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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey, i have a dilemma, i really like this boy. Im 18 and we have kissed (snogged) eachother twice now ..about 2 months apart..in the same night club. I knew him from my college and ive really started to like him. I somehow gathered the courage to text him and for about an hour we were texting, asking questions like what have you been up to? etc. However on the last two texts he didnt ask a question he just answered mine ..so im kinda getting that hes not interested, but wen we were out together he was all really chatty with me and kissing and we even sat down and talked n tht, which was really nice :) ..do you think hes not interested?. When he didnt ask me a question back through text i text him asking him something like hows work? and he text back saying how it was and that was it, so i text back asking him something else ..and he text back answering but didnt ask me anything back to like keep the conversation going if you get what i mean? .. so i havent text back now..what should i do? i really like the guy, but i know the game so i dont wana just be all clingy and text back ...should i wait for him to maybe text back again? ..or? i dunno? any advice? ..............x
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reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (22 June 2009):
Hmm well...like others said, he may not be into texting. BUT if he's interested in you, then he would be interested in what you're doing as well regardless if it's through texts. I would lay off of him. You're chasing him right now and asking him all sorts of questions...you're doing all the work trying to get this guy and he gets to chill. Don't text him again unless he texts you first.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2009): I can't speak for every guy but for me texting is hassle, I don't like it. My girlfriend used to to try and start text chats with me too when we started dating, I hated it. Not the being in contact thing just the constant beep of a new message and having to type a response. Often I'd be watching a movie or busy doing something when I'd get a text, the problem with that is that I'd have to stop what I was doing to respond rather quickly or she'd get insecure and start thinking I'm not interested.
My point is texting is very impersonal, you can only send relatively short responses and it (for most guys I know) be quite tiresome. What you're describing is not and indication of a lack of interest. Texting is a crap way of getting to know someone, why don't you just ask him out on a date?
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reader, athenas +, writes (22 June 2009):
hey there!!! Honestly it looks like this guy is not interested in you he may act all nice n sweet when u guys go out well duh! he wants something from u at the moment. I wouldnt waste my time with a guy like that. Good Luck!!!
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