls to provide that for you. sorry mate but its not gona happen. u need to look for an older girl that is keen. dont push yourself on girls, coz trust me, they talk. and if u keep going u'll get a name for urself, and none of them will go anywhere near u.

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (9 March 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntYou are a very scary person! DO NOT force this issue with women, they are responding properly to your behaviour! Be a gentleman treat them nicely and take things slowly, just because you are kissing a girl doesn't mean she wants you to start sticking your hands down her panties! Let alone have sex with you! This I suspect is why you are not getting anywhere, you are coming across like a bit of a sex maniac!

As I said take it slow and you will find a girl that want sex too, but don't just expect it from them!

And the fingering a virgin thing: there won't always be blood, that is a horrible myth that came from England in the dark ages, when ladies sat at home and did nothing more strenuous than embroidering tapestries. Now women play an very active and physical role in everyday life, and doing this can break their hymen, thus no bleeding when they first have sex. IT DOES NOT MEAN THEY ARE NOT A VIRGIN!

You really need to learn about sex before trying again, I bet you don't even have condoms do you? Stop being selfish if you want sex so badly that you don't care about her feelings go and see a prostitute!

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A male reader, Cowboy254 United States +, writes (9 March 2009):

Dude give it time man sex is something you share with someone you love wait till they are ready

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