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writes:Hi I am a very athletic 17 year old male with a good muscle build and I am a nice guy who know how to get stuff done and will follow orders if they are given but anyways, all of my friends have had sex or are in a romantic relationship with someone else. I feel horribly left out. I think I am ready for a love life but, it is nonexistent to me. I would like to feel what sex is like, because everyone goes around bragging how pleasurable it is, and I am still embarrassed that I am a virgin (to both kissing and sex). A lot of my friends are dating people in collage or that are far older then them. Can someone please give me advice on this?
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reader, tron +, writes (25 June 2009):
tron is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI honestly don't know what do to from here because, I am so depressed from lack of love.
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reader, tron +, writes (25 June 2009):
tron is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBut I am worried that it will never happen, I go to an extremely conservative Christian high school (even though im Atheist), and I know I won't find anyone there. I go to UCLA in Fall 2010 to major in film and digital art, and even then I am still worried about never finding a girlfriend or love there, because I have had no experience with romantic relationships. Sure making friends is nice too, but I think its just time to find someone. Also, for the last two years, I have been in depression, because of this and the incident that caused my depression 2 years ago, I tried to ask someone to a dance and they told me to "go fuck off", and its been eating away at me ever since. :(
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (21 June 2009):
 Dont feel embarrassed! being a virgin is nothing to be ashamed about (ok our culture puts an emphasis on breaking virginity) but im all for waiting til the right person comes along before giving it up. its got to be a momentous moment!
the main thing is your happy with your life, being a virgin shouldnt effect this.
to many people are so busy rushing into it that they make a big mess of their first time... quiet literally.
yes you feel left out, but dont dwell on it, when the times comes if you find the right girl you adore, & then the magic will happen!
good luck
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reader, Wreck +, writes (21 June 2009):
 You could do what satin said , or you can go out and try to be confident about your self you sound like your pretty confident right now i mean what girl what like a fit guy hell yeah girls like that shit.. haha , go up to some girls at your school let them know whats up you know like wheres all the parties at try to get more social ... dance with girls .. let them know your confident they like confident guys.. but dont get to cocky u kno ... just approach them smooth ... well yeah thats the only option... or find your self a girl freind.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2009): Sex for one is only meaningful and pleasurable when it is with someone you love. People who just have sex for the temporary pleasure end up having a lonelier life. Find a decent girl first and work your way from their. It is you living your life not your friends. And friends like that will never talk about the bad side to sex since all they want to do is brag ^^
Good Luck I hope you have a little more patience.
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