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I've decided to swallow my boyfriend's semen, but I'm still scared.

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Question - (9 March 2009) 13 Answers - (Newest, 14 October 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, *iorable224 writes:

i've decided to swallow my bfs semen and i'm still nervous about it. i'm afraid i'll gag from the taste. people said it's better to let it shoot down your throat but i'm horrible at deep throating. i was wondering, does the semen shoot out fast into your mouth? or does it come out slow and kind of ooze? and if he cums a lot, will it come out of my mouth when i'm trying to swallow? please help with all of my questions! thank you

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A male reader, Htsn47 United States +, writes (14 October 2011):

Htsn47 agony auntMaybe you should let him ejaculate first on the abdomen. From your question about how fast it comes out, I get the feeling you might not have actually seen a man ejaculate before. You can perform oral sex but finish him with your hand - it'll still feel good to him - and maybe take away one of the unknowns that is scaring you. You'll be able get an idea of how fast and how much, even (if you want), taste a little bit.

Also, I'd ask him to tell you when he's on the verge of ejaculating. That way you'll have just a little warning to position yourself and it wouldn't be as much of a surprise.

Finally, it shouldn't feel like it's something you have to do. My GF is very good at oral sex and I enjoy it a lot, and she doesn't let me ejaculate in her mouth. We've missed signals a few times and she swallows whatever ended up in her mouth without a complaint, but I don't like the idea of her doing something she doesn't like.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2011):

Yes, as was mentioned earlier volume of semen (cum) varies according to many factors, such as recent orgasm, age of man (IMO older men tend to have less volume) etc. I can swallow well because I make sure to have him at the back of my throat when the time comes and dealing with an older man (early 50's) there is less of it.

Try to relax into the experience, taking your time to kiss, suck and lick... but if it helps you swallow as fast as you can when he cums. Yet don't just pull off as soon as he comes. Allow him to simmer down and enjoy it as much as possible. Hopefully he gives you the same treatment to fully enjoy the experience of oral sex.....

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2009):

Hi, Don't feel pressurised - men are too demanding and have put out rumours about girls swallowing - I don't know about you, but anything touching the back of my throat makes me gag, big time; I think that is physically natural (the so-called 'gag reflex'). I am a male pre-op transexual, so came onto semen (sorry, no pun intended) a bit late. BUT it makes a great basis for a bloody mary - after all, if he wants you to swallow, why not him as well? Lots of vodka, tomato juice, maybe some spice - fresh from the font? And has he done you the compliment yet - I think licked first, swallow later......

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2009):

I personnal swallow my guys cum alot. And love it. Have tissue or a drink of water handy just in case. As for taste, diet makes the taste vary a little, but mainly it taste bitter but sweet at the same time. As for amount it all depends how good it feels. and to help you swallow better, just think of how happy your guy will be when you swallow his load.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2009):

swollow it.. dont be soft... just make sure u have a drink on the side ready to grab n ull be fine xx

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (10 March 2009):

DoubleM agony auntI'll add a bit more. There is no reason that you must swallow all the cum your first time, or several times. Not a good idea. After the porn movie "Deep Throat" was popular about 1970 or so, many girls wanted to try giving head. It was easier for them to suck up until the point of squirting, maybe swallow the first squirt or two, then let the remaining ejaculation coat their face or titties.

You will probably be more comfortable just "tasting" some sperm the first few times. You should probably not even try to take a full load right away. Give some hand jobs a few times, and slurp some of the juice off the tip after he releases. He will enjoy that and you may as well.

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A female reader, Beybii_Boo United Kingdom +, writes (9 March 2009):

Beybii_Boo agony auntum.... no it cums out quite slowley and just fills your motuh swallow it will he ejaculates but make sure he has no STDs of HIV

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A female reader, k_c100 United Kingdom +, writes (9 March 2009):

k_c100 agony auntThat STD screen is the most important thing first before you go ahead and do this, you dont want to put your health at risk by doing something nice for him!

Now I personally have a very sensitive gag reflex and I dont particularly enjoy giving blow jobs or swallowing (but it can be nice with the right guy). I really dont like the taste or texture of it - it makes me feel pretty sick. But dont let that scare you - there are ways of making it less nasty!

First of all, get your boyfriend to pleasure himself earlier in the day (or the night before if thats all that is possible) as this will reduce the amount of semen. If he has let it build up for days then there will be a lot and it wont be nice for you, so ideally he will of got rid of some of it that day (and a couple of days before too!)

Secondly, have a drink and tissues next to you ready for afterwards. The drink will help wash it down and remove any taste left in your mouth. The tissues are in case you really dont like it and need to get rid of it.

It wont ooze out of your mouth as long as he doesnt have too much semen stored up, and it is probably best if you dont try and deep throat it otherwise you may end up gagging and then it will come back out of your mouth! With regards to the speed, this varies and you will never be fully prepared. The best thing to do is for him to let you know just before he is ready, so that way you wont be taken by suprise.

It is not that bad and you do get used to it after a few times. The key for me is controlling the amount that he produces - a smaller amount makes it so much better!

I hope this helps!

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (9 March 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntOk more importantly, has your boyfriend had an STD screen? If not get that done first because I'm sure you use condoms when you have sex, anything he could give you virginally you can get in your mouth! So safe blow jobs until you KNOW for certain he hasn't got anything nasty!

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (9 March 2009):

DoubleM agony auntIt will possibly taste quite bitter, somewhat like the flavor you would experience chewing an aspirin, I'm told. Yet many women obviously love it, and the flavor varies. I think that men release semen at various rates, depending partly upon the degree of stimulation. And it varies according to age.

A young man is likely to squirt his semen a bit more forcefully than an older man. There may be three to eight squirts during his orgasm, perhaps as much as a tablespoon. The first squirt is usually the biggest one. Some girls I've known would gulp the first one or two squirts right away in order to make room for the rest.

It is generally said that a diet heavy in fruit and fruit juices helps sweeten the flavor. Drinking pineapple juice a day or two in advance may improve flavor. Healthy sperm is harmless and even good for you because it is nourishing. And finally, it is a good idea to have glass of favorite wine or other drink handy to wash it down.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2009):

Hi,

I can understand why you are confused about swallowing semen. Because once, we had the same problem with my girlfriend.We both liked deep throating but she never let me cum through her mouth.She prefered me to shoot down her throat. She always complained about the taste of the semen. It will be more easy to let him shoot down your throat. So, you won't taste the semen at all..

Blowjob and deep throating is so nice. Enjoy it dear...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2009):

The taste really isnt all that bad, kinda salty. More salty if he eats alot of salt though. Usually it does shoot kinda fast into your mouth but I have learned that it depends on the guy. However fast it shoots elsewhere is how fast it will be in your mouth. I have never had it come out of my mouth while trying to swallow, I dont think there is enough for that. I believe its only a couple of teaspoons worth of liquid. Dont overthink that fact that you are swallowing, just do it. You may gag at first but he wont be bothered by that, and that reflex lessens with time. Really, the more you obsess about it the worse it will be. Just relax and have a good time. Concentrate on how good you are making him feel. Good luck!

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A female reader, PeanutButter United States +, writes (9 March 2009):

PeanutButter agony auntthere is no way of telling how much, how fast or in what direction it'll happen as every time can be different - if your worried about gagging or choking, let him give you an indication wen he's about to cum so you'll not be taken by surprise - also, get him to eat a lot of pineapple and pineapple juice, it makes it taste better and doesnt mar the whole experience with a bad taste :)

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