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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:A few weeks ago on Valentines Day an old flame got back in touch and wished me a Happy Valentines day. It was all very innocent so I replied back and we ended the texting pleasantly. Anyway a couple of weeks later I went out for my birthday and as i was leaving the restaurant I saw him at the bar. The following day there was a text from him saying- hey, thought I saw you last night- hope you are ok. Anyway we texted a bit again and a couple of days later he sent me a text saying did I fancy seeing a film with him that week sometime. Now I was a bit cautious because in the past he has been back in touch and messed me a round a bit- but i thought- what harm could seeing a film do. I texted him saying I was free thurs if he was and asking for him to ring me. He promised to ring the next day but didn't- but sent an apology and said he would ring the next day- he did, and we arranged cinema night. We had a nice night, and I was shocked that he didn't even try and kiss me as i felt the chemistry there again. Anyway I didn't hear from him till the evening the next day when he said, are you having a good night i can meet you at yours. I was out with my friends so i said meet us in the pub. he was out with his friend, and i saw him late in the night, but we only spoke as he was leaving. he then phoned and said could he come round. I said no, i was too drunk, and he said I was blowing him out. The next day i texted to say sorry i was drunk and did he have a good night and he said wouldn't it be good if we were in bed together. I said that would be rushing things and he said he would be a good boy and only kiss me. Anyway the next day he asked to see me again and I said I had planned lunch with my friends. I texted him when I got home and he asked to come round for a cup of tea- i thought i would say yes, but i was determined not to go any further then a kiss. Anyway I didn't get a reply after I texted so i said don't come round then- he then texted and said I he was asleep and my text had just woken him. So i replied if you are tired- just leave it then to which I've had no reply. What is wrong with this guy. Is he playing games, is he after only one thing, does he like me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe sent a very apologetic text saying sorry he hadn't called but he had been stressed with work and that he could spend fri and sat with me if i wanted. So we have arranged to go for a drink on sat. But i'm still doubtful about whether it will happen or not! You shouldn't really feel like that but hes let me down so many times i'm never sure. he left me a nice message on my phone last night! i know i should really get this guy out of my life but something draws me back! i'll let u know if the date happens or not!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI didn't hear from him until the Wednesday- when he sent a text saying- you not talking to me. So I just ignored that and asked how he was- he said he as on his way back from a football game and when could he next see me. So i said the weekend. So he said what about Friday night or saturday. so i said i wa busy Fri but sat ok- he said it could be difficult cuz he was going to a game but he would sort something out. Anyway, i didn'y hear anything until fri tea when i get a call as i'm walking my dog. i told him i would ring him back as i couldn't hear cuz of the traffic. I rang him after 20 mins but got no answer, i texted him later in the night then he rang me and asked if he could come round- i said it was too late as it was half eleven- and i was suspicious he was just after a bootycall! Anyway he still hadn't mentione any proper plans for sat so i went ahead and arranged to see my cousin- at about :30 in the afternoon i got a text saying- so am i seeing you tomight then? so i said cuz he had not mentioned it i had already arranged something. he semed annoyed- so i said i was free sunday- to which i got no reply... but later in the night i get a text saying- hope you are having a good night, so i replied and said yes. Anyway i don't hear anything until Monday afternoon when i get a text saying- when will you be home tonight? i texted back saying wasn't sure but i would ring him- so i rang him tea-time but got no answer! I waited for him to call back- he never did. Its now Wednesday and not heard a thing! Can't understand what is going on in this guys head!!! Do you think hes been after a bootycall type relationship and now hes disappeared cuz i'm not playing ball??? I just feel really confused as i thought he was gonna be different this time. Hes 7 years younger then me so maybe he dosn'y really see me as girlfrind material and just sees me as someone for a bit of fun??
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